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Originally Posted by maxs_momma  Ok everyone can now bash me if they want but i have to say something i cannot hold it in any longer.I have been quiet on many things and have kept my mouth shut because most of the time it was none of my business but this time it is and i am going to speak up. I almost left yt over this and that would have been one of the biggest mistakes i have ever made so instead i am going to speak my mind and get it off my chest!
I am sorry that i did not post which baby it was i was in a ruch to get back to Sam and i wasn't even going to post that much but i knew little Sam needed the prayers and i have seen yt prayers work miracle. And i am sorry that i did not call anyone right away when this happened but that was the furthest thing from my mind my only concern and still is taking care of Sam. Personally i think what i did was the right thing getting him medical attention right away not stopping and taking the time to call eveyone to me that would have been def. the wrong thing to do in this situation.If anyone wants to hate me for that then that is their choice. (and i know for a fact there are some that do)
Yes my daughter broke a rule and she should be punished for that but i do not believe she should be punished for a accident so i am sorry but grounding is all she will get not allot more than grounding like others have suggested i did agree in the beginning that she deserved more but i was very upset and have since had time to think about it so no i will not let anyone get a hold of my daughter so they can do alot more than ground her I am very upset over this being said to me because she is my daughter and i am her mother and i am going to protect her from people wanting to do her harm and to be honest i am shocked at anyone telling a mother let me get a hold of her and i will do alot more than ground her from things. I have and always will fight for my skin-kids and my fur-kids and i am sorry if you do not like that. But when someone threatens one of my kids they have crossed the line with me.
And as for this whole situation i now realize that this was a accident. And i know there have been more and i am sure even some of Sams brothers or sisters or other ones related to him have had accidents (i am sure he is not the first) but not everyone is as gullable as me and post about it. I could have kept this to myself but why would i. I have friends here that care and i know would keep him in their thoughts and prayers and i felt like that is what he needed. So i came in asking for prayers for my baby and i get jumped on that is not right! I love this place i love the people here.It is like my home away from home  And i just hope you all don't hate me for standing up and speaking about what i feel is right or wrong. I am not trying to start any trouble at all this has just been eating at me so badly i am so tired i can't stand it i cannot eat i cannot sleep not with all this on my chest i have went from 125 down to 121 since this all begain and i cannot be doing that i have to stay healthy to take care of Sam and the only way i know how is to get this all off my chest. As i am sure most of you have noticed i am not the type of person that can keep something in without it eating at me more and more everyday.
Hugs to those of you who don't hate me now
Mary |
Mary, no one that EVER buys a puppy wants to see it hurt...as I said accidents happen, and YOU did the right thing doing what you did...this is your baby now, it became yours the day you brought it home..don't worry what anyone else thinks..!
As far as your oldest daughter, she has a child, therefore, she is an adult...I really don't think you should have a problem with her holding Sam...maybe she grabbed him because she felt as though she was being treated as a child..you have to remember, she is an adult..
it wasn't one of the little ones that was holding her, it was an older one..I think you've beat yourself up over this long enough..Now quit doing it to yourself..He's going to be fine, and you owe NO ONE an explanation!!
Hugs
Sherrie