Disappointed!! He's too heavy for me!!

[hearttx]

I do understand what you are saying. I have recently injuried my back and am undergoing decompression therapy. It is admazing what a fews pounds make. Yes 4 lbs verus 7 lbs does make a different. I know it sound crazy but ounces does count especially if she is on a ongoing long term problem. Even my purse is a strain until I adjust the weight and purse size then I am in my zone so to speak. I hope you find the perfect small dog that fits your need and help you through a difficult time. A dog is great therapy.

[yorkie_mama22]

Yorkies aren't toys. I don't see why people always want to get a yorkie to carry it around? A dog is a dog, they should walk on the ground! Yes carrying your baby is okay sometimes but finding a small one just so you can carry it sounds silly to me. I know you may have an injury but even more the reason to NOT want to carry a dog?

[deeogie]

Well, my Lucky was only supposed to be 5.5 at the most....lol He is closer to the 8-9 lb! I think, in his opinion, it makes him more manly!! He don't like being carried around outside (hurts his image)lol
But seriously.....you don't HAVE to have these little babies up in arms to give or get love...you can just find where YOU are most comfortable and they will come to you!!! Good luck with your back....and your search!

[Cerise]

Originally Posted by yorkie_mama22

Yorkies aren't toys. I don't see why people always want to get a yorkie to carry it around? A dog is a dog, they should walk on the ground! Yes carrying your baby is okay sometimes but finding a small one just so you can carry it sounds silly to me. I know you may have an injury but even more the reason to NOT want to carry a dog?

I don't think most people want one just to carry around. I for example wanted a Yorkie because I love the breed and for my permanent travel companion, because she can TRAVEL just about anywhere with me and she might be sometimes in a purse carrier, or stroller because of the place or situation. There is nothing wrong with that. She walks daily outdoors in our neighborhood and at the park. She will not be walking at the mall or other heavy people places to get tramped on by feet. I am fortunate to live in a city that has malls, restaurants and events where she (being a small dog) is allowed to visit, especially being in a carrier or stroller.

[Fantastic49]

Originally Posted by Cerise

Perhaps instead of carrying your future furbaby in a purse you could invest in a nice dog stroller. It would be much better for your back. That way you won't have to worry about the weight and he or she can still go places with you. 7lbs is a standard and great size for a full grown Yorkie. You may find a rescue that weighs less but keep in mind that the very tiny ones a lot of times come with health issues and that could be another challenge.

the stroller sounds great in theory, but in practice, it won't work for me, primarily b/c the stroller weighs more than the dog!!! i won't be carrying the furbaby on walks (i think dogs should actually walk), but in dog-friendly places where you will not see dogs typically walking around inside....

i don't disagree with you that 7lbs is a great and standard size ... it just won't work for ME ... and i can't blame a littler one for coming with health issues no more than it can blame me for coming with them

[Fantastic49]

Originally Posted by lil fu fu girl

I understand about your back. I have spondylolisthesis with degenerative disc. Injured it about 5 years ago and it still is a pain, literally. I have two pups; 1 is about 4.7 lbs. and the other is about 7.5lbs. I have to be careful when I pick up the bigger one. I go down to my knees and pick him up that way, keeping my back straight. When I play with them, I sit on the floor and keep my back straight as possible. It is so important that you do not bend, as you probably aready know! I use ice packs alot. That seems to be the key in keeping the inflammation down without constantly taking meds.

I commend you on your hope to find an adult rescue. Do not give up, there are tons out there to be rescued and many will meet your requirements.

Please keep us posted in your search....
Best wishes

PS: I declined the surgery as my chances for recovery were not very good, so I manage it with holistic treatments. So far.....so good!

i definitely will, thanks for your feedback, it's very helpful!!! i hope your back feels better as well....

[Fantastic49]

Originally Posted by gaiasdaughter00

have you looked into decompression therapy? i also have the same thing as you,(i fell out of a tree when i was 7 and thats when i screwed it up) my yorkie is 8 lbs and my cairn is pushing 11lbs i also have three kids (my two year old is 30+lbs) and it hurts to pick any of them up but i do it causei have to. the decompression therapy worked on my mom, she had blown a disk out in her shoulders and her lower back. they do the therapy and they do a pt thing that helps to re strengthen the rest of your core. that might help you.
it is so sad when you think you found the one and someone that is out of your control comes up! best of luck to you dear and yes ice packs help me as well, although ever since i threw out my back about 6 months ago i have been using heat pads instead as the ice seems to make it hurt worse.

i've never heard of that, but i'm going to ask my doctor ... thanks!!! hope your back feels better!!

[lil fu fu girl]

Originally Posted by yorkie_mama22

Yorkies aren't toys. I don't see why people always want to get a yorkie to carry it around? A dog is a dog, they should walk on the ground! Yes carrying your baby is okay sometimes but finding a small one just so you can carry it sounds silly to me. I know you may have an injury but even more the reason to NOT want to carry a dog?

I can understand your reasoning,however, have you ever had a sick 130 lb dog? Carrying them to the car and into the vets office is quite a job!
Speaking as someone with a bad back, I chose the Yorkie breed for two specific reasons: 1) they are hypoallergenic, 2) because of their size.

