What Is Going On Here?????? - Page 9 - YorkieTalk.com Forums

BubblPopElectrc · 09-29-2007, 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by MeganS

I agree with them. I always love reading your posts.

Thank you! I enjoy yours as well!

Judy in Waco · 09-30-2007, 01:22 AM

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Originally Posted by wemple2

This is a good thread. I'll try to behave myself, and be polite. I still love Yorkies and YorkieTalk and most, if not all of the wonderful people associated with it.

What are you talking about? Behave yourself? You are always polite..always! I have never seen you lose your temper.

lara2913 · 09-30-2007, 02:01 AM

I'm quite suprised by this thread!

I'm a long time member on another forum and to say the least its alot worse than this. I love it but it does get very heated and there really is no such thing as being banned.

I come on here for a break from there because I think you lot are all so nice!

Ichabob · 09-30-2007, 05:12 AM

I have also been a little uneasy about posting here lately too, I have been lurking around and reading but not posting as much, The last thing I want to do is cause someone feelings to get hurt or a thread to become heated,
we all have our opions and sometimes we write before we think it out.

Yorkiekids · 09-30-2007, 06:07 AM

I think people come here for friendship and an understanding of the breed. It's not right to judge anyone, because you don't like their post or it might have been asked 100 times before. It's the first time for them. We're all adult enough to know when we're answering in a constructive manner rather then a destructive manner. I wouldn't make a good moderator because I'd be banning everyone that was mean, and I would feel I was doing it for the good of the forum. I personally think if people were banned for a week it would make them think before they posted again. If you don't have something to say in a nice way, say nothing at all.

diggy4 · 09-30-2007, 06:23 AM

After talking with MANY YT'ers in private, whether in here, on the phone, msn, what have you, most everyone agrees...It's the tones being used. Some think they are SO smart and they also think its okay to talk condescending to people. The good news is, after sitting back for 2 days and just watching posts, tones, and observing a lot Its 99% of the time the same people. SO to avoid conflict and anger just as soon as I see their names i just click out and go on to the next topic. They will never stop or change. I have been lured into many topics and made VERY upset many times by these same people. I couldnt resist and felt I had to say something. Well not anymore.... I'm in control (in my best Janet Jackson voice)

and so it goes.....

zoeybear · 09-30-2007, 08:14 AM

I believe it is ok to disagree. It's all in the way you say (or type) things. When people disagree we get to hear both sides and that is good. People come here for information, friendship and entertainment, not abuse. It goes too far when people start getting angry. I have seen some very rude posts. I like to go back and look at the posts the person made before about different subjects. There are a few posters on here that just try to stir up trouble, or love to preach to others. That is life. There will always be that one person who has no tact or who has a chip on their shoulder. I think the best thing to do is ignore rude posts like I can't see them. Im sure that is more frustrating than actually getting a rise out of me. Next time you see a rude comment, just skip over it. If we all did that...they would stop. I want to add that I have met some very nice people on YT as well. Helpful people who care.

wemple2 · 09-30-2007, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Judy in Waco

What are you talking about? Behave yourself? You are always polite..always! I have never seen you lose your temper.

Well...there has been a time or two, where my feelings were hurt. I try to be diplomatic about it...or simply ignore the comments, but it's true...some people can be a bit harsh, when it's really not necessary. Treat others with the same respect that you would expect from them.

yorkiecrazy · 09-30-2007, 03:14 PM

judyeve · 09-30-2007, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by zoeybear

I believe it is ok to disagree. It's all in the way you say (or type) things. When people disagree we get to hear both sides and that is good. People come here for information, friendship and entertainment, not abuse. It goes too far when people start getting angry.

Very good point. I have also learned a lot from reading all the sides of a discussion.

As several people have mentioned on this thread, there seems to be a small group who are consistently nasty and rude. Whatever their reasons, I just wish they would go away or learn to say it the right way. And they always post!

PS

pepemint,

Love ya,

Chrissy0277 · 09-30-2007, 05:12 PM

So.... Im assuming when replying to this person who wants to breed their 2 lb yorkie that YOU F'in MORON wouldnt be the right thing to say lol

Ok Im not that mean lol and do know it wouldnt be the right thing to say

pepe mint · 09-30-2007, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by judyeve

Very good point. I have also learned a lot from reading all the sides of a discussion.

As several people have mentioned on this thread, there seems to be a small group who are consistently nasty and rude. Whatever their reasons, I just wish they would go away or learn to say it the right way. And they always post!

