Prayers needed please

[yorkieusa]

Great news to see this morning. Way to go Mary and Sam!

[maxs_momma]

Originally Posted by celstu1

Mary,
You are wonderful, you can tell by your posts how loved Sam is and how concerned you are for you baby! Accidents happen and you cannot control your daughters actions. She sounds like a typical spoiled teenager (Ive been there! haha). I hope things get better with her though and she realizes how cruel she is being.

At this point little Sam sounds like hes crying in the kennel bc hes now little spoiled SAM! haha Mommy will take him everywhere and give him tons of loves if he cries! don't ya love it?!?!

This morning I locked my baby outside while it was snowing ice for about 15 mins! I had NO clue he was out there when I shut the door to go shower. He was WET and cold but no worse for the wear! But the point is, it could have been worse and we all make mistakes and have accidents. Im glad Sam is recovering nicely! And my baby wrapped in a big towel and being carried around by me or my BF this morning was certainly worth being wet and cold to him!! extra spoiling!

My daughter cried today!!!!! Before she left for school she sit down on the floor in front of Sam and put her fingers in through the holes and petted and talked to him and she started crying!!!!! I know that sounds terrible to be happy about it but she cares and she is showing now that she is sorry for what happened. She cried a little yesterday to but didn't really let anyone see her. Today everyone seen and heard she cried almost as hard as i did when it all first happened! I am sorry i kow i sound so cruel but i am just hopping with joy over her shedding the tears IT IS A GREAT THING SHE DOES LOVE SAM!!!!

I have to agree Sam is just loving the mommy time. He has def. got me trained to run on command lol. I can't not go to him though not with everything that has happened to him. I don't want him to be alone or scared not even a minute. Right now he is asleep on my lap because when i try to put him in the kennel he cries but the second i take him out and put him on my lap he is out like a light . I am just loving the extra time that i am getting to spend with him and the bond that we are forming it is just wonderful to feel the love these little ones can give.

Sounds like your little one had a rough start today lol But i am sure he would do it again in a heartbeat for all that babying he is getting


And thanks to most of the wonderful people here i have let myself realize that is just what is was a accident they happen everyday but we are all only human and i now know i cannot blame myself for what happened even though i will always think well what if but i guess that is only being human to.


Hugs
Mary

[patty58]

Mary, I am so glad that little Sam is better. Sounds like he is getting spoiled rotten. How do your other babies feel about Sam getting all the attention Teenagers are such strange creatures. I had a feeling all along that your daughter felt bad and was scared to death about dropping Sam. They just don't want anyone to see that they really care...that would make them vulnerable....and they certainly don't want anyone to know that

[maxs_momma]

Ok everyone can now bash me if they want but i have to say something i cannot hold it in any longer.I have been quiet on many things and have kept my mouth shut because most of the time it was none of my business but this time it is and i am going to speak up. I almost left yt over this and that would have been one of the biggest mistakes i have ever made so instead i am going to speak my mind and get it off my chest!

I am sorry that i did not post which baby it was i was in a ruch to get back to Sam and i wasn't even going to post that much but i knew little Sam needed the prayers and i have seen yt prayers work miracle. And i am sorry that i did not call anyone right away when this happened but that was the furthest thing from my mind my only concern and still is taking care of Sam. Personally i think what i did was the right thing getting him medical attention right away not stopping and taking the time to call eveyone to me that would have been def. the wrong thing to do in this situation.If anyone wants to hate me for that then that is their choice. (and i know for a fact there are some that do)

Yes my daughter broke a rule and she should be punished for that but i do not believe she should be punished for a accident so i am sorry but grounding is all she will get not allot more than grounding like others have suggested i did agree in the beginning that she deserved more but i was very upset and have since had time to think about it so no i will not let anyone get a hold of my daughter so they can do alot more than ground her I am very upset over this being said to me because she is my daughter and i am her mother and i am going to protect her from people wanting to do her harm and to be honest i am shocked at anyone telling a mother let me get a hold of her and i will do alot more than ground her from things. I have and always will fight for my skin-kids and my fur-kids and i am sorry if you do not like that. But when someone threatens one of my kids they have crossed the line with me.

