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08-22-2010, 11:02 AM | #31 |
YT 2000 Club Donating Member | Thank you all for sharing It is so great to be part of a passionate and compassionate community of people. Your obvious caring, and willingness to share the depth of your feelings has touched my heart deeply. Thank you for being here, to listen, and to care.
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08-22-2010, 11:58 AM | #32 |
I♥PeekTinkySaph&Finny Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Baltimore, Maryland
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| Furbutt: I understand how you feel and just wanted to say this: I found it very hard too thinking of my Yorkie being 'gone' forever. I was sad and absolutely miserable. I decided to try and change my thoughts about death, instead of seeing it as an end to life, I now see it as moving on, to another dimension, to be Home with God, to be at Rainbow Bridge with friends. As I accepted this, I became calmer on losing my buddy, because I know now that I will see her again, when my time comes. And I truly believe that. Something with such a strong spirit cannot just go, they have to go somewhere, and that's where I will go too. In the meantime, she will remain in my heart... in her special place. Her things now remind me of happy moments as they trigger memories... her bed..I can still see her curled up in it. Her toys... I can see her running after them. Whenever I see a box of Milkbone dog biscuits... I laugh because she would stick her head and half her body in the box to get one out. I still miss her dearly, but I feel better knowing I WILL see her again. Gemy: Great thread! I had problems getting a second, third, and fourth Yorkie... I thought I would be depriving someone else of having one and experiencing the love and joy of Yorkie ownership. But after some research and seeing the numbers of Yorkies needing homes, I thought differently, and acquired my pack. Mainly due to the fact that my single Yorkie seemed depressed when his older housemates passed. I thought we would have some special time together... and we did... but he longed for another fourlegged friend to be boss of. He's 13 years old... and the other night he awoke from a dead sleep and started howling (like a wolf). I guess having a housefull of Yorkies triggered some ancient cell memories and he woke up to call to his pack!
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08-22-2010, 12:38 PM | #33 |
My Princess Poppy Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: England
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| Yeah i guess so. Just still so upsetting for me
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08-22-2010, 05:04 PM | #34 |
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| Natasha, I wish I could say something that could heal some of the pain you feel. Each of us handles grief differently. I know I won't ever let go of my little girls, but it won't stop me from loving again. You will always have the bond with your little boy; trust me, it doesn't go away. I know from how much love my husband and I feel for Ashley and her sisters and how many times we talk about them. When we talk about our little terror, our lovebugGracie, and our sweet, sweet Kiwi who tried to act so tough, we feel such overwhelming love and happiness. We talk about how Jolie learned to smile by imitating the way my husband looked when he saw her. When I brought Ashley to the vet, and the staff there would tell me how much they loved my other girls, it made me feel really happy that others remembered them. The pain is still there and it's deep, but it's not the pain that I feel right now after losing Ashley. It doesn't go away, but it eases in time. I knew with each passing year that it was going to be devastating to lose Ashley, but I poured my heart into her and gave her my complete love. It is what I owed her, and my feelings were so overwhelming, that I couldn't have pulled away even if I had wanted to. I don't ever want to move on and forget about these feelings--the pain or the love. But that doesn't mean I won't be able to live and feel happiness. You brought Poppy into your life, and I think that is wonderful. You may be trying to put your little boy out of your mind, but that's because it's too painful for you right now. That's how you are dealing with the grief, and that's what you need to do right now if it's right for you. You are being such a wonderful mommy to your precious Poppy, and I hope she melts away your grief in time. If I can help you in any way, please let me know. Give little Poppy some kisses for me.
