Looking for possible new home - Page 3 - YorkieTalk.com Forums

IamMiasmom · 02-21-2011, 06:59 AM

Lopsi please take care you are in our thoughts and prayers

SDale · 04-01-2011, 05:15 PM

This all brings tears to my eyes. I have only had my Cash for 3 months and I couldn't imagine him in another home, he is so spoiled, he wont let my son or husband do anything for him, he has to have me doing it. I understand that you have to do what you have to do. And I bet it was hard for you to decide which one you could part with. I hope you find the home you desire for your Bogey. My prayers go out to you.

valerieam · 04-01-2011, 09:21 PM

How are you doing, Lopsi? I hope the days are getting a little easier for you. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

susan lynn · 04-09-2011, 09:36 AM

Any news about Lopsi and Bogey?

tjwarder · 04-10-2011, 11:38 AM

I don't know if we could offer a new home or not. My husband and I just took in a 2 year-old Yorkie Poo that had been passed from home to home, so I understand the concern about fostering. Still, it sounds as though there are fosters and rescues who do think carefully about placement in order to avoid the upset of multiple moves.

We are very happy with our new Sugar Bear, and she is very happy and even tempered. Also amazingly well behaved, but we are still learning how to accommodate the needs of such a small dog. Also learning that caring for a small breed is VERY expensive. Bed, vet, quality food, toys, safe and comfortable harness, dog gate, possible xpen, need to build a fence so she can play unleashed safely (supervised, of course). Quite a schedule change to fit in 2 long and 2 short walks per day, play time, consistent meals and training, etc., etc. Making my office 'pet-friendly' for times when she would be home alone for longer than we want to leave her. On and on, they need a lot!

We aren't in Dallas often, but will be there Tues April 11 (6pm), and probably Saturday April 16th, and possibly the afternoon of April 20th. Perhaps we could help with a few long walk/play sessions each time and a trip to the groomer on the 16th. I CAN say that we are in the area from time to time and would love to help in these small ways.

Would love to offer to 'foster' for awhile and later adopt if OP is not able to bring him back home, but will first have to seriously consider our readiness to add a second pooch to our family. Ideal would be a good temporary home until OP can reevaluate ~ with the provision that the temp home would become permanent if necessary. If we can be that, will post here again ~ just not able to do that yet, and I know you need that kind of assurance. So, so very sorry for your loss. Prayers will be with you.

Lopsi · 04-10-2011, 04:10 PM

Just a quick update here. Bogey's had his bath and we gave him a nice summer do. He feels a lot better.

I've been in a wheelchair for about a week now, and Bogey thinks it's the best thing ever. He says, "PERMANENT LAP!" and he sits in my lap as I wheel all over the house. He loves it. If he's not in my lap, he's chasing the chair and trying to jump in it.

He's a sweet (silly) boy, and he's doing well.

Sandysbabies · 04-10-2011, 06:00 PM

Sounds like little Bogey has his permanent home. lol!!! Hope, hope, hope. It would just break his little heart to be seperated from you. I think he is good for you. I pray the best for you and Bogey and hope it turns out that you won't have to be seperated. So sorry to hear about your daughter. I know it must be devastating. Bogey has alot of love to give you. Please think about it.

lillymae · 04-10-2011, 07:50 PM

So have you decided against rehoming him ? Please say you are keeping him. Please. Please.Please.

That little one loves you more then his next breath.

Doodlebug · 04-10-2011, 08:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lopsi

Just a quick update here. Bogey's had his bath and we gave him a nice summer do. He feels a lot better.

I've been in a wheelchair for about a week now, and Bogey thinks it's the best thing ever. He says, "PERMANENT LAP!" and he sits in my lap as I wheel all over the house. He loves it. If he's not in my lap, he's chasing the chair and trying to jump in it.

He's a sweet (silly) boy, and he's doing well.

It sounds like you and Bogey have a very special bond and he loves his home with you. I hope all goes well and you will be able to keep him. I am glad that you have his best interest at heart and you will do what you think is best for him. I am so sorry about your daughter. Hugs...

