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darnlora · 03-04-2009, 07:42 PM

I agree lighten up!!!!!!!!!!! My daughters life changed because of divorce, a bitter abusive divorce when this man was through with her she was doing well to take care of herself and 2 children..... emotionally and financially......she lost her home and surrendered 2 doxies to a recue cause she couldnot have more than 2 doxies in a rental anywhere. Unless we have walked in this young womens shoes lets not judge!!!!!! I applaud her for trying to find a loving alternative for what may turn out in the end!!!!! What better place to come than loving arms and hearts of other yorkie loiving friends?!!!! Her heart feels like its being crushed at best at every turn... Please Pm me or feel free to call my cell if I can help I live in Oklahoma. 918-964-1750. My heart is breaking for what you must be going through.

Pixelate · 03-04-2009, 07:46 PM

There is nothing negative in the statement that only people in stable situations should consider pets.

Zeus08 · 03-04-2009, 07:50 PM

Unfortunately you can't always see an unstable situation coming your way. Good luck and I hope you can work it out so you don't have to give up your babys.

Yorkieforme · 03-04-2009, 07:51 PM

I am sorry that you are going through these hard times. It must be heartbreaking for you to even have to consider giving up your fur babies. I hope you are able to keep them with you...keep us posted....Ignore those who give you negative feedback...we are not here to judge and God forbid ANY of us be in that situation!

phfgkl · 03-05-2009, 06:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Pixelate

There is nothing negative in the statement that only people in stable situations should consider pets.

Your life CAN be stable one day and NOT the next. You can NOT predict what is going to happen. I have been married 32 years, but,that doesn't mean that my hubby couldn't walk out on me, or worse yet die in a car accident today or tomorrow(he travels for a living) and if something like that happened, with me not working, I could not afford my house I live in, which means I would have to move, and I don't think I could find a place I could afford and take 6 dogs with me. So, you really need to knock off the attitude. I feel for this lady, and with the economy like it is, as I said before, things are going to get worse, and people should NOT be afraid to come on here and look for help from other caring pet owners

carmen in nj · 03-05-2009, 07:09 AM

I feel for you, I hope you can find a way of keeping your babies, but if you can a good rescue will take care of them.. and YES, life can change in a heartbeat, my friend MARRIED to a good man, no children, 4 yorkies and the envy of all of us.. Big Home, newest cars.. no college tuition..LOL
well last year, hubby march in the home made two suitcases and told her she would recieve the divorce papers soon, he was moving with his NEW Secretary 25 yrs YOUNGER than him and 20 yrs younger than my friend... now Kate had not work a day of her life, and did not know where to go and where to start, her parents lived in a senior complex in FL.. so that was out with her 4 dogs.. with tears that would fill an ocean she surrender 3 of the babies to a local NJ rescue and kept one.
so LIFE can change in a minute.. please be supportive to this lady..
hugs,
Carmen in nj

Yorkieforme · 03-05-2009, 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by phfgkl

Your life CAN be stable one day and NOT the next. You can NOT predict what is going to happen. I have been married 32 years, but,that doesn't mean that my hubby couldn't walk out on me, or worse yet die in a car accident today or tomorrow(he travels for a living) and if something like that happened, with me not working, I could not afford my house I live in, which means I would have to move, and I don't think I could find a place I could afford and take 6 dogs with me. So, you really need to knock off the attitude. I feel for this lady, and with the economy like it is, as I said before, things are going to get worse, and people should NOT be afraid to come on here and look for help from other caring pet owners

Well said!

I did not PLAN on losing my job last August and I did not PLAN on the economy being so bad the the Auto Industry would crash and I would not be able to land another job....even 7 months later!! (and believe me I have tried)
Lets be SUPPORTIVE of each other....I don't understand the need to knock someone down even further than they already are!

Skippy's Mom · 03-05-2009, 06:29 PM

Geez...How come it's fine for some to give up dogs, for whatever reason, and not others? This is obviously hard for her.

To the OP...Good luck finding homes for your dogs. I'm sure your life has been turned upside down by divorce. Having to rehome your dogs must break your heart. I know you'll find them a great new home!
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I think the OP also needs support, not nasty comments. Good Luck hon.

