Need HELP! My Yorkie Babies are dying!

[ArmyWife313]

Originally Posted by chachi

Also I think it is very wrong that other members on here are criticized for giving helpful advice or sympathy

And it's ok that those of us who think she acted irresponsibly and shouldn't be coddled are getting criticized?

[chachi]

Originally Posted by ArmyWife313

And it's ok that those of us who think she acted irresponsibly and shouldn't be coddled are getting criticized?

I dont see them getting criticized just people saying you have gone over the line. Im sorry but when someone says someone is birds of a feather thats crossing the line. I am seeing a whole lot more being said then breeder irresponsibility.

[crystalsmom]

Cindy of course we don't want more dogs in rescue but there is such a thing as handling a situation with a bit of tact.

Do you think if Pat (YorkieRose) were still here it would have been handled this way. She would have looked beyond what the op had posted and seen some of the problems she probably was in, that she may not have been in earlier. Pat would have made her see her mistake in a kind way but at least express to her some sympathy.

There is a time and place for everything and some really show their colors for all of us to see.

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by chachi

I dont see them getting criticized just people saying you have gone over the line. Im sorry but when someone says someone is birds of a feather thats crossing the line. I am seeing a whole lot more being said then breeder irresponsibility.

Who said that someone is "birds of a feather". How is it you find that insulting anyway?

"Birds of a feather, flock together" is the entire saying and it is true. People of like interests and ideas do stick together. Simple fact.

[ARCHIE]

Once again a thread has gone astray. This thread was started because
someone was loosing innocent puppies and was in a panic.
It was about saving puppies not about weather or not she should have
bred her female. Live's were at stake and this woman needed help
from people who know how to help her. What is wrong with all of you?
This thread was about saving puppies from dying! I don't blame her
for not coming back. Who are all of you to beat someone up like this.
Times are hard all over the country but you continue to breed your
females knowing homes have to be found. There are so many pups
in rescues why not stop breeding for a year and allow those pups to get
into a loving home? This subject can go round and round forever because
everyone has their own points of view. It's not my business what you
do or how you do it so stop beating up on those who do something
you wouldn't. Next time help save innocent lives then go for the
jugular! I don't agree with what she did with her female but that does
not mean those puppies did not have the right to live!

[carmen in nj]

Originally Posted by ARCHIE

Once again a thread has gone astray. This thread was started because
someone was loosing innocent puppies and was in a panic.
It was about saving puppies not about weather or not she should have
bred her female. Live's were at stake and this woman needed help
from people who know how to help her. What is wrong with all of you?
This thread was about saving puppies from dying! I don't blame her
for not coming back. Who are all of you to beat someone up like this.
Times are hard all over the country but you continue to breed your
females knowing homes have to be found. There are so many pups
in rescues why not stop breeding for a year and allow those pups to get
into a loving home? This subject can go round and round forever because
everyone has their own points of view. It's not my business what you
do or how you do it so stop beating up on those who do something
you wouldn't. Next time help save innocent lives then go for the
jugular! I don't agree with what she did with her female but that does
not mean those puppies did not have the right to live!

My sentiments exactly, Amen to that..
hugs,
Carmen in nj

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by ARCHIE

Once again a thread has gone astray. This thread was started because
someone was loosing innocent puppies and was in a panic.
It was about saving puppies not about weather or not she should have
bred her female. Live's were at stake and this woman needed help
from people who know how to help her. What is wrong with all of you?
This thread was about saving puppies from dying! I don't blame her
for not coming back. Who are all of you to beat someone up like this.
Times are hard all over the country but you continue to breed your
females knowing homes have to be found. There are so many pups
in rescues why not stop breeding for a year and allow those pups to get
into a loving home? This subject can go round and round forever because
everyone has their own points of view. It's not my business what you
do or how you do it so stop beating up on those who do something
you wouldn't. Next time help save innocent lives then go for the
jugular! I don't agree with what she did with her female but that does
not mean those puppies did not have the right to live!

If you go back and read the entire thread, you will see that people DID try to help.
The OP disappeared and after many posts of people inquiring about the puppies....and people sending hugs, I said what I did because I felt it needed to be said.
New people would come here and read that stuff and think....oh, if I breed irresponsibly everyone will love me. Seriously. It was getting to be too much...what kind of message was it? If people would just let threads die when the people disappear after saying such horrific things, then the threads would not come to this. They just get on and go on and on and on about how sorry they feel for the OP.
Go read my original post on this thread....see that I posted way after the fact because at that point the OP had already disappeared and everyone was feeling sorry for HER.

[chachi]

Originally Posted by ladyjane

Who said that someone is "birds of a feather". How is it you find that insulting anyway?

"Birds of a feather, flock together" is the entire saying and it is true. People of like interests and ideas do stick together. Simple fact.

How do you know that just because someone gives someone helpful advice or sympathy that they have like interests or ideas. Im sorry I dont think you can get that from a couple of posts on the internet. I happen to disagree with the breeding situation of the op but I can still use tact and give her sympathy for her losses

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by chachi

How do you know that just because someone gives someone helpful advice or sympathy that they have like interests or ideas. Im sorry I dont think you can get that from a couple of posts on the internet. I happen to disagree with the breeding situation of the op but I can still use tact and give her sympathy for her losses

Don't put words in my mouth, please. Read below and see if you can grasp what I was saying! I DID quote the person I was responding to!

The best breeders in MY opinion, are those that do not freak if a buyer says they want to breed..but mentors them. Many of long-lasting friendships have been made this very way.

And I personally like breeders who truly love and protect the breed they are working with. So.....they are the ones I would flock with. She will flock with those who don't have that protection for the animals.

[chachi]

Oh I got a grasp of what you were saying not just on this thread but the other one

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by chachi

Oh I got a grasp of what you were saying not just on this thread but the other one

Huh? I don't see how another thread has anything to do with my response to that person.

[SassyZena]

I wish I never posted! Sorry for bothering everyone and starting an angry debate.
But thanks to the ones that really cared.

[ARCHIE]

Originally Posted by SassyZena

I wish I never posted! Sorry for bothering everyone and starting an angry debate.
But thanks to the ones that really cared.

Please update on your puppies? Are they ok?

[chachi]

Originally Posted by ARCHIE

Please update on your puppies? Are they ok?

I would love an update too! Some of us have been very worried about your pups

[carmen in nj]

Also how are YOU doing and how is mama doing too? I am very concern about you and the pups..
hugs,
Carmen in nj