And as for this whole situation i now realize that this was a accident. And i know there have been more and i am sure even some of Sams brothers or sisters or other ones related to him have had accidents (i am sure he is not the first) but not everyone is as gullable as me and post about it. I could have kept this to myself but why would i. I have friends here that care and i know would keep him in their thoughts and prayers and i felt like that is what he needed. So i came in asking for prayers for my baby and i get jumped on that is not right! I love this place i love the people here.It is like my home away from home And i just hope you all don't hate me for standing up and speaking about what i feel is right or wrong. I am not trying to start any trouble at all this has just been eating at me so badly i am so tired i can't stand it i cannot eat i cannot sleep not with all this on my chest i have went from 125 down to 121 since this all begain and i cannot be doing that i have to stay healthy to take care of Sam and the only way i know how is to get this all off my chest. As i am sure most of you have noticed i am not the type of person that can keep something in without it eating at me more and more everyday.


Hugs to those of you who don't hate me now

Mary

[maxs_momma]

Originally Posted by patty58

Mary, I am so glad that little Sam is better. Sounds like he is getting spoiled rotten. How do your other babies feel about Sam getting all the attention Teenagers are such strange creatures. I had a feeling all along that your daughter felt bad and was scared to death about dropping Sam. They just don't want anyone to see that they really care...that would make them vulnerable....and they certainly don't want anyone to know that

Patty you and many others were so right she did care she just didn't want anyone to know how much. She showed me now that she does love him and she does feel horrible about the accident. I am not sure if i have said yet what happened but he actually jumped out of her arms. My hubby said that she reached down to grab him and before he could say anything to her that Sam squirmed and jumped away from her . As for the little guy getting spoiled OH YOU BETTER BELIEVE IT!!!! Even hubby is spoiling him which amazes me because Max is hubby's buddy As for the others Bella doesn't seem to care really and Skeeta is just going about her days as she always has but Max you can tell he is a little upset because he doesn't get mommy's lap when she is on the computer now. But when Sam is asleep i try to make up for it by giving Max and the others extra attention


Hugs
Mary

[mistyinca]

Originally Posted by maxs_momma

That's just it...she doesn't seemed bothered by it at all only that she doesn't want anyone to know it was her and she doesn't want anyone to blame her the last 7 months she has turned into a me me me me me me type of person if you know what i mean. She asked one time how he was doing and that is because my hubby brought it up to her.

I'm just now seeing this thread. I'm praying that Little Sam is 100% in no time!
As for your daughter. That's just a freak accident, and it could happen to anyone, really. In fact, Chloe has squirmed out of my arms from up high too. I'm sure she feels bad about it.

I hope and pray for the best!

[TLC]

I am really sorry that you feel people hate you - maybe I am too gullable as well and maybe I missed something, not sure, but regardless, you feel the way you feel and I hope that it doesn't last too long.

Accidents do happen, we all know that. If it wasn't for YT, I wouldn't believe some of the accidents that I have read here over the past 3 years (some so freaky and I do mean freaky, it's almost really hard to imagine that it did happen ).

Please don't beat yourself up or your family. You are doing everything you possibly can do to protect and raise your babies.

When TJ and Roxy were little, I broke my own rule: Never carry both down the stairs at once. Well, I did and I slipped - THANK GOD I was able to stay on my back to whole time and I kept them on my chest - So NO HARM was done to them - I on the other hand was HURTING for 2 weeks

Cheer Up

[LuvmyYorkies2]

Glad that Sam is doing much better. You are doing a wonderful job at making sure he is back to his old self in no time. I think your daughter has been punished enough..seeing the pain Sam was in and what you are going through..She may be one of those people who don't always physically show what they feel but I'm sure she feels it emotionally and mentally.