Pixelate · 03-05-2009, 07:51 PM

This is a situation many people on this board seem to be responding to on an emotional level but are not looking at the big picture. Things happen in life. I don't think anyone is disputing that. I do not know the woman that is trying to find a home for her Yorkies but like I said earlier Yorkies are desirable and it should not be too hard to find homes for them.

This is the 3rd time this week that I've run across someone looking to give away their pets. Someone I know wants to give away her Pit Bull because her bf doesn't like the dog and someone else I spoke to is giving away their cats because they are having a baby.

I really think that people need to think long and hard before they commit to animals because situations can and do change and when they do will you still be able to cafe for your animals? Give them a home? Pay for vet bills and food? If you are giving away a pet because your man doesn't like it, you have decided to have kids, or you can't afford to live on your own you should never have got the animal in the first place.

Unfortunately, with the current economy I believe this will become even more of an issue. Honestly, it makes me very sad to see animals taken from their homes and turned over to shelters. Yorkies will find homes but many others will meet their end in the shelters.

I am just asking people to think logically and be responsible. Like I said, I don't know this woman or her situation but I do know that I would *never* give one of my animals up. I would find a way to make things work.

Call that negative or accuse me of having attitude. I don't care. Sometimes the truth hurts and from what I've seen over the years more people need to hear it.

MeganS · 03-05-2009, 08:07 PM

Are you guys KIDDING me?!! You don't know this girl OR her situation!! Who are we to judge!? This thread has made me so angry. If you are in the perfect situation where you can swear to the stars that you'll never ever ever give up your dogs - then MORE POWER to you, but everyone doesn't have that luxury. Yes, they're our "babies" but when you get thrown a curve ball, landlords don't give a crap if they're your "babies" because to the rest of the world they are dogs. It's all fine and dandy to say you'd find a way to make things work and you'd live on the streets if it came to that...but what kind of life is that? There's not *always* a way to make things work, as much as we wish there was. I've actually seen people on here say that they would live on the streets to keep their pet. That is just selfish. What kind of life is that for your baby?

Everything isn't always so freaking easy. I hope to God that none of you who've questioned this woman are ever in this situation.

OP, I'm very sorry you're going through this. I'll have you in my prayers.

ambocken · 03-05-2009, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Pixelate

Like I said, I don't know this woman or her situation but I do know that I would *never* give one of my animals up. I would find a way to make things work..

You said it exactly... You don't know this woman or her situation... It seems that your opinions and attitude is based on some irresponsible pet owners that did not deserve to get a pet in the first place. Please do not pass judgment until you know the situation.

BoBoDiddle · 03-05-2009, 08:32 PM

On an unrelated note, it's good to see another Arkansan on Yorkietalk!!!

Breeze · 03-05-2009, 08:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeganS

Are you guys KIDDING me?!! You don't know this girl OR her situation!! Who are we to judge!? This thread has made me so angry. If you are in the perfect situation where you can swear to the stars that you'll never ever ever give up your dogs - then MORE POWER to you, but everyone doesn't have that luxury. Yes, they're our "babies" but when you get thrown a curve ball, landlords don't give a crap if they're your "babies" because to the rest of the world they are dogs. It's all fine and dandy to say you'd find a way to make things work and you'd live on the streets if it came to that...but what kind of life is that? There's not *always* a way to make things work, as much as we wish there was. I've actually seen people on here say that they would live on the streets to keep their pet. That is just selfish. What kind of life is that for your baby?

Everything isn't always so freaking easy. I hope to God that none of you who've questioned this woman are ever in this situation.

OP, I'm very sorry you're going through this. I'll have you in my prayers.

Awesome post Megan!

You just never know what can happen, all you can do is do your best. And if you can't, pray someone will help you and your pets out and not be judgeful.