PS

pepemint,

Love ya,

back at ya!!!!!!!

luv4yorkies · 09-30-2007, 06:52 PM

Amber Lv thank you so much for saying this. Their dog their choice.Who Cares.

couldn't have said it better myself.

judyeve · 10-01-2007, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Chrissy0277

So.... Im assuming when replying to this person who wants to breed their 2 lb yorkie that YOU F'in MORON wouldnt be the right thing to say lol

Ok Im not that mean lol and do know it wouldnt be the right thing to say

Ya think?

drawlins27 · 10-01-2007, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by luv4yorkies

Amber Lv thank you so much for saying this. Their dog their choice.Who Cares.

couldn't have said it better myself.

I know you didn't mean it like this but as someone who does rescue and sees what can happen, I care. Yes, it is their choice but as lovers of all things Yorkie, we can and should educate them so that they make an informed choice. In a manner that is not rude of course

09-30-2007, 02:01 AM	#123
lara2913 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: UK Posts: 1,920	I'm quite suprised by this thread! I'm a long time member on another forum and to say the least its alot worse than this. I love it but it does get very heated and there really is no such thing as being banned. I come on here for a break from there because I think you lot are all so nice! __________________ Indy, Benjamin and Malachi There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face- Ben Williams

09-30-2007, 06:07 AM	#125
Yorkiekids Piper & Sebastian Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: florida Posts: 14,495	I think people come here for friendship and an understanding of the breed. It's not right to judge anyone, because you don't like their post or it might have been asked 100 times before. It's the first time for them. We're all adult enough to know when we're answering in a constructive manner rather then a destructive manner. I wouldn't make a good moderator because I'd be banning everyone that was mean, and I would feel I was doing it for the good of the forum. I personally think if people were banned for a week it would make them think before they posted again. If you don't have something to say in a nice way, say nothing at all. __________________ Susan, Piper ,Harley & Suiki

09-30-2007, 06:23 AM	#126
diggy4 Bella Boo & Diggy Too! Donating GS Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Detroit Posts: 6,156 Blog Entries: 5	After talking with MANY YT'ers in private, whether in here, on the phone, msn, what have you, most everyone agrees...It's the tones being used. Some think they are SO smart and they also think its okay to talk condescending to people. The good news is, after sitting back for 2 days and just watching posts, tones, and observing a lot Its 99% of the time the same people. SO to avoid conflict and anger just as soon as I see their names i just click out and go on to the next topic. They will never stop or change. I have been lured into many topics and made VERY upset many times by these same people. I couldnt resist and felt I had to say something. Well not anymore.... I'm in control (in my best Janet Jackson voice) and so it goes..... __________________ ALL DOGS GO TO HEAVEN

09-30-2007, 08:14 AM	#127
zoeybear Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 4,186	I believe it is ok to disagree. It's all in the way you say (or type) things. When people disagree we get to hear both sides and that is good. People come here for information, friendship and entertainment, not abuse. It goes too far when people start getting angry. I have seen some very rude posts. I like to go back and look at the posts the person made before about different subjects. There are a few posters on here that just try to stir up trouble, or love to preach to others. That is life. There will always be that one person who has no tact or who has a chip on their shoulder. I think the best thing to do is ignore rude posts like I can't see them. Im sure that is more frustrating than actually getting a rise out of me. Next time you see a rude comment, just skip over it. If we all did that...they would stop. I want to add that I have met some very nice people on YT as well. Helpful people who care. __________________ We give dogs time we can spare, space we can spare and love we can spare. And in return, dogs give us their all. It's the best deal man has ever made. -M. Acklam

09-30-2007, 03:14 PM	#129
yorkiecrazy Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Houston area Posts: 2,672	__________________ Jamie - Gracie's Katie's and Chloe's mom : Gracie 11-12-99 11-1-2012

09-30-2007, 05:12 AM	#124
Ichabob YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Lucedale ms Posts: 707	I have also been a little uneasy about posting here lately too, I have been lurking around and reading but not posting as much, The last thing I want to do is cause someone feelings to get hurt or a thread to become heated, we all have our opions and sometimes we write before we think it out.

09-30-2007, 05:12 PM	#131
Chrissy0277 Its all about the yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Jersey Posts: 1,451	So.... Im assuming when replying to this person who wants to breed their 2 lb yorkie that YOU F'in MORON wouldnt be the right thing to say lol Ok Im not that mean lol and do know it wouldnt be the right thing to say __________________ CHRISSY Nikki Precious Lizzy Mimi , Lena Taboo

09-30-2007, 06:52 PM	#133
luv4yorkies YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 1,611	Amber Lv thank you so much for saying this. Their dog their choice.Who Cares. couldn't have said it better myself.