New York Show in Feb?

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by Elle

Correction. BIS, not BISS.

Not sure about car or what win?

[Elle]

That's good then. I'm surprised. I thought you knew.
When you figure it out, no need in sharing it. You will. It's better not to share anyone's name or dogs name.

[Elle]

I didn't mean to edit that. I was going out of the page.

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by Elle

That's good then. I'm surprised. I thought you knew.
When you figure it out, no need in sharing it. You will. It's better not to share anyone's name or dogs name.

No nothing about a car or what win. The only thing I do know is about the picture posted. Nothing else was discussed on phone calls I received, just the audacity of someone doing such a thing.

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

Yes, I remember that thread....there were pics that you posted there. It was an educational thread. However, this thread was not. It was a thread to celebrate yorkies, not to ridicule a fellow exhihbitor.

You continue to say that you are hurt and confused. I don't think it even enters your mind the hurt and insult that you caused the person you took the picture of and posted it all over the internet.

If you remember that thread...
Believe I'm still hurt! ...
from blocking from the forum and so on...
I have never reviled the name nor tried to offend anyone...nor LIED!!!!
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Still very confused! Is the "show world" for me?
Don't you think "the show world" is shrinking by something like that...?

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by Elle

Yes, about people laughing at her.

Laughing???
I wasn't laughing! I'm taking notes and learning!!!

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by Elle

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A month later you are still coming here telling my friends & I that we're all wrong and you have freedom this freedom that?

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I was blocked! (low blow) Thank you for asking...

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by Yelena

If you remember that thread...
Believe I'm still hurt! ...
from blocking from the forum and so on...
I have never reviled the name nor tried to offend anyone...nor LIED!!!!
...
Still very confused! Is the "show world" for me?
Don't you think "the show world" is shrinking by something like that...?

This is the last I'll time I'll respond to you.

You continue to spout about your hurt because you were Suspended from YT. No one sympathizes with you or condones what you did.

You still don't understand the ramification of what you did. You embarassed a fellow exhibitor, you didn't have to reveal who it was. Others that were there and those that saw the picture knew who it was.

You ask if the show world is shrinking by your decision of not to take part in the sport. My opinion is no. The sport doesn't want people that behave in an unsportsman like conduct, that show no respect, courtesy, or manners toward others in the sport. Do you think others will feel comfortable with you around a show site? Simple as that.

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

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You ask if the show world is shrinking by your decision of not to take part in the sport. My opinion is no. The sport doesn't want people that behave in an unsportsman like conduct, that show no respect, courtesy, or manners toward others in the sport. Do you think others will feel comfortable with you around a show site? Simple as that.

Heh?
I'm not asking if "my decision" right or wrong...
I didn't brake any rules by taking the picture and threat http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/yor...-dog-show.html obviously supports my doing nothing wrong...

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

...fellow exhibitor...

aren't you pushing it a bit to hard? I'm not part of it yet and I'm questioning myself should I ever be?

[Elle]

I'm not asking if "my decision" right or wrong...
I didn't brake any rules by taking the picture and threat What NOT to wear to a dog show obviously supports my doing nothing wrong...
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This is a joke. You don't show in jeans or without pantyhose.
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[Maximo]

Originally Posted by Yelena

aren't you pushing it a bit to hard? I'm not part of it yet and I'm questioning myself should I ever be?

Yelena,

Being an exhibitor requires the right disposition and people skills. You might be able to handle a dog, but it won't matter if you don't know how to handle people.

Freedom of speech does not mean freedom from good etiquette, tact, and social grace.

In this sport and in life, we should all strive to be gracious: characterized by tact and propriety, charm, good taste, and generosity of spirit; of merciful and compassionate nature.

And when we can't live up to these ideals, we have to at least fake it.

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by Maximo

Yelena,

Being an exhibitor requires the right disposition and people skills. You might be able to handle a dog, but it won't matter if you don't know how to handle people.

Freedom of speech does not mean freedom from good etiquette, tact, and social grace.

In this sport and in life, we should all strive to be gracious: characterized by tact and propriety, charm, good taste, and generosity of spirit; of merciful and compassionate nature.

And when we can't live up to these ideals, we have to at least fake it.

are you questioning my people skills? Who Is Judging Whom?

[Maximo]

Originally Posted by Yelena

are you questioning my people skills? Who Is Judging Whom?

You stated that you are questioning whether or not you should become an exhibitor -- and you have stated several times in this thread that you are scared and having doubts about showing because of the responses you have received. You have stated many times that you still don't know what the fuss is about you posting the picture.

All I did in my post is summarize what other people have already written to you above.

Yes, I'm questioning if you have the people skills required for this sport. This isn't judgment, it's an observation and constructive criticism. You need to be able to accept criticism and you need to have nerves of steel.

If you become an exhibitor, your behavior will be judged by your peers. I'm confident that a good reputation is crucial if you want to succeed in showing; the judges themselves are likely not immune to being influenced by an exhibitor's reputation.

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by Maximo

You stated that you are questioning whether or not you should become an exhibitor ...

Please read carefully! I was asking myself...
Thank you for your interest.