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08-22-2010, 05:43 PM | #35 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: America
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| Natasha, I agree with Lisaly, she could not have explained the feelings we have for our animals. Am greatful for Gemy to start this thread. You are already on the way toward healing just by opening up about this. There will always be moments when you will think about your little buddy... You know I've had animals all my life and I always wanted a Yorkie since I was 8 years old, and now at 47 I finally received her as a gift. I have always departed with our beloved animals because for the most part we outlive them, and they always had good fulfilling lives, they were loved and taken care of....that being said I have said to my husband "I'm not looking forward to the day she is no longer with us." Only because my husband loves shelties (we found one as a stray, she was dirty, skinny with a broken rope around her neck we didn't know what she was she just desperately needed a home) when the vet told us she was a breed of dog my husband just fell in love with their loyalty, their easy medium size, etc. so we've had 3 shelties in 27 years, cat, birds, etc. I guess what I'm trying to say is I have a very strong bond with Piper. Of course I love every furry creature there is, but Piper is my baby, and I don't think what your feeling is unusual at all. It seems you never gave yourself closure or mourned your baby completely. Everything takes time, and I know you get such a charge out of Poppy, along with the problems you had with her breeder may have made you feel more "tweeked", but I know you are an amazing mom to her with the way you made sure she was eating, pooping LOL!!I know I have a real tight bond with Piper, but life is full of positive things to look forward to, sooooo give your baby lots of kisses, and its o.k. to always have your little boy in your heart, you have to grieve, have closure, then it will be easier. Poppy will have her own personality, she will give you so much love. cherish her. Hope we are helping you. P.S. don't even try to talk to people who are not animal people, it's like talking to a brick wall! |
08-22-2010, 05:45 PM | #36 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: America
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| Also agree with kjc great thread, they definately just don't leave us, their spirit seems to show up...... |
08-22-2010, 05:52 PM | #37 |
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| Thanks for starting this thread Gemy, I think we all needed this. |
08-22-2010, 06:34 PM | #38 |
Mama's girl Phoebe Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: nc
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| You said it all!!!!!! I can't count the times my little one has been by my side when I was feeling down. It is a great feeling when that little furbutt snuggles behind you. These animals are not crazy they no when you need some love!!!
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08-22-2010, 06:43 PM | #39 |
YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Springfield, va
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| [QUOTE=kjc;3247997]Furbutt: I understand how you feel and just wanted to say this: I found it very hard too thinking of my Yorkie being 'gone' forever. I was sad and absolutely miserable. I decided to try and change my thoughts about death, instead of seeing it as an end to life, I now see it as moving on, to another dimension, to be Home with God, to be at Rainbow Bridge with friends. As I accepted this, I became calmer on losing my buddy, because I know now that I will see her again, when my time comes. And I truly believe that. Something with such a strong spirit cannot just go, they have to go somewhere, and that's where I will go too. In the meantime, she will remain in my heart... in her special place. Her things now remind me of happy moments as they trigger memories... her bed..I can still see her curled up in it. Her toys... I can see her running after them. Whenever I see a box of Milkbone dog biscuits... I laugh because she would stick her head and half her body in the box to get one out. I still miss her dearly, but I feel better knowing I WILL see her again... This is just the philosophy we have about our first Yorkie, who passed away 3 years ago now. It's very difficult to come to terms with accepting he's gone (in this world); still think about him and some of the great fun we had every day, even now. I think you have to realize that no new pet will ever replace the one you lost, just create another opportunity yet for another relationship with a wonderful new member of the family. Also a chance to build more memories to last a (human) lifetime. |
08-23-2010, 10:10 AM | #40 |
My Princess Poppy Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: England
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| Thank you all so much. You all are so so kind. I try not to think or remeber him because it is to painful and thats why i couldnt even bring myself to tell everyone on here about whats happened because it was just to upseting, sounds horrible but i didnt want to be someone who had lost their little yorkie. Its just broke my heart so much. Poppy is such a little bungle of life haha! She makes me smile and laugh and i cant stop fussing over her. I wake up like 7 times during the night just making sure she is still breathing i get so scared she is going to pass away. She is a stong little fighter tho. Shes asleep on my neck right now She has made me really happy xxxx Thank you all for your kind words xxx
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08-23-2010, 10:31 AM | #41 | |
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08-23-2010, 10:37 AM | #42 |
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| I couldn't have said it better myself! I don't have a dog, I have a best friend.
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08-23-2010, 10:40 AM | #43 | |
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08-23-2010, 10:59 AM | #44 | |
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08-23-2010, 11:20 AM | #45 |
My Princess Poppy Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: England
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| Oh gosh you have a way with words that makes me sob its so beautiful how you put things! Thank you so much i ts weird because i wont mention him to anyone and no one will mention him to me but yet i have started talking to him to you and i dunno its kinda helped alittle to maybe let go of the anger i have about it all, i guess i was more angry he had gone and upset. I also think Poppy must htink i am a pest the amount i pester her when i think she is in danger or has stopped breathing or even when she has puppy dreams i wake her up as i am scared haha! Is it ok if i PM you? xxx
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