She is looking for options not putting them down, turning them loose on the streets like too many others.

grouper · 03-06-2009, 03:59 AM

This coming from a mans perspective, Last spring my wife and I decided that we would like to have a Yorkie, we searched until we found a reputable breeder and we purchased one, at the time I was working between 60 and 70 hrs. a week, we got Marley on June 20th, in August my hours were cut back to about 30 a week, and it is still like that at this time. I thought every thing was good but the economy cares little about the people. I have grown so attached to Marley that if I had to give her up it would be very very hard to do. Who knows what tomorrow is going to bring, I am sure that the lady trying to find a rescue for her Yorkies is not doing it just because. I can tell by her post that she loves these babies deeply. I am sorry for her and hope things work out for her, as was stated earlier when you get a pet you do not know what the future holds for you. I am sure if she knew she was going to be getting divorced she would not have gotten her babies. Good luck to you and I hope you can find a place for you and the Yorkies to be together. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

cobird2 · 03-06-2009, 04:23 AM

I am sorry you have to think about giving up your babies and that you are getting negative responses from some members.
Divorce is devastating-only those who have been through it really know-and your babies could bring you some comfort if you could find a way to keep them.
It seems like you are trying to do your best for them and yourself.

03-04-2009, 07:42 PM	#16
darnlora Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Grove Oklahoma Posts: 494	I agree lighten up!!!!!!!!!!! My daughters life changed because of divorce, a bitter abusive divorce when this man was through with her she was doing well to take care of herself and 2 children..... emotionally and financially......she lost her home and surrendered 2 doxies to a recue cause she couldnot have more than 2 doxies in a rental anywhere. Unless we have walked in this young womens shoes lets not judge!!!!!! I applaud her for trying to find a loving alternative for what may turn out in the end!!!!! What better place to come than loving arms and hearts of other yorkie loiving friends?!!!! Her heart feels like its being crushed at best at every turn... Please Pm me or feel free to call my cell if I can help I live in Oklahoma. 918-964-1750. My heart is breaking for what you must be going through. __________________ "The best and most beautiful things in world cannot be seen or touched they must be felt with the heart." ~~~~ Helen Keller

03-04-2009, 07:51 PM	#19
Yorkieforme YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Windsor, Ontario Canada Posts: 1,138 Blog Entries: 1	I am sorry that you are going through these hard times. It must be heartbreaking for you to even have to consider giving up your fur babies. I hope you are able to keep them with you...keep us posted....Ignore those who give you negative feedback...we are not here to judge and God forbid ANY of us be in that situation! __________________ Natalie & KiKi

03-05-2009, 07:09 AM	#21
carmen in nj Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Hopatcong, NJ, USA Posts: 4,615 Blog Entries: 74	I feel for you, I hope you can find a way of keeping your babies, but if you can a good rescue will take care of them.. and YES, life can change in a heartbeat, my friend MARRIED to a good man, no children, 4 yorkies and the envy of all of us.. Big Home, newest cars.. no college tuition..LOL well last year, hubby march in the home made two suitcases and told her she would recieve the divorce papers soon, he was moving with his NEW Secretary 25 yrs YOUNGER than him and 20 yrs younger than my friend... now Kate had not work a day of her life, and did not know where to go and where to start, her parents lived in a senior complex in FL.. so that was out with her 4 dogs.. with tears that would fill an ocean she surrender 3 of the babies to a local NJ rescue and kept one. so LIFE can change in a minute.. please be supportive to this lady.. hugs, Carmen in nj __________________ My Etsy shop is OPEN... Carmen in nj

03-05-2009, 06:29 PM	#23
Skippy's Mom Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 217 Blog Entries: 2	Huh? Geez...How come it's fine for some to give up dogs, for whatever reason, and not others? This is obviously hard for her. To the OP...Good luck finding homes for your dogs. I'm sure your life has been turned upside down by divorce. Having to rehome your dogs must break your heart. I know you'll find them a great new home! __________________ I think the OP also needs support, not nasty comments. Good Luck hon. __________________ Skippy and Gabby's Mom http://www.dogster.com/dogs/626557 Gabby Skippy

