My baby 10 month old got tie with my 2 yr old male!! Help!

[BamaFan121s]

Originally Posted by Beya

She got a female to be with the male she had right so she probably wanted to mate them and have pups. It just happen a little to soon. Now she has to deal with it, Im sure her pups will be loved either way. If its a good thing for the owner then Im happy for you if not then Im sorry. But either way Im done with this subject. convo.

She stated in her first post that she didn't intend for them to be bred. Also, she said that she had the female spayed...so there will be no 'pups to deal with.'
I think maybe you misread...again.

[Beya]

ok well I dont know what the heck I've been reading she said something about not wanting to fix her female to soon cause when its done you cant go back and unfix it, and something about her female being nice,

Oh well then she must have lied about getting her female fixed and its all her fault. Ive never heard of a dog being fixed and then poppin up pregos cause her 2yrold male got on her 10mth old. I really dont care anymore cause its not my dog and why the heck am I still posting to this page.... Really thats it for me...

ITs All HER FAULT there are yall happy You have all fixed my miss reading eyes and now its all clear to me... yall have turned me, I agree with yall she should of been more RESPONSIBLE...

[kjcmsw]

Originally Posted by speleogirl37

And that is why so many dogs get tossed out and put to sleep. She can't afford a neuter, but she can afford to breed? And you agree with this?

I don't know enough about all the circumstances to agree or disagree. I'm just saying at this juncture one should not simply jump into irreversible things but with that comes a great amount of responsibility -- in this case, whether it's a temporary financial upset or not, one should take a great deal of caution with the handling of an unspayed female around a male. It "may" have been a case she was thinking she "might" breed later down the road, then the financial problem arose and thus the situation she found herself in and due to lack of supervision (and possibly breeding knowledge) the situation happened...so regardless of her circumstances or past plans...the problem has arose and we should simply try to help not agree or disagree without the entire back story...but as stated before I don't think it's necessary for someone to post the whole (possibly long & boring) story just so those won't bash...just post the question and those with the answers should respond to just that and assume there is a credible back story in there. Just so many assumptions from the responders and seems silly to go places that may have nothing to do with the issue --- if people are going to "assume" why not assume the positive rather than the negative???
Kendra
Kendra

[BamaFan121s]

Originally Posted by Beya

she said something about not wanting to fix her female to soon cause when its done you cant go back and unfix it, and something about her female being nice,

Oh well then she must have lied about getting her female fixed and its all her fault. Ive never heard of a dog being fixed and then poppin up pregos cause her 2yrold male got on her 10mth old.

No, the OP never said anything about wanting to wait to fix her female...that was another responder that said that.
From what the OP stated, she has had her female fixed SINCE the accidental breeding, thus eliminating the chance of a conceived litter.
LOL...I think you are confusing yourself...and possibly anyone else reading at this point.

[kjcmsw]

Originally Posted by Beya

ok well I dont know what the heck I've been reading she said something about not wanting to fix her female to soon cause when its done you cant go back and unfix it, and something about her female being nice,

Oh well then she must have lied about getting her female fixed and its all her fault. Ive never heard of a dog being fixed and then poppin up pregos cause her 2yrold male got on her 10mth old. I really dont care anymore cause its not my dog and why the heck am I still posting to this page.... Really thats it for me...

ITs All HER FAULT there are yall happy You have all fixed my miss reading eyes and now its all clear to me... yall have turned me, I agree with yall she should of been more RESPONSIBLE...

lol misread again...read a response not the orig post.

[cally930]

Originally Posted by kjcmsw

I don't know enough about all the circumstances to agree or disagree. I'm just saying at this juncture one should not simply jump into irreversible things but with that comes a great amount of responsibility -- in this case, whether it's a temporary financial upset or not, one should take a great deal of caution with the handling of an unspayed female around a male. It "may" have been a case she was thinking she "might" breed later down the road, then the financial problem arose and thus the situation she found herself in and due to lack of supervision (and possibly breeding knowledge) the situation happened...so regardless of her circumstances or past plans...the problem has arose and we should simply try to help not agree or disagree without the entire back story...but as stated before I don't think it's necessary for someone to post the whole (possibly long & boring) story just so those won't bash...just post the question and those with the answers should respond to just that and assume there is a credible back story in there. Just so many assumptions from the responders and seems silly to go places that may have nothing to do with the issue --- if people are going to "assume" why not assume the positive rather than the negative???
Kendra
Kendra

I agree - more positive posts than negative. People listen (and learn) more when they don't have to be on the defensive.

[Reese1]

Originally Posted by kjcmsw

I don't know enough about all the circumstances to agree or disagree. I'm just saying at this juncture one should not simply jump into irreversible things but with that comes a great amount of responsibility -- in this case, whether it's a temporary financial upset or not, one should take a great deal of caution with the handling of an unspayed female around a male. It "may" have been a case she was thinking she "might" breed later down the road, then the financial problem arose and thus the situation she found herself in and due to lack of supervision (and possibly breeding knowledge) the situation happened...so regardless of her circumstances or past plans...the problem has arose and we should simply try to help not agree or disagree without the entire back story...but as stated before I don't think it's necessary for someone to post the whole (possibly long & boring) story just so those won't bash...just post the question and those with the answers should respond to just that and assume there is a credible back story in there. Just so many assumptions from the responders and seems silly to go places that may have nothing to do with the issue --- if people are going to "assume" why not assume the positive rather than the negative???
Kendra
Kendra

First off, I really do hope this little female has been spayed, best possible decision!

