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| YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Missouri
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Doesn't matter the what if's or should of done after the fact. What is important is to help when help is NEEDED. It is after all what this board is suppose to be about.. RIGHT? I find it funny that most are wanting to know what's going on but also want to slam the person at the same time. I can't say I blame her for not telling you. She has told the ones who were truly interested in help her. And Tammy to get this thread locked just contact ADMIN. | |
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| YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Ohio
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| YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Brunswick Maine
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Things have been said here that are just plain mean and cruel. Maybe there are some things that could have been changed, but to attach a person as many here have done is just uncalled for. And everyone who made an attack, should be ashamed of theirselves. Is this lady running a puppy mill? no. Did she get caught up in having her little girl be a mommie? Probably so. BUT To attach and degrade her as several people did is totally wrong. And for that reason, which has happened in quite a few posts this summer, I will be going to Admin and requesting that I be allowed to remove myself from Yorkietalk, as much as it saddens me. I really love this site, but will not let myself be associatiated with such judgemental people.
__________________ Darlene, Zeke Last edited by keylargolady100; 09-28-2009 at 10:03 AM. | |
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| Donating YT 12K Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Council Bluffs Iowa
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I have learned so much from this site and made great friends. Sorry to see you go. | |
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| Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: S. W. Suburbs of Chicago, IL
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__________________ “Never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference.” Mark Twain | |
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| YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Brunswick Maine
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| Yes truth hurts, but think about this, What if it was one of you who was here for something and had other people attack and condem you in public? And I am sure there will be the reply now that says well that will never happen will it. I think that is what is so upsetting, is that these were all done in public. Not to help or teach anything, but to just be nasty and mean. I have seen this type of attitude in different threads all summer, it needs to stop. You can get your point across with out hurting people so badly. And if you need to send a pm do it.
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| Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: TX
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| YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: northern ireland
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| the girl asked for help, and got riddiculed, sad cause she cud have given advice to newbies thinking off the same thing. there is worse people in this life need ur anger, and she was not one off them, it makes me reluctant to ask anything on here in future
__________________ my beautiful sole mates,, R.I.P my fallen angel bailie 97-2012 |
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| Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Mississippi
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What bothers me from her post is that the vet set an appointment for 4 o'clock. How could any vet not tell her to come right on in if the pups were dying? That is an emergency if I ever heard of one. This vet sounds like a jackass and there are far too many of them out there. It's not easy to find a truly qualified, responsive vet which is exactly what is needed when you have a serious situation. I can only hope there was a good outcome and some of the pups made it. This is all so sad.
__________________ ORANGUTANS ARE DYING FOR THE SAKE OF CHEAP PALM OIL....AND YOU USE IT!!! http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/ani...m-oil-you.html | |
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| Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Cataula, Georgia
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I'm shocked and surprised by some of the post here. YT seemed to be the ONE place on the internet where people showed their love for these babies .... and each other. I'm saddened by this persons situation and the babies dying and then.... some of the post here. Note that I'm not disagreeing with anyone on here, everyone has a right to their feelings and opinions. Maybe some of the harshness comes from the frustration of not really being able to help these little sick angels. I never thought I'd see such as this here, I'm so sad for us all.. Can't we just all get along? Please? I'm praying for the Yorkie babies and mama Yorkie, God please save these little precious ones. | |
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| Loving Addie Since 2008 Join Date: May 2009 Location: San Antonio, TX, USA
Posts: 783
| I must be misunderstanding something ... I've read every single post made here, and the ones that were referenced where the OP started other threads. For the first few pages, everyone only gave very helpful advice. When the OP did not update (which is actually a pattern in a few of her other posts), people became frustrated. Sure emotions ran high, but would members here rather have others just say, "Whoops! That sucks. I hope you learned your lesson!"? It's not like the OP was making a quilt and screwed up the pattern. She irresponsibly bred pups that led to death. How is she different from a BYB (and I'm not actually being snarky here, I am actually asking a genuine question)? There's no need to attack others' opinions and advice (from both sides, really). The OP put herself out there, asked a question and got many very honest answers. To be frank, if she can't handle a little fire from an ON-LINE forum, then what on Earth made her think she could breed puppies? She should feel bad. She should feel guilty. It's frustrating because I waited several years before getting Addie, and I got her as a rehome. But I made darn sure I could afford her apartment cost, spay and all other possible medical bills before I took her as mine. Nothing would make me feel worse than taking in a cute little pup knowing I couldn't afford her if she was hurt and then she got hurt and died. That would be completely on me. It would be my fault that pup died, just like this situation is completely on the shoulders of the OP. And really, who types on the computer to ask for advice when one of your pups is moaning in pain? I love this forum, and I trust the advice I get, but if I have a major problem, I call the ER vet first. Later when the problem is resolving I can update everyone on YT, so I can get additional advice and maybe give someone else information on how to act in a similar situation. We should reward responsibility and scold irresponsibility. She's not a five-year-old who accidentally spilt milk on the carpet. She is capable of making logical decisions and failed this time. It would have been great if the OP hadn't had to learn this lesson with the death of innocent creatures, but that's unfortunately not how it happened. As a non-breeder and with several friends heavily involved in rescues, it saddens me greatly to hear this situation. And I just don't think I will ever understand those who think breeding is a great way to make some cash. I really don't think anyone who commented to the OP didn't have the pups' best interests at heart first. That's why the debate got heated. That's why everyone is so emotional, and I really can't blame them. I can just hope the OP has her baby spayed (assuming she's still alive), and that others who think breeding is a get-rich-quick scheme stumble across this thread and realise just what it could cost.
__________________ Jamie and Addie ![]() ![]() Last edited by AddieLove; 09-28-2009 at 01:23 PM. |
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| Resident Yorkie Nut Donating YT 20K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Texas
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Very well thought out and written post. Addie is lucky to have a responsible, loving owner/parent who thought about what she was getting into when she adopted her!
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| ♥LiVe♥LauGH♥LoVe♥ Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Tyler's Heart, North♥Carolina
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| Loving Addie Since 2008 Join Date: May 2009 Location: San Antonio, TX, USA
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And I must say I'm really the lucky one to have Addie, and I'm so very thankful she's in my life. ![]() Thank you! (By the way, on a completely other note, any news on little Tyler?)
__________________ Jamie and Addie ![]() ![]() Last edited by AddieLove; 09-28-2009 at 02:06 PM. | |
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