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Yorkie Mom2 · 06-18-2009, 08:41 AM

I have a nuetered male and a female in heat. I know...I know...when am I getting her spayed? My husband always said we couldn't afford it. Now we in the middle of a divorce and I really can't afford it now. Anyway, Bentley, the nuetered male has actually locked with her several times. She is shamelessly wagging her tail in front of him constantly. His penis tip has been out for 24 hours and won't go back in. It looks so raw!!! poor baby. How can I help him?

Yorkie Mom2 · 06-18-2009, 08:45 AM

Oh yeah...I've had both dogs for several years and this has never happened before. He has never even actually locked up with her before this season. She is 5 and he is 7.

Mardelin · 06-18-2009, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Yorkie Mom2

I have a nuetered male and a female in heat. I know...I know...when am I getting her spayed? My husband always said we couldn't afford it. Now we in the middle of a divorce and I really can't afford it now. Anyway, Bentley, the nuetered male has actually locked with her several times. She is shamelessly wagging her tail in front of him constantly. His penis tip has been out for 24 hours and won't go back in. It looks so raw!!! poor baby. How can I help him?

Make sure there is no hair that has got caught in the shaft. This is what is probably not allowing his penis to retract. If so gently pull it out. If that isn't the case. Try cool water. If that doesn't work, contact your vet.

bchgirl · 06-18-2009, 08:49 AM

You can lubricate it with KY jelly and gently bring the skin back up.

Darlene68 · 06-18-2009, 09:22 AM

Holy cow

..I didn't know that happened if a male was neutered

GurleyGirl · 06-18-2009, 09:30 AM

First clean it and then you can put some baby oil on it to lubricate it after that... then try pulling the skin over it.... otherwise.... a trip to the vet.

Good luck!!

Mardelin · 06-18-2009, 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Darlene68

Holy cow

..I didn't know that happened if a male was neutered

Never underestimate the power of a woman. It happens.

Ellie May · 06-18-2009, 10:01 AM

Try to put it back in.
If that doesn't work, go to the vet immediately.
They need to be separately until she is no longer in heat because allowing them to do that could cause injury if nobody is there to hold them still.

smartpuppiepets · 06-18-2009, 10:44 PM

I never heard of it so i have no words of wisdom...
Please let us know how it got resolved....
And poor male.... he must be so uncomfortable !!!

stedmansmommy · 06-19-2009, 12:58 PM

This has happened to Stedman before. My hubby (I cannot do it as I will totally freak out, thinking that I am causing him pain) put him in the sink in WARM (not hot) water and used a mild soap and gently worked it back into the skin. Be very gentle though. If it has been out for 24 hours I can imagine that he is in a good amount of pain. Please help him ASAP, and if YOU can't...please get him to the vet right away

Nancy1999 · 06-19-2009, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by stedmansmommy

This has happened to Stedman before. My hubby (I cannot do it as I will totally freak out, thinking that I am causing him pain) put him in the sink in WARM (not hot) water and used a mild soap and gently worked it back into the skin. Be very gentle though. If it has been out for 24 hours I can imagine that he is in a good amount of pain. Please help him ASAP, and if YOU can't...please get him to the vet right away

I thought this was ok to do too, but when I posted this someone said that you should never do it in a bath. Now I can't remember why, but I remember she was pretty adamant about not doing this. So, maybe someone else has some more information on the bath technique and the safety of it.

stedmansmommy · 06-19-2009, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Nancy1999

I thought this was ok to do too, but when I posted this someone said that you should never do it in a bath. Now I can't remember why, but I remember she was pretty adamant about not doing this. So, maybe someone else has some more information on the bath technique and the safety of it.