Donnainohio63 · 04-10-2011, 09:00 PM

I swore I would never post this hear but I feel the need to share with you. In June of 2002 I lost my 12 year old son. I was at work, dh was at work and my boys were home. My 17 year old and my 12 year old. My son was murdered and I found out while sitting behind a desk at work. At the time I lost my son I had a black lab named buddy. I swear that dog knew what was going on because he was always by my side, when I cried, he put his head on my shoulder. I just do not know what I would have done without Buddy. The funny part is that Buddy was Johnny's dog. Johnny is my son that was murdered. I think that dog grieved for Johnny to I swear I seen it in his eyes. There are no words that I can say to you to make you feel better. I know the feelings, the emptiness and the whole that has been torn in your heart and I say to you,,,,,keep your little fur baby and let him help you, believe me he will. If you ever need someone to talk to I am here. My friends all look at me and tell me I am the strongest women they have ever known, if they only knew. I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter. Please know that I am here for you if you need me. Take care of yourself.
Donna

FlDebra · 04-10-2011, 09:32 PM

Just seeing this now and wanted to add my condolences to the tragic loss of their children to both Lopsi and Donna. I am so sorry for your losses. I cannot imagine the pain you have been going through but pray you will find some peace and comfort with God's help.

I lost my dear husband 2 1/2 years ago. I think my pups saved my life. They grieved as I did (that was the only time I have heard my Ben actually howl) but they were more resilient and quicker to get back to normal. Then they were there to help me. When I cry, they come to see if they can help and stay to make sure I am curled up with and given a lick or two when needed. They can sense my moods and Ben even tries to entertain me when I am down. He'll bring me a toy and coerce me into playing with him. I have to laugh at his antics and soon I am brought up from the depression once again. My youngest son left for college this past fall, leaving me alone in the house except for my precious pups. They give me reason to get up and going, they make sure I am always greeted when I come through the door, they let me know I am needed and loved. So, for ME -- keeping them is a saving grace. But each person has a different set of corcumstances. I respect that.

You do have another pup and you have family to lean on and that need help from you too. So, I do understand if you find the need to rehome Bogey. I can read the love between the lines of your posts but sometimes, loving so much is what makes us realize we need to look for more for our pet. There are some that require a more active life than others. I just want to let you know I understand you are looking out for him too. Whatever you decide, I support you! And again, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.

ChibiLuv · 04-13-2011, 05:26 PM

Hey Lopsi, I am a vet tech who just moved to the DFW area and wanted to let you know if you need anything for any of your furry babies I am more than happy to help. I do my own hair cuts, nail trims, baths, ect. Also if Bogey just needs someone to take him out for the day let me know. My little Chibi needs to make some yorkie friends, we are both very far from our friends and family so it'd be benificial for eveyone

I hope you decided to keep him, don't be afraid to ask for help, everyone needs it now and again

Furbaby Friend · 04-13-2011, 09:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChibiLuv

Hey Lopsi, I am a vet tech who just moved to the DFW area and wanted to let you know if you need anything for any of your furry babies I am more than happy to help. I do my own hair cuts, nail trims, baths, ect. Also if Bogey just needs someone to take him out for the day let me know. My little Chibi needs to make some yorkie friends, we are both very far from our friends and family so it'd be benificial for eveyone

I hope you decided to keep him, don't be afraid to ask for help, everyone needs it now and again

Awesome offer.

sganow · 04-18-2011, 09:37 AM

I can tell you that dogs can go into a pretty severe depression when someone they love dearly is gone. I had to take a job out of state and was separated from my family for 3 months until our house sold and the rest of the family joined me here in Texas. One of our Yorkies, Maggie, who has always been MY dog went into a very severe depression. They said she wasn't herself at all, would not interact with others, would pee when someone went to pick her up or pet her, and was a total mess while I was gone. I heard this from several people. Well, she has been fine since we have been reunited and she sticks to me like glue, even follows me to the bathroom. She lays on my feet when I'm standing, on my lap when I'm sitting. She is MY dog!

I'm saying this because it is obvious your Bogey loves you very much, and you seem to really love him too. If there's a way to stay together, I think that would be best for both of you. The offer some have made to help you out is awesome! Don't be afraid to accept help.

On December 31st, 2009 my wife had a stroke (the same night we lost one of her dogs). When she got out of the hospital, she could barely walk and needed help to walk, and could barely talk also. She saw an ad in the newspaper for Maltese puppies for sale (with a picture) and decided she had to have one. We got a little female and named her Lilly. We are convinced that Lilly helped her recover from her stroke. Dogs can be very therapeutic.

I believe you and Bogey belong together and can help each other out. I understand if you absolutely cannot keep him, but don't give up on him, or yourself, too soon. Unconditional love is a very good thing! Good luck!