03-05-2009, 07:51 PM	#24
Pixelate No Longer a Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: No one's business Posts: 42	This is a situation many people on this board seem to be responding to on an emotional level but are not looking at the big picture. Things happen in life. I don't think anyone is disputing that. I do not know the woman that is trying to find a home for her Yorkies but like I said earlier Yorkies are desirable and it should not be too hard to find homes for them. This is the 3rd time this week that I've run across someone looking to give away their pets. Someone I know wants to give away her Pit Bull because her bf doesn't like the dog and someone else I spoke to is giving away their cats because they are having a baby. I really think that people need to think long and hard before they commit to animals because situations can and do change and when they do will you still be able to cafe for your animals? Give them a home? Pay for vet bills and food? If you are giving away a pet because your man doesn't like it, you have decided to have kids, or you can't afford to live on your own you should never have got the animal in the first place. Unfortunately, with the current economy I believe this will become even more of an issue. Honestly, it makes me very sad to see animals taken from their homes and turned over to shelters. Yorkies will find homes but many others will meet their end in the shelters. I am just asking people to think logically and be responsible. Like I said, I don't know this woman or her situation but I do know that I would never give one of my animals up. I would find a way to make things work. Call that negative or accuse me of having attitude. I don't care. Sometimes the truth hurts and from what I've seen over the years more people need to hear it. Last edited by Pixelate; 03-05-2009 at 07:56 PM.

03-04-2009, 07:46 PM	#17
Pixelate No Longer a Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: No one's business Posts: 42	There is nothing negative in the statement that only people in stable situations should consider pets.

03-04-2009, 07:50 PM	#18
Zeus08 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Sahuarita, Arizona Posts: 992	Unfortunately you can't always see an unstable situation coming your way. Good luck and I hope you can work it out so you don't have to give up your babys.

03-05-2009, 08:07 PM	#25
MeganS Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,016 Blog Entries: 1	Are you guys KIDDING me?!! You don't know this girl OR her situation!! Who are we to judge!? This thread has made me so angry. If you are in the perfect situation where you can swear to the stars that you'll never ever ever give up your dogs - then MORE POWER to you, but everyone doesn't have that luxury. Yes, they're our "babies" but when you get thrown a curve ball, landlords don't give a crap if they're your "babies" because to the rest of the world they are dogs. It's all fine and dandy to say you'd find a way to make things work and you'd live on the streets if it came to that...but what kind of life is that? There's not always a way to make things work, as much as we wish there was. I've actually seen people on here say that they would live on the streets to keep their pet. That is just selfish. What kind of life is that for your baby? Everything isn't always so freaking easy. I hope to God that none of you who've questioned this woman are ever in this situation. OP, I'm very sorry you're going through this. I'll have you in my prayers. __________________ Megan "I have my dreams, I have made plans." - The Pirate Queen All Gave Some; Some Gave All Last edited by MeganS; 03-05-2009 at 08:10 PM.

03-05-2009, 08:32 PM	#27
BoBoDiddle Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Arkadelphia, AR Posts: 71	On an unrelated note, it's good to see another Arkansan on Yorkietalk!!!

03-06-2009, 03:59 AM	#29
grouper Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: livonia mi Posts: 13	This coming from a mans perspective, Last spring my wife and I decided that we would like to have a Yorkie, we searched until we found a reputable breeder and we purchased one, at the time I was working between 60 and 70 hrs. a week, we got Marley on June 20th, in August my hours were cut back to about 30 a week, and it is still like that at this time. I thought every thing was good but the economy cares little about the people. I have grown so attached to Marley that if I had to give her up it would be very very hard to do. Who knows what tomorrow is going to bring, I am sure that the lady trying to find a rescue for her Yorkies is not doing it just because. I can tell by her post that she loves these babies deeply. I am sorry for her and hope things work out for her, as was stated earlier when you get a pet you do not know what the future holds for you. I am sure if she knew she was going to be getting divorced she would not have gotten her babies. Good luck to you and I hope you can find a place for you and the Yorkies to be together. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

03-06-2009, 04:23 AM	#30
cobird2 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: New York Posts: 837	I am sorry you have to think about giving up your babies and that you are getting negative responses from some members. Divorce is devastating-only those who have been through it really know-and your babies could bring you some comfort if you could find a way to keep them. It seems like you are trying to do your best for them and yourself. __________________ Johnny, Our Big, Little Dog Last edited by cobird2; 03-06-2009 at 04:24 AM.