I can tell you that dogs can go into a pretty severe depression when someone they love dearly is gone. I had to take a job out of state and was separated from my family for 3 months until our house sold and the rest of the family joined me here in Texas. One of our Yorkies, Maggie, who has always been MY dog went into a very severe depression. They said she wasn't herself at all, would not interact with others, would pee when someone went to pick her up or pet her, and was a total mess while I was gone. I heard this from several people. Well, she has been fine since we have been reunited and she sticks to me like glue, even follows me to the bathroom. She lays on my feet when I'm standing, on my lap when I'm sitting. She is MY dog!
I'm saying this because it is obvious your Bogey loves you very much, and you seem to really love him too. If there's a way to stay together, I think that would be best for both of you. The offer some have made to help you out is awesome! Don't be afraid to accept help.
On December 31st, 2009 my wife had a stroke (the same night we lost one of her dogs). When she got out of the hospital, she could barely walk and needed help to walk, and could barely talk also. She saw an ad in the newspaper for Maltese puppies for sale (with a picture) and decided she had to have one. We got a little female and named her Lilly. We are convinced that Lilly helped her recover from her stroke. Dogs can be very therapeutic.
I believe you and Bogey belong together and can help each other out. I understand if you absolutely cannot keep him, but don't give up on him, or yourself, too soon. Unconditional love is a very good thing! Good luck! |