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03-06-2009, 03:13 PM | #46 | |
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I know one of my neighbor wants to adopt a yorkie. I can give your informaiton to her if you really have to leave your baby. | |
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03-06-2009, 04:52 PM | #47 |
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| Wow I feel really bad for the OP ! She came here for help and support and probably left with more tears then she started with I know I would have ! I hope she comes back. |
03-06-2009, 04:57 PM | #48 |
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03-06-2009, 08:58 PM | #49 | |
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You don't seem to even be thinking about how this person feels. I absolutely can't stand it when someone says you shouldn't get a dog if you can't make the life long commitment. Are you saying that when you got your dogs you were absolutely 100% sure that nothing would ever go wrong for 15+ years? Cause let me tell you something, when I had to rehome my dogs, it was shocking. We WERE well off and always had been. Until my mom became disabled. Then, 9 years later for one, and a year and a half later for the other (they were different ages, obviously), we had to rehome them. CRAP - should've seen it coming! what WERE we thinking? Someone who has been there and felt the heartbreak and pain would never be so judgemental. It's not as if the dog is peeing on her couch. She got divorced, something you don't see coming. This is one of the most heart breaking things an owner could ever do, and you obviously don't have a clue about that. I'd say that she's come to the right place if she wants to find a home for her dogs. Because for every person who is going to be judgemental and tell her she shouldn't have gotten a dog in the first place, there are 5 people who want to help her out.
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03-07-2009, 03:02 PM | #50 |
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| You know part of what makes this forum work so well is this is generally a loving caring group of wonderful people. I think Pixelate if you would have originally just offered her options and websites that would have been politically and emotionally correct. I think initially your intentions where great. However you did not leave it at that. If I had beaten my Stepdaughter up verbally like you did that young woman who started this thread, suffice it to say she probably would have been more upset than she was initially. My stepdaughter was in such a dark place emotionaqlly with divorce,surrendering 2 dogs, her life in general all the crappy stuff going wrong in her life, If I had spoken to her as you have continually done........ Instead of possible just thinking about suicide well Oh My? What the? You see where I am going with this? I hope your life continues to go so well...... We've all lead the good life.... Unfortunately lovely lady life happens. Please find another site to spread your condescending comments or keep them to yourself... This 52 Year old child, has heard enough!!!!! It says you are no longer a member, so go away!!!!!! Sorry now go away!!!!! Sorry Administration I am real upset if I wasn't supposed to say this...... Sorry for the rambling!!!!! lol
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03-08-2009, 09:12 AM | #51 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Hamilton, Georgia, usa
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| AllyKatz came here for support. Bless her heart, her life is being turned upside down, everything is changing and nothing is in black and white. I am fairly new here and have found Yorkie Talk to be a lifesaver. I don't always post, but I read constantly, laugh and giggle at posts, and sometimes cry when people like Mary in Wichita loses a baby like Yoshi, or when someone like AllyKatz asks for help and gets lamblasted for being "unstable" for "maybe" having to rehome her babies. People on YT have become my friends through reading their posts, I feel like I know them, and it is sad that AllyKatz may not come back or post again and feel that same comraderie. Because to me that is what Yorkie Talk is supposed to be about . . . information, support and comraderie!
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03-08-2009, 09:15 AM | #52 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Hamilton, Georgia, usa
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| To AllyKatz: Please don't let pixelate run you off from YT. Who ever that person is, is not indicative of YT as a whole. Pixelate isn't even a member any more. Please let me know if you need help with your babies. Maybe we can help find you a foster home until you are able to get your babies back. This economy is bad, and I know that you are not the only one this will be happening to. It's important that we stick together in times of need, and not kick each other to the curb! Please PM me anytime you need to. I will be glad to work with you to help you find a solution for your babies.
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03-08-2009, 09:35 AM | #53 | |
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03-09-2009, 08:29 AM | #54 | |
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__________________ Mammadoodle to my Yorkiedoodle Barney and our crazy cat Ms. Sassy Pants. RIP Audrey-Belle Within the heart of every stray lies the singular desire to be loved | |
03-09-2009, 09:01 AM | #55 |
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| this thread made me so sad because I do believe life does throw us curve balls and often times its the woman that suffer. 3 years ago my cousin had a real tradgedy happen, she and he fiance had lived together for 4 years they had planned on getting married but were in no hurry , they were both in thier 40's he was in his later 40s, between them they had 3 poms, one poodle, 9 cats, 2 horses and were the most caring animal people in the world, all of those cats were at one point strays. They were so dedicated to thier animals and loved them all soo much. ONe day her finance went to play baseball with his friends, he was the pitcher, he threw the ball to the hitter and dropped dead!! HE had a massive heart attack , which was totally unexpected. Because they were NOT married yet his family became very very very greedy even though he had not talked to most of them in years. They went to the courts and filed a suit against my cousin, she had 14 days to evacuate the house. She had worked for him , he owned his own mortgage company, so now she had no job, no house and 15 animals, no income and no house and two children? She sold the horses because she was dead broke, and had to rehome all but 2 dogs, my aunt her mother lives in a gated community which only allows 2 animals. She was devistated, she tried and tried to find homes with friends but many had thier own animals, lived in apts, had babies, etc, I kept one of her poms till she could find a place to live and a job , the other pom went to a neighboor who loved her, it took her 18 months to get the house ( which he did leave to her in his will) but she could not forsee her future, she had no idea this would have happened, she loved her dogs soo much and the cats too. Life does throw you curve balls, that poor girl must have came here trying to find a yorkie lover or someone to take them and got her heart ripped out.. so sad |
03-09-2009, 09:36 AM | #56 |
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| To many of us our dogs are like children to us. So those of you that say you would NEVER give up your dog...if you see yourself homeless, in the street, you would take your child with you to suffer? I know as much as it would hurt me, I would not have my 6 yr old in the streets with me. I would not be able to see her stuggle for warmth, food etc. I would find someone to stay with her until I could get back on my feet. would i miss her...OFCOURSE but I love her that much to try and give her BETTER. you guys have to realize that while you are entitled to your opinions, thats really all they are and sometimes they are not needed. do you think you helped this woman by putting her down? do you think her situation changed because you let her know it was a horrible thing to rehome her dogs? no...it didnt help one bit and thats what YT is here for...to help
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03-09-2009, 11:53 AM | #57 |
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| My dad did that to my mom. My dad was in the military and was overseas about every month... well this one time he was gone for a month, came home that night and gave us the stuff he bought us from Russia and everything was completely normal. The next afternoon he told my mom he wanted a divorce and there was absolutely NOTHING wrong in their marriage. We still don't know why he left and that was almost 10 years ago.
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03-09-2009, 12:59 PM | #58 | |
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03-12-2009, 01:02 PM | #59 |
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| Yes thats true sometimes In hard times people have to give there human babies to someone else because of there hard times and it called love if theres no way of being able to take care of them she wass doing the right thing and you can tell she didn't make up her mind yet she just wanted to make sure just in case something would happen she didn't have to make a split sec of doing what sshe had to do Hope the best for you I love to have them myself and would give the love and attention that you give them I understand you have to do the best you can for your babies thats the other Love I am talking about |
03-13-2009, 07:11 PM | #60 | |
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I hope she reads this .. I had to find someone to take care of my babies and me because my head was hit and people made bad comments about and still do. Maybe a family can help you until you know what is going to happen. Good Luck to you and will pray for you | |
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