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Amber_lv · 02-17-2007, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by GORJESS

Doesn't he have to sign the birth certificate or something before I can file for child support?

If you can get him to sign it thats great but if not then go after him any way also the state can do a paternity test and if it is his by the test he has to pay the $500.00 for the test as well. I would get him to sign it if you can it would make things a lot easier but go talk to you ORS office and tell them the situation

GORJESS · 02-17-2007, 08:42 AM

This is an email he sent me this morning:

man boo.....im sorry.....i kno i hurt u but i didnt mean to im just so confused right now and dont kno what im doing with my life....r u mad?? i hope not.....tell me what ur feeling babe......

This is what I replied:
No. I have no reason to be mad at you. You're not important enough for me to get mad over or to stress my babies out over. Its just funny to me that all these girls are in love with you and they dont know how much ass you get. It's just funny. That's all im saying. I just hope you dont have aids or something. What I'm feeling? You're a jerk. I hate you. You never wanted a commitment and I was cool with it because I thought we had something. Now I see why. And now I'm pregnant and alone. How could I let it go this far? It's cool though, I don't need you around. I'm better off without you. You said we'd talk if we had problems about anything...? And now your interest is obviously not here. But now that I seen it with my own eyes, I can move on. I don't want to argue with you anymore. I'm not going 2 keep hoping that one day you'll care for me the way I care about you. I was always just a game to you. You hurt me and now I'm done. The next time you'll hear anything from me is when child support calls you. Bye.

lolabella · 02-17-2007, 08:50 AM

Go girl!!! You are such a strong person, and I am sure you will be an excellent mother. Your best revenge would be to be as happy as you can be.

Amber_lv · 02-17-2007, 08:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GORJESS

This is an email he sent me this morning:

man boo.....im sorry.....i kno i hurt u but i didnt mean to im just so confused right now and dont kno what im doing with my life....r u mad?? i hope not.....tell me what ur feeling babe......

This is what I replied:
No. I have no reason to be mad at you. You're not important enough for me to get mad over or to stress my babies out over. Its just funny to me that all these girls are in love with you and they dont know how much ass you get. It's just funny. That's all im saying. I just hope you dont have aids or something. What I'm feeling? You're a jerk. I hate you. You never wanted a commitment and I was cool with it because I thought we had something. Now I see why. And now I'm pregnant and alone. How could I let it go this far? It's cool though, I don't need you around. I'm better off without you. You said we'd talk if we had problems about anything...? And now your interest is obviously not here. But now that I seen it with my own eyes, I can move on. I don't want to argue with you anymore. I'm not going 2 keep hoping that one day you'll care for me the way I care about you. I was always just a game to you. You hurt me and now I'm done. The next time you'll hear anything from me is when child support calls you. Bye.

You go girl!!!! It is all a game to them i went through this crap with my hubby we are that rare case that actually makes it after all this crap. we were friends with benifits and then i fell for him and got preggo at 18 we fought all the time because he didn't want to be tied down he would go out with other girls and call me when he was drunk telling me he loved me and the next day it was like it never happened i cried alot because i felt abandoned. it was really hard but about 3 years after i had my baby he pulled his head out of his butt and reliezed what he had missed and we got back together and got married. Now this isn't the norm because the man usually doesn't get it ever but you do what's best for the baby.

RLC12345678 · 02-17-2007, 08:51 AM

YAY! WAY TO GO, Jessica!!!!! The best line is the last one......."the next time you'll hear from me is when child support calls." YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!

GORJESS · 02-17-2007, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Amber_lv

You go girl!!!! It is all a game to them i went through this crap with my hubby we are that rare case that actually makes it after all this crap. we were friends with benifits and then i fell for him and got preggo at 18 we fought all the time because he didn't want to be tied down he would go out with other girls and call me when he was drunk telling me he loved me and the next day it was like it never happened i cried alot because i felt abandoned. it was really hard but about 3 years after i had my baby he pulled his head out of his butt and reliezed what he had missed and we got back together and got married. Now this isn't the norm because the man usually doesn't get it ever but you do what's best for the baby.

OMG that sounds just like me and him.

GORJESS · 02-17-2007, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by RLC12345678

YAY! WAY TO GO, Jessica!!!!! The best line is the last one......."the next time you'll hear from me is when child support calls." YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!

lol thanks

Amber_lv · 02-17-2007, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by GORJESS

OMG that sounds just like me and him.

Yeah it's the typical baby boy syndrome that these retarted me go through i think a lot of it stems from their MOTHERS!!!!!!! Atleast that was a big factor with my hubby

peanut · 02-17-2007, 09:01 AM

Jessica you did the right thing...I am so proud of you, you don't need that kind of crap in your life...When you have the babies they will ask who the father is and you can put his name on it, and then go after child support, but if you never want anything to do with him ever, don't put his name on the birth cert. cause he sounds like the kind of man that will not want any part....Hang in there girl...your doing great....big hugs....

Rae Rae · 02-17-2007, 11:06 AM

OMG how terrible

You don't need ANYONE like that in your life. Keep doing what your doing and be strong girl, it'll all get better

Patti · 02-17-2007, 11:35 AM

Good for you!!! You are a very strong mature sounding person. It is so good to see you putting the babies first!!