I have had to care for sick dogs both medium sized ~ 20-40 lbs, as well as large ones~ 130-160 lbs. Let me just say, that it is a lot easier to get a 4-7 lb dog to the emergency vet than the later, especially with any kind of disability. For me, and my son who is disabled, small in size was essential. It had nothing to do with the pups being an accessory, however, as you have clearly stated, for some an accessory is all they want; and that I do not care for!

[Fantastic49]

Originally Posted by red98vett

I have to agree - depending on the structure - a 7 pounder can FEEL like 4 lbs. A very tiny yorkie can have more issues than you may be ready to deal with especially if you're facing surgery.....

My Cheri is 5-1/2 and FEELS like a little feather when I hold her

i agree with you, that's why i wanted to meet him and pick him up ... i knew he was a little larger than 5lbs, but i was hoping that he didn't FEEL that heavy ... unfortunately, he felt like 8 - 10lbs to me!!! and this was only picking him up once and holding him for a little while....

i'm more willing to deal with the possible health issues of a smaller dog (which are only possible and not a certainty) than a heavier dog that i know for sure will aggravate my injury over time ... i guess it's just a personal choice for all of us....

[Fantastic49]

Originally Posted by AmyChristine

I am sorry that he wasn't right for you. I remember when my aunt first injured her back she was told not to lift anything over 5lbs, or heavier a bag of sugar. It has been 3-4 years now and she still cannot lift much more than that. Good luck with your search.

OMG, i am EXACTLY where your aunt is ... it's been almost 3 years since the car accident and i can barely lift more than 5lbs!!! thank you for your encouragement!!

[TwoforFun]

If you don't have small children there are a handful of adult yorkies in shelters that weight between 3-5 lbs full grown. You have to check daily if your patient you will find one. There are a few that are denied because of health problems but I have seen healthy ones that need to go to an adult household only.

[Fantastic49]

Originally Posted by hearttx

I do understand what you are saying. I have recently injuried my back and am undergoing decompression therapy. It is admazing what a fews pounds make. Yes 4 lbs verus 7 lbs does make a different. I know it sound crazy but ounces does count especially if she is on a ongoing long term problem. Even my purse is a strain until I adjust the weight and purse size then I am in my zone so to speak. I hope you find the perfect small dog that fits your need and help you through a difficult time. A dog is great therapy.

thanks for your kind words. it IS amazing what a difference a few ounces or pounds can make ... at some point, i would be in excruciating pain just carrying my small wallet around for a few minutes ... i'm somewhat better now, but apparently not enough to handle a 7lb dog ... i like your use of the term "zone", i guess 7lbs isn't in the zone for me

[Fantastic49]

Originally Posted by yorkie_mama22

Yorkies aren't toys. I don't see why people always want to get a yorkie to carry it around? A dog is a dog, they should walk on the ground! Yes carrying your baby is okay sometimes but finding a small one just so you can carry it sounds silly to me. I know you may have an injury but even more the reason to NOT want to carry a dog?

i don't think anyone here claimed that yorkies are toys (though some would argue with you, as the AKC classifies them as members of the toy group HAHA i'm kidding).... seriously, though, when i WALK my dog, i want it to walk ... when i TRAVEL with my dog or go into dog friendly places that allow dogs (but do not allow them on the ground), how would you suggest i carry it if it can't walk? what if a big dog approaches and i need to quickly get the dog out of the way? what if it's sick and i have to carry it?

maybe some people carry dogs around as accessories, but i am not one of those people ... if i were, i would've bought one of those dogs advertised as a "teacup" from a puppy mill or a non-reputable breeder ... instead, i am trying to rescue a dog ... but i also need to be mindful of my own limitations in doing so ... is that so wrong?!?

and really, even if i just PREFER a tiny dog (like someone might prefer a black dog or a smart dog or a curly-haired dog or a really HUGE dog), why does that seem to be such a problem for some folks?!?

[anevarez]

I just wanted to add that your location shows Beverly Hills - which is a dog friendly place. Many shops and restaurants allow pets inside and if you want to enjoy this luxury with your furbaby then you need a dog you can pick up when necessary. Good luck to you!

Originally Posted by Fantastic49

i don't think anyone here claimed that yorkies are toys (though some would argue with you, as the AKC classifies them as members of the toy group HAHA i'm kidding).... seriously, though, when i WALK my dog, i want it to walk ... when i TRAVEL with my dog or go into dog friendly places that allow dogs (but do not allow them on the ground), how would you suggest i carry it if it can't walk? what if a big dog approaches and i need to quickly get the dog out of the way? what if it's sick and i have to carry it?

maybe some people carry dogs around as accessories, but i am not one of those people ... if i were, i would've bought one of those dogs advertised as a "teacup" from a puppy mill or a non-reputable breeder ... instead, i am trying to rescue a dog ... but i also need to be mindful of my own limitations in doing so ... is that so wrong?!?

and really, even if i just PREFER a tiny dog (like someone might prefer a black dog or a smart dog or a curly-haired dog or a really HUGE dog), why does that seem to be such a problem for some folks?!?

[TnTalker]

I can understand your need for a smaller dog. There are other considerations besides walking around with a YT in your arms. My dog is 8+ lbs. (she was supposed to be less than 5 lbs!) and even though I don't have back problems, it would be much easier to bathe her and lift her for grooming, etc., if she were not as heavy. I love her and hope she lives as long as I do, but if I were to buy another Yorkie, I would buy an older puppy whose weight could be predicted better.