I feel horrible...

[cthalhofer]

So glad you keep him he will give you all kinds of love in return

[gfoster]

I'm glad to hear you kept him. Things definitely get better. I think its much harder at first with the little dogs simply because they are so small and need so much attention.

You will notice day by day it's better, and you love him even more. If you can deal with the whinning at night until he gets used to the crate that's a huge plus. When we got Duke by the third night he was screaming for hours on end, and since my husband had to be up early for work I put the little guy in our bed. Now 5 months later he still sleeps there every night...lol

[spiritwings1202]

having a puppy can be overwhelming at times and it isn't always fun and giggles. I think you can make yourself nutts over the training bc you are learning as well, but the reward is so much grater than the work. Like when you come home and you get the best greeting from them. When you are sick or sad they are there to comfort you. When you are lonely, they are there with unconditional love. They become your best friend and you can never replace it. There is just something about the love from your dog. Every dog is different and their personalities are different as well but I have to say Pixie is the best gift I ever received in my whole life!
I am going through some health issues right now and she has given me a sense of comfort that noone could give me, it's like she knows when I need her to cuddle me and give me that affection.
So having a puppy can be such a great reward! Start looking for the blessings and do things together to bond! I hope I helped you

[Denny]

Have you ever heard of post-partum depression? People sometimes get depressed right after they've had babies. This is very common. Getting a new puppy, especially a Yorkie puppy can be very much like having a baby. 12 1/2 yrs. ago when I got my Lab puppy, I wanted to give him back really bad. I felt like it was a nightmare. People rarely tell you how much work it is to have a puppy. They are very quick to tell you how cute the puppy is. Well, the truth is sometimes it sucks! Crying all night, potty training, trying to get them to eat... you get the picture. Anyway, the lab turned out to be one of the greatest dogs in history. (To me anyway). Now I have a 2 1/2 yr. old yorkie and a 3 1/2 month old. You can do this. Just ask yourself if you want to. If the answer is no, it's ok. I would give you more credit for returning the dog, then not being the best owner you could be. Good luck.

[HarleyHOO]

First, I commend you for being so brave and telling us how you felt And I'm so glad that you've fallin in love with him. It doesn't take long to realize how special they can be.

When I read your first post, my eyes got HUGE...only because it took me right back to where I was when I first brought Harley home. However, I didn't want people to know what I was experiencing for fear of criticism. I see now how supportive everyone is....and also surprised at the similar experiences of some. I don't feel so bad now

I had wanted a yorkie since I was a little girl and like you, had searched and searched for close to 6 months before finding the breeder I would get her from. I was SO excited and overjoyed leading up to the pick-up date. I even had it marked on my calendar as "Harley Day!" LOL. When I first went and met her, she was only 4 weeks old. I signed a contract and then had to wait for 8 weeks....I thought that was the longest 8 weeks EVER....I did SO much research that I had a specific idea in my mind of how everything would go...the training, the playing, the crating....everything! I've come to learn that I set unrealistic expectations and then when things don't meet those expectations, I freak. I picked her up and just loved her to pieces! The first 2 days were great...I was in awe of her. However, day 3 set in and so did reality....for the very first time in my life, I had a living breathing baby who relied soley on ME for everything. I didn't know what to do...completely overwhelmed. I was emotional, anxious and exhausted! There were many times when I would question myself and say "Why in the world did I get a puppy?" I was literally a nervous wreck, and I felt retarded because I begged my husband for her...and in my mind, I WAS READY! If you had told me that I would be in that situation, I would have said you're CRAZY. But, that's how it happened and fortunately, I had great support from family and friends and I stuck it out because when I looked at her, or held her in my arms I knew it was love. She will be a year old next month, and honest to God, I don't know what I'd do without her. She is my baby and I love her so much...sometimes I think a little to much I even had her in my wedding LOL. She brings me so much happiness and joy. I look forward to coming home from work and seeing her. When I have a bad day, I just think about playing with her and snuggling her. With time, you will look back, like I do now, and laugh at the hard times....I PROMISE that you will get through it and everything will fall into place. I will keep you in my prayers Good luck!!

[BellaBlue82]

Aww MuShu is just precious! I'm very glad you decided to keep him! I know you're going to have so much fun with your new family member!

[apartmentgirL]

Well first let me start by saying I can understand where you are coming from. I myself am a new yorkie mom (as of 1/09/2010) and I did my months of research before I got my baby also. Its all about patience and consistency. These dogs are so easy to fall in love with if you allow yourself too. Just give it time, they can be a hassle. It can be overwhelming at first, but its also a learning experience for you whether you decide to keep the dog or not. Having my baby these past 2 days, hasnt been easy. But I love him already and wouldn't trade him for a THING! If your still feeling this way by the end of the week, contact the breeder and return him. Wish you and MuShu the best in whatever decision you decide!

[apartmentgirL]

Originally Posted by SpicyyLovee

Thank you for understanding eveybody! After a couple sleepless nights, I figured out that I can do this and will. So I decided to keep him. I'm really glad I kept him, since I am already in love with him

He is 13 weeks old now, and weighs 1kg. (about 2 pounds) He's a sweetheart and a tiny little thing. I hope everything goes well with his new family :]

P.S. Sorry for not replying earlier! I have been watching him very closely so I haven't had time to get on. Apologies!

I just saw this! Lol...IM SOOOOOOO glad you decided to keep him!!

[myblustreak]

I am new here but this is something I can relate to

About a year ago, I decided to get a puppy. I found a chihuahua she had all of her shots... microchipped. She was 17 wks old when I brought her home.

I haven't had a dog in about 10 years. The smallest dog I had was a cocker spaniel when I was growing up. As kids we were very hands on with the puppies. So the toy was a NEW experience for me.
The first day with Roxy I called my friend who is a chihuahua breeder, overwhelmed. I told her I thought I really messed up. I asked her if she would take her. She told me to give it 2 weeks to see if I feel different, to wait until we got into a routine. She was right 2 weeks later I did feel different.
Just give it a little time. If you are that worried about possible medical bills, get pet insurance on her.



Good Luck,Carmen

[elliebear]

get a blanket out snuggle with him on the sofa and share lots of kisses, sometimes the bond takes practice and isn't always instant ! (like it can be with any new parent of any new baby !!!!!!!)
i'm sure you'll be fine xxx

[PANAMA69]

Aww I remember the first nite, when I got Phoebe ( my first yorkie) I cried, thinking what do I got my self into, I have my two cats for almos 15 years, and they have been so easy to take care, now I have this very active puppy, I was so scare, but looking at my now lol