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08-11-2005, 05:27 PM | #1 |
BANNED! Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Janesville WI
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| What to do?? Relationship stuff I have been seeing some one off and on nothing serious. We both see other people. Tonite I have a date with a friends brother. Anyway that isn't my point. The guy that I have the date with tonite is hot and nice. BUT I couldn't think of what to wear tonite and we decided its a jeans and nice shirt kinda night nothing fancy or too dress so I didn't find anything in my closet. The mall is 10 min away so I go. I have on a baseball cap, sweats, a tank top and flips flops. Not looking my best. I run into this guy Ryan. He used to be friends with my ex. My ex was a jerk. He treated me like crap and when we were in public and he treated me like crap Ryan would always stick up for me. This caused problems for Ryan and my Ex, andy's friendship. Andy and I split and I had run into ryan a little while after andy and I split and we went to a hockey game together. Andy found out about it and raised hell so Ryan and I went our separate ways instead of dealing with drama. SO back on track now, Ryan noticed me before i noticed him tonite and came up and started talking to me. Told me how much he missed hanging out with me and all that happy crap. Told me I look great. (HAHA) Then gave me his number and told me that since it has been a few years since we saw each other he hasn't stopped thinking about me and would love to pick up where we left off. I couldn't help it. I got tears in my eyes and hugged him. He then asked if I would be free tonite to do some thing. I told him about my date and he looked like some one just ran over his dog ( I know crappy humor sorry) so I told him that I would call him in an hour and let him know if I wanted to do something. So I get the clothes that I want, and then drove around for about 30 min. Called my date and cancelled and then called Ryan. I am meeting Ryan at 9pm. We are going for a boat ride to look at the stars and to catch up. Here is my dilema. When my ex andy and I were together I used to hope and pray that Ryan would be out whenever we went out. Then when he was I used to spend all my evening talking to him and stuff. I had the biggest crush on him. Then when him and I actually went out a few times and all that I seriously was head over heals for him. He told me he could see himself with me for the rest of his life back then. When I called him tonite and said that I canceled my date he sounded sooooo happy. Im scared to feel all those things for him that I did then though. Honestly, there hasnt been a day that has gone by in the past 3 years (since ryan and I went out last) that I haven't thought about him. Seriously he is my dream man. SO do I just go with the flow and let myself feel whatever I feel or do I guard myself?? HELP!! Here I included a few pics of him too |
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08-11-2005, 05:31 PM | #2 |
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| I say go with the flow...You will know if/when to have your guard up...You are a SUPER smart woman!! Good Luck and KEEP US POSTEDD!!! WOOHOOOO!!!
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08-11-2005, 05:32 PM | #3 |
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| i say do what your heart tells you. just my opinion, follow your heat |
08-11-2005, 05:32 PM | #4 |
Donating YT 14K Club Member | I can get so mushy over crap like this! LOL! Let things come naturally. Obviously, this guy has thought about you a lot over the years as you have him. He could be the one that you've been waiting for. I don't hold much back and fall in love pretty quickly. It's just the romantic in me, I guess. The way I see it is life is too short. If he's given you a reason to hold back then why go out with him again? This person hasn't given you a reason at least not one that you've told us. Your date tonight sounds very romantic. Can't wait for more details!
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08-11-2005, 05:32 PM | #5 |
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| I think that you should just let it happen. If it's meant to happen it will whether you want it to or not. If it's not meant to happen, you will notice the difference in feelings for him. The important thing is just to go out and have fun. Sometimes when you make too much of a situation, you don't have as much fun and you just think about how it will turn out. Hope that helps. HAVE FUNNN KELLY!!!!
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08-11-2005, 05:34 PM | #6 |
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| Oh wow! How romantic!!!! I say go with the flow. If it's meant to be, it WILL happen!!!! I hope you have a great time!!!!!
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08-11-2005, 05:35 PM | #7 |
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| No he hasn't given me a reason to hold back and when I saw him all those feelings taht I had then came rushing back. I can also tell in the disappointment that he had when I told him I had a date tonite that I think he still feels the same. Then when I called him to tell him that I had cancelled my date he was sooo excited. |
08-11-2005, 05:37 PM | #8 |
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| just go with the flow and see what happens!
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08-11-2005, 05:43 PM | #9 |
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| let your heart and instinct lead you it never lies..
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08-11-2005, 05:46 PM | #10 |
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| Thanks all. I will let you know how things go tomorrow. I have to run though to get ready. WHOOHOO. Im nervous. Feel like a highschool girl going on my first date. |
08-11-2005, 05:47 PM | #11 |
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| Just go have fun... As it was said eariler....what's supposed to happen will happen....And WOW that he waited for you...hehe..There's not a lot of guys that would do that..Have fun tonight...and just see what happens...LET US KNOW!!! GOOD LUCK KELLY!!
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08-11-2005, 05:50 PM | #12 |
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| Awww Kelly you have to do what your heart tells you to! Only you know what the right thing for you is! I know it sounds cheesy and easy but I also know it is extremely hard to be in these situations! I wish you nothing but happiness and if he makes you happy and treats you well, go for it! Have a great time! Now I'm gonna have to stay up waiting to see what happens hehe |
08-11-2005, 06:42 PM | #13 |
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| Go with it...I think you probably did the right thing. The same thing kind of happened to me with my husband, except he was MY ex and a few years down the road we got back to gether and got married a year later! I couldn't be happier. I knew he was "the one" and I never dated anyone that ever measured up to him. Good luck I hope it works for you!
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08-11-2005, 06:58 PM | #14 |
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| Its raining so the boat ride has been post poned. I am talking to him on the phone as I write this. HEHE. We have been talking about the past and what has happened since we went our separate ways. He said that he hasn't had anything serious since we split. Its not that we were a couple we had only been out a few times together. Went to a hockey game and went to the motorcross together, that is it. But he returns my feelings. He too says that there hasn't been a day gone by since then that he hasnt thought about me. Im seriously in tears and I am not an emotional person. Ironically he saw my ex, the reason that him and I split ways, at the gas station tonite after seeing me. I guess my ex came up and asked how he was and what he was doing these days. Ryan told Andy (my ex) that he was doing really well, just bought a house, boat, new truck, expanded his business and then threw in, getting married in a few months to me. LOL I guess Andy didn't catch it right away. Went in to pay for his gas then came back out and said "You are marrying who??" Ryan said "Kelly, your ex, the one that you couldnt let go of." Andy I guess just shook his head and got in his car and left. LOL Ryan says to me, I hope Im not getting ahead of myself. LOL He has really poored his heart out to me. Feels the same way I do. I cant stop crying damn it. they are happy tears though. I will keep ya'll posted as the nite goes on and all that stuff. Just wanted to post this right away. |
08-11-2005, 06:59 PM | #15 |
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| Good with the flow... I am sure things will work out.. He is cute!! Good luck and post about the date when you get home.. I'll (we'll) be waiting
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