Just can't do it any more!

[mommadog1]

Originally Posted by megansmomma

Karla you are getting you facts mixed up. You posted your original thread in the rescue forum on Monday 5/24 @

Then you started this thread on Monday 5/24 @ 8:38 pm and didn't come back and update until the following day Tuesday @ 3;25 pm. You DID NOT mention anything about lawsuits and ER visit or anything of the sort until post # 22 almost 24 hours later.

I linked all of your posts previously for the rescue to read. Here is the email that I sent her:



On Monday 5/24 at 10:36 pm I got an email agreeing to take her. YOU POSTED the following day that she had bit an 18 your old and about animal control and lawsuits. You cannot turn this around on me and say otherwise. It's all here in black and white.

At this point there is nothing more that I can do to help. Your story is ever changing and I am thousands of miles away. I hope that YorkieMother is able to help you and get this dog into a rescue. This entire thing is nothing but a huge mess and a poor dog is tangled up within it.

whatever.. I didn't turn anything on you or anyone.. It is clear in at least 2 posts about the boy who was bitten..

But your email to this breeder did not tell the whole story and "I" should have been contacted for more information from that rescue..PERIOD!

You think you know it's all my fault she is like this as you said in your email to Laura when you didn't even know the whole story! You write up there to her that its our home when you seem to either not know, since you never read all the posts, that she has only been with us 6 months. And that she was re-homed by me 2 other times and they brought her back because of these issues.

So it is pretty obvious, it wasn't me and MY home making Mindy like that. You gave her YOUR opinion, and your assessment of Mindy and her environment without even knowing anything about her or me!

[mommadog1]

Originally Posted by megansmomma

Let me send you a link to all of the information that she has posted over the past 2 months so that you can get a better idea of what has been going on with this dog.

Personally, I think it is the enviornment that she is in that is causing the issues more then anything.

She is in a house that is full of animals and breeding females, puppies, kids, male friends coming and going,

just too much activity for what this dog is capable of being exposed to. While this woman has had her she has been rehomed and returned 2 times. Here is all of the information that we have. I so hope that you can help.

Jeeze...I do not have a house full of animals and breeding bitches.. once again your assuming crap.. HOW DARE YOU! and I ha NO damn kids, I have a 21 year old son who enjoys having friends over once awhile.. That is bad?? that makes her bite? BS!

And you make me sound like a whore saying I have men coming and going..I have a husband and a son, they have MALE friends for crying out loud..

I am SO done with you! you are a horrible judgmental person!

[DvlshAngel985]

I've been reading this thread and honestly, I don't think Megansmomma is blaming you for this situation. It's obvious Mindy came to you as she is right now. She's aggressive, probably because she wasn't taught any better. I do think that your enviroment, and by that I mean other dogs, and a litter of puppies, complicate the situation for Mindy. She simply can't cope with her surroundings. Nothing against you, 6 months wouldn't be enough to change her to be a better balanced dog.

From an outsider, I do think it's in everyones best interest to let Mindy go to a rescue. She's been dealt an awful card, and the last thing you need is to endanger the litter you have. I bet you're attached to Mindy, but your home might not be the best for her. I urge you to try again to reach out for help. Be honest, and tell them exactly what happened with the kid that was bitten.

[mommadog1]

Originally Posted by YorkieMother

"Ok I remember Terry Ryan, she is several hours from me. There are behaviorists closer to me. But as I have said before I cannot afford the fees for a behaviorist at this time, and my husband also had a fit about the cost and said no way.

I called my regular vet, he is out today but will call me in the morning. But Elaine (at the clinic) says there is a vet not to far that is also a behaviorist. So I will talk to him tomorrow (my reg. vet) and see what he suggests. He has never seen Mindy. She was seen by another vet at the clinic I took her to for the spay. They were the ones who recommended having her PTS.

My whole reason for seeking out a rescue was because I CANNOT fix her. It is putting my other dogs in danger and upheaval having her here, as well as people coming into my house. My other dogs are very stressed out by her and it isn't fair to them.

If I had known she was like this I would never have agreed to taking her in. We thought it was going to be very temporary until we found a home for her and here it is 6 months later and she is worse.

Also, it costs a lot more then 100.00 to ship a dog. It's almost 200.00 plus crate, and health certificate. It ends up being close to 300.00 or more."


Call Best Freinds and get her placed there.

I do not want to hear they are full or they do not take aggression or they will not come get her arrange a pick up.

Cause I know they do and will and have all over the World.

My offer is off the table and oh a kennel her size would have to be gold plated ok maybe only silver to be 100.00 as our 400 that I bought for our 90 pounder was $78 at walmart in Wash. state the last time we had to pick one up.

Health cert. is around 50. We fly all the time all the time so the costs are well know.

If you had filled in the form and got to me with the vet number you may have been amazed at what would have happened next. I not willing to continue.
I have one that make yours look easy and she is 8 years old and happy and alive. I have CGN a dog that should have been put down.
So that leaves me open for an owner that is serious about helping their dog.


JL

Good for you! No worries, you wont be hearing anything from me again..

[mommadog1]

Originally Posted by YorkieMother

I do not know. Everything that is placed in front of her has a Problem and while I can understand the stress of it.

At this point they are that dogs only hope.

I am stepping away.

JL

it was to late to call for crying out loud! I will not reply to you or anyone else any more about where she goes, with who or when, nothing will be mentioned about her again. I KNEW you would turn on me.. I am not the one who said no..the rescue was..how is that MY FAULT??????

[mommadog1]

I am asking for this thread to be closed.. for those of you have really tried to help without blame, thank you..

[capt_noonie]

Originally Posted by DvlshAngel985

I've been reading this thread and honestly, I don't think Megansmomma is blaming you for this situation. It's obvious Mindy came to you as she is right now. She's aggressive, probably because she wasn't taught any better. I do think that your enviroment, and by that I mean other dogs, and a litter of puppies, complicate the situation for Mindy. She simply can't cope with her surroundings. Nothing against you, 6 months wouldn't be enough to change her to be a better balanced dog.

From an outsider, I do think it's in everyones best interest to let Mindy go to a rescue. She's been dealt an awful card, and the last thing you need is to endanger the litter you have. I bet you're attached to Mindy, but your home might not be the best for her. I urge you to try again to reach out for help. Be honest, and tell them exactly what happened with the kid that was bitten.

agreed.

[capt_noonie]

Originally Posted by mommadog1

I am asking for this thread to be closed.. for those of you have really tried to help without blame, thank you..

*shaking head* Poor Mindy...

[AbbysMom08]

I'm so sorry for everything you are going through.
I wish I had the answer.
I will keep you in my prayers.