Having said that, I don't see how I could assume positives vs negatives in this situation. We are talking about a 10 month old female who is too young to have puppies and owners who are not in a financial position to take care of a pregnancy, possible c-section, etc..
The OP inquired on YT over 2 years ago about breeding, so I would say it is something they wanted to do.
If you want to breed though, you have to do your homework and education and that starts BEFORE you go and buy a female and male.
You should be reading books, working with a mentor, etc..
If they had done that and had breeder knowledge as you mentioned, then they wouldn't have found themselves in that position. One could have learned a lot in two years! JMO

[BamaFan121s]

I went back and read the first dozen or so posts in this thread and saw nothing but answers as to the best course of action and suggestions on lower costs options...at least, that's how it started out. It seemed pretty clear cut, question and answers, until excuses started being made for the OP and people started justifying her actions for her. Then after that, things seemed to start getting fuzzy...

Irregardless, she found the answer and had her pup spayed, which was truthfully for the best in this situation. So obviously someone said something right.

[Marilize]

The OP has gotten some great advice! I just want to point out that despite being in financial trouble, you still have a responsibility towards your dogs.

I got my first Yorkie as a student and I did everything in my power to give him the best. He got the best food, he was neutered at 8 months, he has more toys than any dog I know, etc. Sometimes, I had to go hungry to afford food for him. And when he needed training, I used half of my income to pay for the best class.

Now I have two Yorkies of my own (both sterilized) and I'm only 24. I'm always struggling financially, but I still find the money to take care of my dogs and even take in and care for foster puppies for welfare. You just seem to find the money when you really need it.

[PrinceHenry]

Originally Posted by lee17

This is our first time and our boy wasn't fix yet due to our income, lucky I found somewhere they can do it for free. I came here to ask for advice not to judge on ppl w/ their situaition.

Wow, I agree! People r very harsh on here!

[megansmomma]

Originally Posted by Reese1

First off, I really do hope this little female has been spayed, best possible decision!

Having said that, I don't see how I could assume positives vs negatives in this situation. We are talking about a 10 month old female who is too young to have puppies and owners who are not in a financial position to take care of a pregnancy, possible c-section, etc..
The OP inquired on YT over 2 years ago about breeding, so I would say it is something they wanted to do.
If you want to breed though, you have to do your homework and education and that starts BEFORE you go and buy a female and male.
You should be reading books, working with a mentor, etc..
If they had done that and had breeder knowledge as you mentioned, then they wouldn't have found themselves in that position. One could have learned a lot in two years! JMO

Amazing how someone who was not able to find even low cost spay/neuter prior, was immediately able to find a FREE spay and neuter WITH a complication of pregnancy. Makes me

Originally Posted by BamaFan121s

I went back and read the first dozen or so posts in this thread and saw nothing but answers as to the best course of action and suggestions on lower costs options...at least, that's how it started out. It seemed pretty clear cut, question and answers, until excuses started being made for the OP and people started justifying her actions for her. Then after that, things seemed to start getting fuzzy...

Irregardless, she found the answer and had her pup spayed, which was truthfully for the best in this situation. So obviously someone said something right.

I never could understand why this happens. It amazes me when some posters come out of the woodwork to post in that fashion. They will actually make excuses for the situation by assumption. What exactly is the point of that when there are clear choices offered to the situation? I just don't get it.

[Reese1]

Originally Posted by PrinceHenry

Wow, I agree! People r very harsh on here!

Some call may see it as harsh, some see it as blunt, direct, factual, etc..
This was a serious situation which could have had a terrible outcome.

[jrsygal37]

Originally Posted by Beya

I may have miss read the post before mine, but it sounds like Elaine is being alittle to judging in this matter, its like she is saying " If you cant afford to get your pup fixed a.s.a.p before you bring him or her home then you should not buy your yorkie" I think it all takes time and money yes, but now its up to you to fix it and deal with it, and be a little more careful with the whole prgos thing next time. If you dont plan on havin pups then yes one of the yorkies needs to be fixed cause it will happen again. But if you do want pups in the future then you have to be very careful and deal with whatever happens.

I don't think I'm being judgmental. She had her first dog a male for two years and never had him neutered because she could not afford it. She then went out and got another dog a female who is now ten months and didn't bother to get her spayed due to the $$. How is that being judgmental. I think two years was plenty of time to put the $$ away to neuter your dog, and especially before obtaining another.

Elaine

[Beya]

I didnt read the part where it said the 2 yr old was hers I miss read it. I was thinking it was another 2 yr old, I dont know and second after I went all the way back in the convo I learned that she did have it for 2 yrs and I agree now that 2 yrs is long enough. I called my Vet to see what it would cost to get my female fixed and it was like $140.00 so I now understand the whole concept of why go get another yk with out getting the first one fixed, I thought maybe she wanted to breed them later when the female was older but I also learned in her first post she said she didnt want to do that. So yes I now understand that she should have been more responsible with the whole thing and avoided the situation of having unwanted pups.

[Beya]

and I also think if you have the $$$$$ to get a Yorkie, You must have the $$$$ to get them fixed...