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Old 02-16-2007, 09:08 PM   #1
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Angry I'm So Upset!!!! =[

OMG the I've had the worse day ever 2day!!! This might be a little long but I really need 2 vent, sorry.

Well 2day I was home all day because I was feeling sick. So my "best friend" calls me and told me that she planned on sleeping over her friends house for the weekend. Then she goes on to tell me that she wants 2 come 2 my house first and get picked up from here because she lives far and doesn't want him to go that far. So I'm assuming who the guy is and didn't bother 2 ask. So she gets to my house and right when she walks in she gets on the phone and tells the person on the other line "i'm here". And that kind of upset me because I felt like she was using me. But w/e I got over it. So then we're in my room for like 10 minutes and she gets on the phone again and was like "um are you on ur way yet?" And I felt like she was dying 2 get away from me! And since I got pregnant she stopped coming around as much. Well her ride gets here and I walk her to the door and come to find out it's my babies' father picking her up!!! So my "best friend" is spending the weekend over my babies' fathers house! OMG!!! i thought i was going 2 pass out!! I slammed the door in both of their faces like I've never slammed a door before. I have never felt so hurt in my life. And it's like when did they have the time to start talking? Me and her have been best friends for 4 yrs, and this is what was really going on? And I'm the one having his kids, and he wont even pick me up for a day and take me to eat! Yet he has the whole weekend for her!!! OMG i'm going crazy over here!! I know I really shouldn't let this stress me out but I cant help it. I cant stop crying!!! How could they do this 2 me?? And in my face!! They have no shame!
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Old 02-16-2007, 09:13 PM   #2
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goodness i would be soo pissed they both would have heard my words right there.
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Old 02-16-2007, 09:16 PM   #3
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Oh my gosh! You have every right to be mad. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
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Old 02-16-2007, 09:17 PM   #4
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And then it's like she sees what I'm going through with him and she still wants 2 mess with him??? Why would she possibly want anything 2 do with him when he is obviously an a**hole??? Does she want 2 go through what I'm going through?? So he could get her pregnant and then leave her if she doesn't get an abortion???
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omg ~ that is sooo low and pathetic i totally despise people like that! it seems to me like she wanted for you to see her leaving with him and make you feel like crap! i'm sorry you had to go through this .. keep your head up <3
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Old 02-17-2007, 06:18 AM   #6
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OMG they are BOTH disgusting I am SO sorry

You and your babies are better off without him, and with friends like her, who needs enemies?!! I cannot believe that she would do this to you, the only reason I can think of for her coming to your house and having him pick her up there, would be to make DAMNED sure that you knew about them.

Make sure that you file legal papers for child support if you haven't done so already. I have a feeling he's not going to be forthcoming with any financial help when the time comes

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Old 02-17-2007, 06:33 AM   #7
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I know you know this but you are better off without both of them in your lives, except for financial support. That is just plain mean of them. You have moved on to a different place on life and will meet more mature acting and kinder people. Try not to let them upset you too much their not worth it. I am sorry this happened to you.
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What comes around, goes around!! You dont need a guy or a friend like that hanging around your babies. You dont want your babies end up acting like them.

Make sure you file for child support. Make him at lest help you out financially because I really don't think he is going to be there when you need help changing and feeding them.

I am sorry this happened but at lest you know there true colors.
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What a jerk face.... (both of them) that is terrible. She is no friend at all to do that to you. Sounds like you are better off without either of them. I know that doesn't make it easier and you're still hurt and I'm sorry. But when you look into your babies faces when they are born...The whole world will stop and nothing but them will seem to matter. Hang in there.
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I am so so sorry! Try not to let this stress you and the babies out too much. Bigs hugs to you!
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Last night at 1:45AM she called me crying!!! She told me that he left her at the orange line and was like "i can't spend the weekend with you, you need 2 go home" And I'm sorry but I couldn't help but laugh. I knew he would do something 2 her! He's an ass! And I just couldn't believe she had the balls 2 call me and complain 2 me about him!! I was in shock! And then she even asked me if she could stay at my house because she had nowhere 2 go!! I said no. That might have been wrong of me but I'm not going 2 let her treat me like that! I can't even look at either one of them anymore!!
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Last night at 1:45AM she called me crying!!! She told me that he left her at the orange line and was like "i can't spend the weekend with you, you need 2 go home" And I'm sorry but I couldn't help but laugh. I knew he would do something 2 her! He's an ass! And I just couldn't believe she had the balls 2 call me and complain 2 me about him!! I was in shock! And then she even asked me if she could stay at my house because she had nowhere 2 go!! I said no. That might have been wrong of me but I'm not going 2 let her treat me like that! I can't even look at either one of them anymore!!
Good for you. You don't need friends like that and yes get the a$$ for child support don't let him byffalo you into thinking he will pay himself go down to the ORS office and have them take it out of his pay check thats the best way. Good luck sweety and just remember that you are having a baby and that is more special than anything don't let them ruin it for you.
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Doesn't he have to sign the birth certificate or something before I can file for child support?
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Jess, You don't need either one of these people in your life, and who is she to throw that in your face let alone your friend calling you crying, HELLO what about you, and what your going through.

I am sooo sorry, please don't let them take you down.
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Doesn't he have to sign the birth certificate or something before I can file for child support?

I don't think so, you may have to have a peternity test, so you have a case with that. My kids dad's never signed a birth certificate
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