Really? I had no idea. Hubby has done it a few times and it has never seemed to cause any problems and it always goes right back in almost instantly and Stedman is fine. Hmmm...had no clue. Will have to research it. Thanks Nancy for the heads up

Nancy1999 · 06-19-2009, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by stedmansmommy

Really? I had no idea. Hubby has done it a few times and it has never seemed to cause any problems and it always goes right back in almost instantly and Stedman is fine. Hmmm...had no clue. Will have to research it. Thanks Nancy for the heads up

Well, when I first read about this techique, the bath water just seemed to make sense. We've never needed to do it, but I wrote it as a suggestion once, and just cannot remember why this isn't considered safe. So I'll leave the answer up to the experts. Maybe Ann knows the reason, I think she's had experience with this sort of thing.

lily · 06-19-2009, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Mardelin

Never underestimate the power of a woman. It happens.

O yes my aunt called me said her fixed male tied with cookie a retired i gave her. she just about died. she had her fixed the next month.

MyTrixie143 · 06-19-2009, 02:23 PM

I have also heard you can sprinkle some sugar on and that may help. Being out for that long will make it dry making it more painful and harder to go back in, the sugar adds moisture.

06-18-2009, 08:41 AM	#1
Yorkie Mom2 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Gallatin, TN Posts: 354 Blog Entries: 1	His "lipstick" is broken! I have a nuetered male and a female in heat. I know...I know...when am I getting her spayed? My husband always said we couldn't afford it. Now we in the middle of a divorce and I really can't afford it now. Anyway, Bentley, the nuetered male has actually locked with her several times. She is shamelessly wagging her tail in front of him constantly. His penis tip has been out for 24 hours and won't go back in. It looks so raw!!! poor baby. How can I help him? __________________ Karen, Porsche's Mom RIP Sweet Bentley Boy

06-18-2009, 08:45 AM	#2
Yorkie Mom2 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Gallatin, TN Posts: 354 Blog Entries: 1	Oh yeah...I've had both dogs for several years and this has never happened before. He has never even actually locked up with her before this season. She is 5 and he is 7. __________________ Karen, Porsche's Mom RIP Sweet Bentley Boy

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GurleyGirl YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Scott City, Missouri Posts: 1,879	First clean it and then you can put some baby oil on it to lubricate it after that... then try pulling the skin over it.... otherwise.... a trip to the vet. Good luck!! __________________ Joanne Gurley's Yorkies

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Ellie May And Rylee Finnegan Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Metro Detroit, MI Posts: 17,928	Try to put it back in. If that doesn't work, go to the vet immediately. They need to be separately until she is no longer in heat because allowing them to do that could cause injury if nobody is there to hold them still. __________________ Crystal, Ellie May (RIP), Rylee Finnegan, and Gracie Boo🐶

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smartpuppiepets YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Beverly Posts: 1,042	I never heard of it so i have no words of wisdom... Please let us know how it got resolved.... And poor male.... he must be so uncomfortable !!! __________________ "The reason a dog has many friends is because it wags it's tail instead of it's tong " [I]Smartpuppiepets@yahoo.com /I][

06-19-2009, 12:58 PM	#10
stedmansmommy I Love My Lil' Punkin's Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Stedman and Tatum's World :) Posts: 15,331 Blog Entries: 5	This has happened to Stedman before. My hubby (I cannot do it as I will totally freak out, thinking that I am causing him pain) put him in the sink in WARM (not hot) water and used a mild soap and gently worked it back into the skin. Be very gentle though. If it has been out for 24 hours I can imagine that he is in a good amount of pain. Please help him ASAP, and if YOU can't...please get him to the vet right away __________________ Mommy Loves Stedman and Tatum! They have us wrapped around their little paws!

06-19-2009, 02:23 PM	#15
MyTrixie143 Mom to 6 Beautiful Furkids Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Ohio Posts: 5,409	I have also heard you can sprinkle some sugar on and that may help. Being out for that long will make it dry making it more painful and harder to go back in, the sugar adds moisture. __________________ A dog is a furry person! http://www.dogster.com/?300866 Tracey and the gang DestinyHarmonyScamperGracieLillieKiwi Hershey Peppi