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07-31-2005, 02:30 PM | #1 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: NJ
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| Very much wanting a Yorkie Hi, I am new to this forum, but not new to having animal family members. I am married and mommy to one dog (age 13), two cats (ages 11 and 5) and two horses (ages 25 and 19). I have always rescued my pets. In Jan of '05, I had to put down one of my dogs, age 12 and diabetic for seven years. He was a little guy and my buddy. I am still heartbroken. I have researched many small breeds and decided upon a Yorkie as my next dog. Because I have always rescued my pets, I would this time like to adopt a puppy from a reputable breeder. Here's my issue: I also have a three-year-old son. Now, I know better than most folks how children and pets can or cannot mix. I also am aware of how many Yorkie breeders are concerned with placing a tiny dog in a home that also has a toddler. However, ours is not like most homes. Weeks before we brought our son home from the hospital, we prepped our pets on having a baby around. We followed Brian Kilcommons' advice on bringing a baby home. We had great success with his advice. We have taught our son well since birth. He knows he needs to treat our pets with kindness. "No touch eyes, no touch tail, no touch ears, just pat on back" is a litany he recites often. As a toddler, of course, he does get rambunctious at times. When he does, I put the cats in our bedroom behind a babygate. My large-breed dog goes into another room on her bed, also behind a gate. We then distract our son and later bring everyone back out. My animals are not "stuck" in a room for hours, nor is my son inhibited. Also, we always supervise our son and our pets and never leave them alone together. And I do mean always. I have references from vets, vet specialists, breeders, groomers, trainers, rescue people, etc., on how well I have cared for all my pets, the great pains I take with them, and how I manage any special needs or requirements. So, how and where do I find a Yorkie breeder in the NJ/NY/CT area who is willing to 1)judge me individually, 2)visit my home, 3)see how we manage things, and 4)check references? And then decide whether or not to sell me a puppy? It's interesting...I talked, for example, with a breeder who has been breeding for 25 years. She has one 18-year-old and one 15-year-old human child. There children were toddlers at one time. I asked her how she handled things in her home with toddlers and Yorkies. She said, "Well..., that's different" and really didn't have an answer. I can manage integrating a Yorkie into my home. I know it takes work. I will not just place a puppy on the floor with my large breed dog or underfoot with my child and just hope things work out. Please, does anyone have any advice? My family and I really want a Yorkie puppy. Thank you very much. |
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07-31-2005, 02:46 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Pennsylvania
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| Welcome to YT! It sure sounds like you are taking this very seriously and I, for one, highly commend you on that. If you look through certain threads on here, you will see that some people have small children and Yorkies. You have taught your child the importance of kindness to animals and I am very impressed. That is a lesson that will last a lifetime. I think you and your family would make an awsome forever home for a lucky Yorkie baby! Sincerely, Julie |
07-31-2005, 02:49 PM | #3 | |
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07-31-2005, 03:32 PM | #4 |
I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana
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| You sound like a very responsible person. You will find a breeder who will sell to you just be patient. I have a five year old and I have two yorkie pups. The right breeder will come along. Good luck with your search.
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07-31-2005, 03:59 PM | #5 |
Razorback Yorkie Lover Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Bentonville, AR
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| When I was looking for my baby boy Yorkie, every single breeder I spoke to asked if I had small children. I do understand why they ask, and I have three teenagers....but it does seem they should take it on a case by case basis. I have to constantly remind my teenagers that little ones are underfoot and to watch their step! Also, the best thing I bought for my baby Yorkie was a playpen. When things get hectic around our house-such as cleaning, company, other Yorkie Pippa acting crazy, little Scout can go in the playpen to chill. He has a little sheepskin bed, puppy pad, food and water in there. I wish you luck on your search. I know you will find the perfect puppy.
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07-31-2005, 04:00 PM | #6 |
YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Seattle, WA
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| Just keep looking! Welcome to YorkieTalk, there are several breeders in your area that are members here. I would think if you forward to potential breeders what you wrote above, that it would give them a better understanding of your situation. Good luck finding a Yorkie for your home! |
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07-31-2005, 05:37 PM | #8 |
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| Yea- a responsible mom! I don't like that some breeders just generalize and won't sell to people with children without seeing the whole story. You sound like a great mom and a great pet owner. Good luck with your search! |
07-31-2005, 05:39 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Pennsylvania
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| I sold a Yorkie puppy to a family with 2 young boys. They were very gentle with the pup and well mannered without the parent's having to be on them about it. I have seen other children that shouldn't be around any animals whatsoever as they act like Yorkie puppies themselves (LOL). |
07-31-2005, 05:43 PM | #10 |
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| Welcome to YT.. You will find your baby when it is supposed to happen. So, be patient and don't give up. It sounds as if you are gonna be a wonderful mom to a very lucky pet... |
07-31-2005, 06:01 PM | #11 |
Tinkerbell, My Little Flutterpup Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Beautiful California!
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| I have 2 small children ages 4 and 7 and I have 2 small dogs. You can tell the breeder everything you just did. Ask them if they will allow your children to visit their home before they make a decision about you and your family. Last edited by chloeandj; 07-31-2005 at 06:03 PM. |
07-31-2005, 06:14 PM | #12 |
Love my Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: New Port Richey, Florida
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| My children are now 20 & 18 and we always had small dogs in the house since they were 2 yrs old. My children were also taught how to behave around a small dogs, But the majority of parents these days are not like that.. I was at a persons house the other day who just adopted a dog from the humane society, Their 3 year old was putting his finger in the dogs rectum, I kepp saying something like "you shouldn't do that", and the mother would tell him to stop, but she NEVER really stopped him.. To bad you aren't closer, I would sell you one of my boys.. Only becasue you seem like a very put together person, who has done her homework.. Good luck in your hunt, You will find that perfect puppy, probably when you least expect it..
__________________ Karen~ Bell, Lilly and Peter's Mom Rest in Peace <3 |
07-31-2005, 08:10 PM | #13 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: NJ
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| Thank you Thank you to all who responded to my post. What a warm welcome I have received here. I will continue looking in my area and hopefully find my new buddy soon. Or when it's meant to be. Meanwhile, I will continue reading and learning about Yorkies. |
07-31-2005, 08:18 PM | #14 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: cleveland, ohio
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| we'll it looks like everyone already cover all the bases, but i just wanted to wish you luck, and i'm sure that everything will work out when you meet the right breeder! |
07-31-2005, 08:18 PM | #15 |
Mom loves Gucci Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: New York City
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| Welcome to YT. It is awesome that you are doing all your research and your seem very responsible. I have a 1 yr old yorkie and i have 2 kids(12 and 4), keep searching and soon you will fing the rite Yorkie for your family. |
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