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chachi · 03-15-2011, 07:19 AM

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Originally Posted by yorkie_mama22

I just feel like I don't deserve to have a yorkie. I love Lola very much and she hasn't left my side. I haven't let the dogs sleep in my bed for some time now but both girls been in my bed since. Lola always slept cuddled with Zach and they did everything together. Now I've been holding her and cuddling her all day, going for walks and spending lots of time together. Its just so unfair. My house is so quiet without my boy. It was just last week I was yelling at him to cut it out because he loved to annoy his sisters and then play all innocent.

You are deserving of a yorkie. If someone else on here was in the same circumstance would you tell them they needed to hold on to their guilt. I think you need to accept this is an accident and grieve and get to where you can think of the good memories in time.

Patti · 03-15-2011, 07:42 AM

I am so sorry.

chandracz · 03-15-2011, 07:51 AM

Stop beating yourself up. You and Lola need each other now more than ever!

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Originally Posted by yorkie_mama22

I just feel like I don't deserve to have a yorkie. I love Lola very much and she hasn't left my side. I haven't let the dogs sleep in my bed for some time now but both girls been in my bed since. Lola always slept cuddled with Zach and they did everything together. Now I've been holding her and cuddling her all day, going for walks and spending lots of time together. Its just so unfair. My house is so quiet without my boy. It was just last week I was yelling at him to cut it out because he loved to annoy his sisters and then play all innocent.

jmdt · 03-15-2011, 07:55 AM

OH MY GOODNESS!!!! I am just reading this. I have a terrible lump in my stomach. What devistating news. You must be crushed. Sooooooo sorry to hear you lost your beloved Zach. I do believe he is with little Stormy. Now it was his turn to keep her company and play with her. He knows your girls are going to be just fine with you. Stormy needed him now. I think of Stormy quite often and she is always in my prayers. Please don't beat yourself up about this. Accidents happen. If were your child would you say you are not worthy and give her up for adoption??? I don't think so. Stay strong. Your girls need you right now. Everything will be ok.
I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

chandracz · 03-15-2011, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by jmdt

OH MY GOODNESS!!!! I am just reading this. I have a terrible lump in my stomach. What devistating news. You must be crushed. Sooooooo sorry to hear you lost your beloved Zach. I do believe he is with little Stormy. Now it was his turn to keep her company and play with her. He knows your girls are going to be just fine with you. Stormy needed him now. I think of Stormy quite often and she is always in my prayers. Please don't beat yourself up about this. Accidents happen. If were your child would you say you are not worthy and give her up for adoption??? I don't think so. Stay strong. Your girls need you right now. Everything will be ok.
I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Connie · 03-15-2011, 08:00 AM

I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I send hugs and heartfelt sympathy.

107barney · 03-15-2011, 09:12 AM

RIP Zach.

Micah my love · 03-15-2011, 09:22 AM

I am so sorry

143julz · 03-15-2011, 09:29 AM

So sorry for your loss....Lola needs you more so now than ever, rehoming her now would be so much more devestating to her....stay stong hun

Buster Brown · 03-15-2011, 09:31 AM

I am so sorry to hear about the sad passing of your true friend and companion Zach. Please know that You are a good person and Mommy to your sweet furkids. A awful accident happened which was not your fault. Lola has all ready lost one beloved family member she needs your love and companionship even more now. I loved a passage that Lisaly sent to another YT member on the passing of their sweet baby by Robin Downing DVM We sat together for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives.
Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know why." Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me - I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. He said, "Everybody is born so that they can learn how to live a good life - like loving everybody and being nice, right?" The four-year-old continued, "Well, animals already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long."
I am sorry that Zach's stay had to be so brief. But I know he was loved and that is the most important thing in life. My deepest condolences.

Rhetts_mama · 03-15-2011, 09:36 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. RIP little one.

loveshay · 03-15-2011, 09:43 AM

I am soooo sorry, my heart breaks for you....please don't blame yourself, it was an accident.

Sending prayers and good thoughts your way...{{hugs}}

miabellaamoure · 03-15-2011, 11:36 AM

R.I.P. Zach somewhere over the

I can not imagine rehoming my surviving dogs after losing one...that would be a sensless tragedy, imo.