Thorsmomma · 02-17-2007, 11:43 AM

Aw sweety, I'm SO sorry this guy is being a jerk. It's hard enough when men are jerks and you're not preggers. You stay strong. Your girl sounds like a real swat. It's unreal she was planning on spending the weekend with him and then calls you cause she got hurt by him. Maybe, just maybe she can feel a fraction of what you are feeling. I'm so sad for you that this guy is being so horrible to you. I'm proud of you for being so bold and telling him what a jerk he is. Now, just go put your feet up and relax for your health and your babies health. Good luck.

baby03 · 02-17-2007, 12:36 PM

I'm sorry that you were hurt! Kicking both of them out of your life is the best thing to do! In the end you will be better off!

ilovelily · 02-17-2007, 12:42 PM

What jerk's!!!Ain't it funny that you can be friend's with someone for so long and you think you really know them and they sh%t all over you.Keep your head up.Its better to get her out of your life sooner then latter.I got pregnant with my daughter when i was 19 and i had lot's of friend's,by the time i delivered her i did not have a single friend left.Hope everything work's out for you and don't let the dumb people stress you out,it's not worth it!

BlondieGirl87 · 02-17-2007, 03:34 PM

Girl, you sound like you are WAAAAAAAAAY too good for him!
Be strong and take care of yourself and your two little ones!
Hugs!

02-17-2007, 08:50 AM	#18
lolabella Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: . Posts: 493	Go girl!!! You are such a strong person, and I am sure you will be an excellent mother. Your best revenge would be to be as happy as you can be. __________________

02-17-2007, 09:01 AM	#24
peanut Dogs Rule Cats Drool! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 7,895	Jessica you did the right thing...I am so proud of you, you don't need that kind of crap in your life...When you have the babies they will ask who the father is and you can put his name on it, and then go after child support, but if you never want anything to do with him ever, don't put his name on the birth cert. cause he sounds like the kind of man that will not want any part....Hang in there girl...your doing great....big hugs.... __________________ KIM

02-17-2007, 11:06 AM	#25
Rae Rae YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Illinois Posts: 4,823	OMG how terrible You don't need ANYONE like that in your life. Keep doing what your doing and be strong girl, it'll all get better __________________ Owned by Rocky and Bella

02-17-2007, 11:35 AM	#26
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	Good for you!!! You are a very strong mature sounding person. It is so good to see you putting the babies first!! __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

02-17-2007, 11:43 AM	#27
Thorsmomma I Love Thor Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: British Columbia, Canada Posts: 4,177 Blog Entries: 1	Aw sweety, I'm SO sorry this guy is being a jerk. It's hard enough when men are jerks and you're not preggers. You stay strong. Your girl sounds like a real swat. It's unreal she was planning on spending the weekend with him and then calls you cause she got hurt by him. Maybe, just maybe she can feel a fraction of what you are feeling. I'm so sad for you that this guy is being so horrible to you. I'm proud of you for being so bold and telling him what a jerk he is. Now, just go put your feet up and relax for your health and your babies health. Good luck. __________________ Hannah & Thor & Harry The boys on DOGSTER

02-17-2007, 08:42 AM	#17
GORJESS Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Chicago, Illinois Posts: 829	This is an email he sent me this morning: man boo.....im sorry.....i kno i hurt u but i didnt mean to im just so confused right now and dont kno what im doing with my life....r u mad?? i hope not.....tell me what ur feeling babe...... This is what I replied: No. I have no reason to be mad at you. You're not important enough for me to get mad over or to stress my babies out over. Its just funny to me that all these girls are in love with you and they dont know how much ass you get. It's just funny. That's all im saying. I just hope you dont have aids or something. What I'm feeling? You're a jerk. I hate you. You never wanted a commitment and I was cool with it because I thought we had something. Now I see why. And now I'm pregnant and alone. How could I let it go this far? It's cool though, I don't need you around. I'm better off without you. You said we'd talk if we had problems about anything...? And now your interest is obviously not here. But now that I seen it with my own eyes, I can move on. I don't want to argue with you anymore. I'm not going 2 keep hoping that one day you'll care for me the way I care about you. I was always just a game to you. You hurt me and now I'm done. The next time you'll hear anything from me is when child support calls you. Bye.

02-17-2007, 08:51 AM	#20
RLC12345678 I heart Hootie & Hobbs Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: USA Posts: 7,149	YAY! WAY TO GO, Jessica!!!!! The best line is the last one......."the next time you'll hear from me is when child support calls." YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!

02-17-2007, 12:36 PM	#28
baby03 Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: us Posts: 2,255	I'm sorry that you were hurt! Kicking both of them out of your life is the best thing to do! In the end you will be better off! __________________ Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.

02-17-2007, 12:42 PM	#29
ilovelily YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Tekonsha,MI Posts: 334	What jerk's!!!Ain't it funny that you can be friend's with someone for so long and you think you really know them and they sh%t all over you.Keep your head up.Its better to get her out of your life sooner then latter.I got pregnant with my daughter when i was 19 and i had lot's of friend's,by the time i delivered her i did not have a single friend left.Hope everything work's out for you and don't let the dumb people stress you out,it's not worth it! __________________

02-17-2007, 03:34 PM	#30
BlondieGirl87 No Longer A Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: The Big Friendly City :) Posts: 4,236	Girl, you sound like you are WAAAAAAAAAY too good for him! Be strong and take care of yourself and your two little ones! Hugs!