New York Show in Feb?

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by gemy

I'm not sure you understand English very well. but this is not a Local Forum it is read the world over. So what you post here can be read in Russia, Tibet, China, and India..

there is no reason to be scared. What we are trying to do is educate you, on what is acceptable practise in not only the dog show world, but in North America in all venues.

I feel that you know that the internet is worldwide. Perhaps standards of behaviour are differnt in your country. We are trying to show you what our standards of behaviour are in this forum

I really don't think she gets what she has done. Otherwise she'd have apologized for posting the picture and to Elle. She sees nothing wrong with it. I don't understand the reason she felt a need to post the picture that she refers to as a message. A message of what?

It is even more perplexing is in a ballroom full of gorgeous dogs and accomplished exhibitors, why someone would be focusing on something such as that. I know the first time I went to NY, my questions were coming out like a machine gun. Why is that being done, what dog is that.....why are they doing that, what is the judge doing......what's next?

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by gemy

I'm not sure you understand English very well.

Conciser I do NOT!
Still can I breath?
I asked for time out!
Can you respect that?

[gemy]

Originally Posted by Yelena

Conciser I do NOT!
Still can I breath?
I asked for time out!
Can you respect that?

Of course take your time. breathe, eat, sleep, you don't need to respond to everything immediately.


With respect

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by Yelena

Conciser I do NOT!
Still can I breath?
I asked for time out!
Can you respect that?

Yelana,

You don't have to come on and answer every post. It really isn't necessary.

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

Yelana,

You don't have to come on and answer every post. It really isn't necessary.

To tell you the truth I'm so lost...
and yes I still kind of care...
I don't know what to say...I'm confused and hurt....

[gemy]

Originally Posted by Yelena

To tell you the truth I'm so lost...
and yes I still kind of care...
I don't know what to say...I'm confused and hurt....

I am so sorry you feel lost, confused and hurt. Often times this is the beginning of learning.

When and if you feel ready, please share. You can also elect to share via private message with a poster. I'm confident that most here who have posted will listen, and help you to understand the remarks within this thread.

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by gemy

I am so sorry you feel lost, confused and hurt. Often times this is the beginning of learning.

When and if you feel ready, please share. You can also elect to share via private message with a poster. I'm confident that most here who have posted will listen, and help you to understand the remarks within this thread.

Please don't confuse me even more...I do NOT do "private"!
Please let it be!
Thank you

[Elle]

Originally Posted by gemy

I'm not sure you understand English very well. but this is not a Local Forum it is read the world over. So what you post here can be read in Russia, Tibet, China, and India..

there is no reason to be scared. What we are trying to do is educate you, on what is acceptable practise in not only the dog show world, but in North America in all venues.

I feel that you know that the internet is worldwide. Perhaps standards of behaviour are differnt in your country. We are trying to show you what our standards of behaviour are in this forum

Thank you for sharing this. I thought this topic was over. Seeing this makes you realize that she posted that photo all over the world. Why would a women be so evil? Jealously.



A month later you are still coming here telling my friends & I that we're all wrong and you have freedom this freedom that?

A lady was showing her yorkie at show and you took a photo of her butt crack. Then you post the photo in the net in front of her peers.

You didn't give her name? You didn't have too. YOU POSTED IN FRONT OF HER PEERS. Then you lied about her. She didn't deserve anything wrong or bad from you. Many members were watching Ace. Not you. You had no right to do that to our fellow breed fancier. None whatsoever. I'm not convinced you didn't use a zoom on your camera to do it. It's sick.

You said you may quit this breed. People have to bend over in all dogs, it's part of being in dogs. There is lots of time spent down and up. People have to worry about being so much in the ring. You have been in it. You don't have any excuse.

Now you come back here full of more audacity? I feel bad for the little handler with the dog that you're so jealous of.

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by Elle

...you lied about her....

I lied???

***
I'm still hurt and confused...
geee....

[Yelena]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

... A message of what?

...

perhaps http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/yor...-dog-show.html

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by Yelena

perhaps http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/yor...-dog-show.html

Yes, I remember that thread....there were pics that you posted there. It was an educational thread. However, this thread was not. It was a thread to celebrate yorkies, not to ridicule a fellow exhihbitor.

You continue to say that you are hurt and confused. I don't think it even enters your mind the hurt and insult that you caused the person you took the picture of and posted it all over the internet.

[Elle]

Originally Posted by Yelena

I lied???

***
I'm still hurt and confused...
geee....

Yes, about people laughing at her.

[gemy]

Originally Posted by Yelena

perhaps http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/yor...-dog-show.html

Yes this thread was a very active one at the time; if you look at the header it is about "what not to wear", an educational theme. Some pictures were posted there (by you?) that exposed women in unflattering ways, within the show ring.
The difference here with what you posted and I know it has been said before; but you posted on a thread that was all about the NYC specialty to share wins, to celebrate us being together, a picture, which by the way I never saw. I was at that National and was so focussed on the dogs, the way they moved and looked. I took plenty of pics and videos too. None of which showed anyone in an embarassing portrayal.

Too bad you missed the really big story. the story of Saturday's BOB judging. That might have been one to parley around the store so to speak

You owe an apology to the person whose pic you posted, and if you misquoted Elle to her. And by the way I heard no-one laughing at anyone in the show ring!

Freedom of speech is something we all have here in North America !! Not to be confused with you can say anything you want, and get (away with it), scot free so to speak. What you say on a forum can be commented upon, disagreed with, or supported.

I and others have tried to share with you what are the social norms within this democratic society you have elected to join. Listen or not, that is up to you. Bad behaviour is quite simply bad behaviour no matter what country you live in.


I am done with this thread.

[Elle]

I agree. I'm not sure what point she's making. This isn't about yorkies. This was a personal attack. Didn't the owner win a car where the poster is from when the dog went BISS?

This is personal, nothing to do w/ yorkies.

[Elle]

Originally Posted by Elle

I agree. I'm not sure what point she's making. This isn't about yorkies. This was a personal attack. Didn't the owner win a car where the poster is from when the dog went BISS?

This is personal, nothing to do w/ yorkies.

Correction. BIS, not BISS.