Pixie Girl · 03-15-2011, 12:37 PM

So sorry for your loss. RIP

JMuedog · 03-15-2011, 02:08 PM

So sorry to read this story. Please don't blame yourself.

03-15-2011, 07:42 AM	#47
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	I am so sorry. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

03-15-2011, 07:55 AM	#49
jmdt YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Long Island, NY USA Posts: 3,498	OH MY GOODNESS!!!! I am just reading this. I have a terrible lump in my stomach. What devistating news. You must be crushed. Sooooooo sorry to hear you lost your beloved Zach. I do believe he is with little Stormy. Now it was his turn to keep her company and play with her. He knows your girls are going to be just fine with you. Stormy needed him now. I think of Stormy quite often and she is always in my prayers. Please don't beat yourself up about this. Accidents happen. If were your child would you say you are not worthy and give her up for adoption??? I don't think so. Stay strong. Your girls need you right now. Everything will be ok. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. __________________ Coco, Pebbles, Trixie, and Wally LOVE MY BABIES!!

03-15-2011, 08:00 AM	#51
Connie Loved by Maddie & Libby Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: North Dakota Posts: 10,732	I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I send hugs and heartfelt sympathy. __________________ Custom doggie dresses and vests Memory is a country where I can go to see your face - but where do I go when I miss your embrace?

03-15-2011, 09:12 AM	#52
107barney T. Bumpkins & Co. Donating YT Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: New England Posts: 9,816	RIP Zach. __________________ T. Bumpkins & Co. Washable Doggie Pee Pads (Save 10% Enter YTSAVE10 at checkout) Cathy, Teddy, Winston and Baby Clyde...RIP angels Barney and Daisy

03-15-2011, 09:22 AM	#53
Micah my love Donating YT 100K Club Member & Top YorkieTalk Poster! Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: western KY Posts: 108,935	I am so sorry __________________ Betty & Micah my love + Yogi

03-15-2011, 09:29 AM	#54
143julz Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Largo, FL Posts: 1,294	So sorry for your loss....Lola needs you more so now than ever, rehoming her now would be so much more devestating to her....stay stong hun __________________ Dudley Doo and Dexter too!!! RIP (12/93-10/08) MY LIL JULZ!!!

03-15-2011, 09:31 AM	#55
Buster Brown Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Toluca Lake, CA Posts: 5,491	I am so sorry to hear about the sad passing of your true friend and companion Zach. Please know that You are a good person and Mommy to your sweet furkids. A awful accident happened which was not your fault. Lola has all ready lost one beloved family member she needs your love and companionship even more now. I loved a passage that Lisaly sent to another YT member on the passing of their sweet baby by Robin Downing DVM We sat together for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know why." Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me - I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. He said, "Everybody is born so that they can learn how to live a good life - like loving everybody and being nice, right?" The four-year-old continued, "Well, animals already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long." I am sorry that Zach's stay had to be so brief. But I know he was loved and that is the most important thing in life. My deepest condolences. __________________ CarolynBuster Brown "The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything."

03-15-2011, 09:36 AM	#56
Rhetts_mama Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 5,959 Blog Entries: 1	I am so sorry for your loss. RIP little one. __________________ Don't get your knickers in a knot. Nothing is solved and it just makes you walk funny.

03-15-2011, 09:43 AM	#57
loveshay YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: TN Posts: 556	I am soooo sorry, my heart breaks for you....please don't blame yourself, it was an accident. Sending prayers and good thoughts your way...{{hugs}} __________________ loving my lil SHAY

03-15-2011, 11:36 AM	#58
miabellaamoure ♥YORKIERESCUE.com♥ Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Menifee, CA Posts: 8,708	R.I.P. Zach somewhere over the I can not imagine rehoming my surviving dogs after losing one...that would be a sensless tragedy, imo. __________________ Jo Ann Abby, Bella , Phoebe & Violette....

03-15-2011, 12:37 PM	#59
Pixie Girl YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Byron Center Posts: 515	So sorry for your loss. RIP __________________ Pixie Girl & Pixie Dust

03-15-2011, 02:08 PM	#60
JMuedog Love My Little Cuties Donating Member Administrator Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Charleston, IL Posts: 9,899	So sorry to read this story. Please don't blame yourself. __________________ Jenni Finnigan & Gwenndilyn Forever in my heart