Doodlebug · 04-20-2011, 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChibiLuv

Hey Lopsi, I am a vet tech who just moved to the DFW area and wanted to let you know if you need anything for any of your furry babies I am more than happy to help. I do my own hair cuts, nail trims, baths, ect. Also if Bogey just needs someone to take him out for the day let me know. My little Chibi needs to make some yorkie friends, we are both very far from our friends and family so it'd be benificial for eveyone

I hope you decided to keep him, don't be afraid to ask for help, everyone needs it now and again

ChibiLuv, you are awesome!!! I hope she has/or will contact you.

04-01-2011, 05:15 PM	#32
SDale Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Hamshire Texas USA Posts: 45	This all brings tears to my eyes. I have only had my Cash for 3 months and I couldn't imagine him in another home, he is so spoiled, he wont let my son or husband do anything for him, he has to have me doing it. I understand that you have to do what you have to do. And I bet it was hard for you to decide which one you could part with. I hope you find the home you desire for your Bogey. My prayers go out to you. __________________ Cash & Sheila

04-09-2011, 09:36 AM	#34
susan lynn Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Georgia Posts: 3,262	Any news about Lopsi and Bogey? __________________ SUSAN : TESSIE : HOBBES :CALVIN :SASSY There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face! ~ Ben Williams

04-10-2011, 04:10 PM	#36
Lopsi Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 875	Just a quick update here. Bogey's had his bath and we gave him a nice summer do. He feels a lot better. I've been in a wheelchair for about a week now, and Bogey thinks it's the best thing ever. He says, "PERMANENT LAP!" and he sits in my lap as I wheel all over the house. He loves it. If he's not in my lap, he's chasing the chair and trying to jump in it. He's a sweet (silly) boy, and he's doing well. __________________ ~Lopsi... and Pixie & Bogey; RIP Baby Caddo, 2/15/2007

04-10-2011, 09:00 PM	#40
Donnainohio63 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Lorain Ohio Posts: 1,882	I swore I would never post this hear but I feel the need to share with you. In June of 2002 I lost my 12 year old son. I was at work, dh was at work and my boys were home. My 17 year old and my 12 year old. My son was murdered and I found out while sitting behind a desk at work. At the time I lost my son I had a black lab named buddy. I swear that dog knew what was going on because he was always by my side, when I cried, he put his head on my shoulder. I just do not know what I would have done without Buddy. The funny part is that Buddy was Johnny's dog. Johnny is my son that was murdered. I think that dog grieved for Johnny to I swear I seen it in his eyes. There are no words that I can say to you to make you feel better. I know the feelings, the emptiness and the whole that has been torn in your heart and I say to you,,,,,keep your little fur baby and let him help you, believe me he will. If you ever need someone to talk to I am here. My friends all look at me and tell me I am the strongest women they have ever known, if they only knew. I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter. Please know that I am here for you if you need me. Take care of yourself. Donna __________________ http://thelittleyorkierescue.weebly.com/

04-10-2011, 09:32 PM	#41
FlDebra Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: FL Posts: 7,651	Just seeing this now and wanted to add my condolences to the tragic loss of their children to both Lopsi and Donna. I am so sorry for your losses. I cannot imagine the pain you have been going through but pray you will find some peace and comfort with God's help. I lost my dear husband 2 1/2 years ago. I think my pups saved my life. They grieved as I did (that was the only time I have heard my Ben actually howl) but they were more resilient and quicker to get back to normal. Then they were there to help me. When I cry, they come to see if they can help and stay to make sure I am curled up with and given a lick or two when needed. They can sense my moods and Ben even tries to entertain me when I am down. He'll bring me a toy and coerce me into playing with him. I have to laugh at his antics and soon I am brought up from the depression once again. My youngest son left for college this past fall, leaving me alone in the house except for my precious pups. They give me reason to get up and going, they make sure I am always greeted when I come through the door, they let me know I am needed and loved. So, for ME -- keeping them is a saving grace. But each person has a different set of corcumstances. I respect that. You do have another pup and you have family to lean on and that need help from you too. So, I do understand if you find the need to rehome Bogey. I can read the love between the lines of your posts but sometimes, loving so much is what makes us realize we need to look for more for our pet. There are some that require a more active life than others. I just want to let you know I understand you are looking out for him too. Whatever you decide, I support you! And again, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. __________________ FlDebra and her ABCs Annie, Ben, Candy Promoting Healthy Breeding to the AKC Yorkshire Terrier Standard

02-21-2011, 06:59 AM	#31
IamMiasmom YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Plattsmouth, NE Posts: 268 Blog Entries: 1	Lopsi please take care you are in our thoughts and prayers

