I have a nuetered male and a female in heat. I know...I know...when am I getting her spayed? My husband always said we couldn't afford it. Now we in the middle of a divorce and I really can't afford it now. Anyway, Bentley, the nuetered male has actually locked with her several times. She is shamelessly wagging her tail in front of him constantly. His penis tip has been out for 24 hours and won't go back in. It looks so raw!!! poor baby. How can I help him?