Continued prayers to you and Sam for a speedy and healthy recovery!!

[hha]

Originally Posted by maxs_momma

Ok everyone can now bash me if they want but i have to say something i cannot hold it in any longer.I have been quiet on many things and have kept my mouth shut because most of the time it was none of my business but this time it is and i am going to speak up. I almost left yt over this and that would have been one of the biggest mistakes i have ever made so instead i am going to speak my mind and get it off my chest!

I am sorry that i did not post which baby it was i was in a ruch to get back to Sam and i wasn't even going to post that much but i knew little Sam needed the prayers and i have seen yt prayers work miracle. And i am sorry that i did not call anyone right away when this happened but that was the furthest thing from my mind my only concern and still is taking care of Sam. Personally i think what i did was the right thing getting him medical attention right away not stopping and taking the time to call eveyone to me that would have been def. the wrong thing to do in this situation.If anyone wants to hate me for that then that is their choice. (and i know for a fact there are some that do)

Yes my daughter broke a rule and she should be punished for that but i do not believe she should be punished for a accident so i am sorry but grounding is all she will get not allot more than grounding like others have suggested i did agree in the beginning that she deserved more but i was very upset and have since had time to think about it so no i will not let anyone get a hold of my daughter so they can do alot more than ground her I am very upset over this being said to me because she is my daughter and i am her mother and i am going to protect her from people wanting to do her harm and to be honest i am shocked at anyone telling a mother let me get a hold of her and i will do alot more than ground her from things. I have and always will fight for my skin-kids and my fur-kids and i am sorry if you do not like that. But when someone threatens one of my kids they have crossed the line with me.

And as for this whole situation i now realize that this was a accident. And i know there have been more and i am sure even some of Sams brothers or sisters or other ones related to him have had accidents (i am sure he is not the first) but not everyone is as gullable as me and post about it. I could have kept this to myself but why would i. I have friends here that care and i know would keep him in their thoughts and prayers and i felt like that is what he needed. So i came in asking for prayers for my baby and i get jumped on that is not right! I love this place i love the people here.It is like my home away from home And i just hope you all don't hate me for standing up and speaking about what i feel is right or wrong. I am not trying to start any trouble at all this has just been eating at me so badly i am so tired i can't stand it i cannot eat i cannot sleep not with all this on my chest i have went from 125 down to 121 since this all begain and i cannot be doing that i have to stay healthy to take care of Sam and the only way i know how is to get this all off my chest. As i am sure most of you have noticed i am not the type of person that can keep something in without it eating at me more and more everyday.


Hugs to those of you who don't hate me now

Mary

Mary, no one that EVER buys a puppy wants to see it hurt...as I said accidents happen, and YOU did the right thing doing what you did...this is your baby now, it became yours the day you brought it home..don't worry what anyone else thinks..!
As far as your oldest daughter, she has a child, therefore, she is an adult...I really don't think you should have a problem with her holding Sam...maybe she grabbed him because she felt as though she was being treated as a child..you have to remember, she is an adult.. it wasn't one of the little ones that was holding her, it was an older one..I think you've beat yourself up over this long enough..Now quit doing it to yourself..He's going to be fine, and you owe NO ONE an explanation!!
Hugs
Sherrie

[mistyinca]

Originally Posted by maxs_momma

Yes my daughter broke a rule and she should be punished for that but i do not believe she should be punished for a accident so i am sorry but grounding is all she will get not allot more than grounding like others have suggested i did agree in the beginning that she deserved more but i was very upset and have since had time to think about it so no i will not let anyone get a hold of my daughter so they can do alot more than ground her I am very upset over this being said to me because she is my daughter and i am her mother and i am going to protect her from people wanting to do her harm and to be honest i am shocked at anyone telling a mother let me get a hold of her and i will do alot more than ground her from things. I have and always will fight for my skin-kids and my fur-kids and i am sorry if you do not like that. But when someone threatens one of my kids they have crossed the line with me.