04-01-2011, 09:21 PM	#33
valerieam Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: California Posts: 449	How are you doing, Lopsi? I hope the days are getting a little easier for you. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

04-10-2011, 11:38 AM	#35
tjwarder Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Sherman, Texas, USA Posts: 39	I don't know if we could offer a new home or not. My husband and I just took in a 2 year-old Yorkie Poo that had been passed from home to home, so I understand the concern about fostering. Still, it sounds as though there are fosters and rescues who do think carefully about placement in order to avoid the upset of multiple moves. We are very happy with our new Sugar Bear, and she is very happy and even tempered. Also amazingly well behaved, but we are still learning how to accommodate the needs of such a small dog. Also learning that caring for a small breed is VERY expensive. Bed, vet, quality food, toys, safe and comfortable harness, dog gate, possible xpen, need to build a fence so she can play unleashed safely (supervised, of course). Quite a schedule change to fit in 2 long and 2 short walks per day, play time, consistent meals and training, etc., etc. Making my office 'pet-friendly' for times when she would be home alone for longer than we want to leave her. On and on, they need a lot! We aren't in Dallas often, but will be there Tues April 11 (6pm), and probably Saturday April 16th, and possibly the afternoon of April 20th. Perhaps we could help with a few long walk/play sessions each time and a trip to the groomer on the 16th. I CAN say that we are in the area from time to time and would love to help in these small ways. Would love to offer to 'foster' for awhile and later adopt if OP is not able to bring him back home, but will first have to seriously consider our readiness to add a second pooch to our family. Ideal would be a good temporary home until OP can reevaluate ~ with the provision that the temp home would become permanent if necessary. If we can be that, will post here again ~ just not able to do that yet, and I know you need that kind of assurance. So, so very sorry for your loss. Prayers will be with you.

04-10-2011, 06:00 PM	#37
Sandysbabies YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Dallas, Texas Posts: 2,234	Sounds like little Bogey has his permanent home. lol!!! Hope, hope, hope. It would just break his little heart to be seperated from you. I think he is good for you. I pray the best for you and Bogey and hope it turns out that you won't have to be seperated. So sorry to hear about your daughter. I know it must be devastating. Bogey has alot of love to give you. Please think about it.

04-10-2011, 07:50 PM	#38
lillymae YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Idaho Posts: 4,544	So have you decided against rehoming him ? Please say you are keeping him. Please. Please.Please. That little one loves you more then his next breath.

04-13-2011, 05:26 PM	#42
ChibiLuv and molliluv too! Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Irving TX, USA Posts: 1,619	Hey Lopsi, I am a vet tech who just moved to the DFW area and wanted to let you know if you need anything for any of your furry babies I am more than happy to help. I do my own hair cuts, nail trims, baths, ect. Also if Bogey just needs someone to take him out for the day let me know. My little Chibi needs to make some yorkie friends, we are both very far from our friends and family so it'd be benificial for eveyone I hope you decided to keep him, don't be afraid to ask for help, everyone needs it now and again __________________ Teapot Club Member

04-18-2011, 09:37 AM	#44
sganow YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Van Alstyne, TX Posts: 842	I can tell you that dogs can go into a pretty severe depression when someone they love dearly is gone. I had to take a job out of state and was separated from my family for 3 months until our house sold and the rest of the family joined me here in Texas. One of our Yorkies, Maggie, who has always been MY dog went into a very severe depression. They said she wasn't herself at all, would not interact with others, would pee when someone went to pick her up or pet her, and was a total mess while I was gone. I heard this from several people. Well, she has been fine since we have been reunited and she sticks to me like glue, even follows me to the bathroom. She lays on my feet when I'm standing, on my lap when I'm sitting. She is MY dog! I'm saying this because it is obvious your Bogey loves you very much, and you seem to really love him too. If there's a way to stay together, I think that would be best for both of you. The offer some have made to help you out is awesome! Don't be afraid to accept help. On December 31st, 2009 my wife had a stroke (the same night we lost one of her dogs). When she got out of the hospital, she could barely walk and needed help to walk, and could barely talk also. She saw an ad in the newspaper for Maltese puppies for sale (with a picture) and decided she had to have one. We got a little female and named her Lilly. We are convinced that Lilly helped her recover from her stroke. Dogs can be very therapeutic. I believe you and Bogey belong together and can help each other out. I understand if you absolutely cannot keep him, but don't give up on him, or yourself, too soon. Unconditional love is a very good thing! Good luck!