Mary,
If someone threatened your daughter, you report it to admin asap, and you report it to the police. In cases like that, the administration of a forum has a legal responsibility to reveal tha person's information to the police. Shame shame shame on anyone here who would stoop to something like that.

I'm glad Sam is doing so well. He is so lucky to have such a wonderful mom who cares so much to make sure he will be well.

Accidents are just that: accidents. They happen to everyone. There's nothing you could have done better for your baby. Bravo!

[YorkieAunt]

I have just read this thread and glad to hear that your furbaby is doing better It was an ACCIDENT, nothing more. When I went to look at my Tessa, my friend was holding Tessa's brother while she was sitting on the couch and he just jumped out of her hands and landed on the floor on his head! He was fine and is now a healthy 4mth old, but it just goes to show that it can happen to anyone, anywhere! I have nicknamed mine "Flying Squirrel" amoung other ones.... I have a 16yr old son and haven't threatened many times to send him to a boarding school in Swizterland

[maxs_momma]

Originally Posted by TLC

I am really sorry that you feel people hate you - maybe I am too gullable as well and maybe I missed something, not sure, but regardless, you feel the way you feel and I hope that it doesn't last too long.

Accidents do happen, we all know that. If it wasn't for YT, I wouldn't believe some of the accidents that I have read here over the past 3 years (some so freaky and I do mean freaky, it's almost really hard to imagine that it did happen ).

Please don't beat yourself up or your family. You are doing everything you possibly can do to protect and raise your babies.

When TJ and Roxy were little, I broke my own rule: Never carry both down the stairs at once. Well, I did and I slipped - THANK GOD I was able to stay on my back to whole time and I kept them on my chest - So NO HARM was done to them - I on the other hand was HURTING for 2 weeks

Cheer Up

Ouch you poor thing i have also did things like that but the same as you i kept them safe and took all the blows for myself i have a broken tail bone to prove it lol

[maxs_momma]

Originally Posted by LuvmyYorkies2

Glad that Sam is doing much better. You are doing a wonderful job at making sure he is back to his old self in no time. I think your daughter has been punished enough..seeing the pain Sam was in and what you are going through..She may be one of those people who don't always physically show what they feel but I'm sure she feels it emotionally and mentally.

Continued prayers to you and Sam for a speedy and healthy recovery!!

I have to agree with you on that i think seeing what Sam and i are going through is the worst punishment she can get

[maxs_momma]

Originally Posted by hha

Mary, no one that EVER buys a puppy wants to see it hurt...as I said accidents happen, and YOU did the right thing doing what you did...this is your baby now, it became yours the day you brought it home..don't worry what anyone else thinks..!
As far as your oldest daughter, she has a child, therefore, she is an adult...I really don't think you should have a problem with her holding Sam...maybe she grabbed him because she felt as though she was being treated as a child..you have to remember, she is an adult.. it wasn't one of the little ones that was holding her, it was an older one..I think you've beat yourself up over this long enough..Now quit doing it to yourself..He's going to be fine, and you owe NO ONE an explanation!!
Hugs
Sherrie

Sherrie

Thank you that may be just why she did it because i have been treating her like a kid for a while now i should say about the last 7 months which would be the time that she has been acting out hmmmmmm why didn't i see it before thanks for the eye opener You always know the right things to say to make someone feel better about something


Big Hugs
Mary

[sherrijmkassie]

When I had Kassie at the vet for her final set of puppy shots she bolted out of my arms. Before I had time to react and catch her I heard the thud as she hit the hard cement floor. I screamed and everyone came running, Kassie was fine thank god. I was 32 at the time, it was an accident and can happen in a split second. Please dont beat yourself up over it, you are emotional after all you went through and maybe that is why you feel you may not be liked.

Hugs