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Chelsey · 11-15-2006, 11:01 AM

Sorry you in this tough situation, but you can't look back now. Make decisions, and tell your parents, don't wait too long. Once they get over the "shock" they will accept it, talk to your sister, and get her advice.
In the end, you have to do what's best for you!

Best wishes to you.

JCarlson2004 · 11-15-2006, 11:25 AM

Jess, this is a very tough situation. I wish you all the best and please keep us updated. We're all here praying for you.

cribal · 11-15-2006, 11:30 AM

Jess, Good luck in whatever you decide to do. I hope everything works out well with your parents and I hope they stand by you on whatever you may decide to do. You've received alot of wonderful advice and I wish you the best.

Crystal

JeanieK · 11-15-2006, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Thorsmomma

I Pmed you with some...blabing...BUT like I said in the pm, DON'T let your BF interfere with your decisions, this is about YOU. You decide!

You are so right. The BF could be gone in a month or to regardless of what you decide. If he loves you he will support your decision, if he doesn't love you then it won't matter in the long run.

It will be tough, but I think you already know that.

makemepretty · 11-15-2006, 12:29 PM

You are the only one who knows what is right for you. I am prochoice. Does that mean I'd have an abortion? No...it means that I believe a woman should have a choice as to whether or not she wants to have one. Only YOU know what's right for your situation.

There are already lots of children out there that need homes(don't feel you need to bring a child into the world because someone else can't have one, there are more than enough to go around).

Don't have an abortion if you won't be able to live with it. No matter what anyone else feels, it is YOUR body, therefore YOUR decision. You'll only scare yourself with those sites. There isn't a site that shows you how hard it is being a mom and those sites are NOT the norm. They're for shock value.

I miscarried my first two pregnancies. Neither one ever had a heartbeat. Do I say two of my children died? No, I say I miscarried. If that wouldn't have happened then I wouldn't have had the two I have now because I wouldn't have had 4 children.

All the choices are hard but no one should judge you. It's scary what you're going through right now. Having a baby should be a joyous happy time. Maybe you can see a free counselor and decide what you want before you tell your parents? Then at least you have a starting point because right now, it just sounds like you're scared and understandbly so.

Whatever you decide, don't feel you have to tell anyone here your decision. We are just offering our own advice, take it or not. Good luck, honey.

GORJESS · 11-15-2006, 03:01 PM

Hey everyone,

Sorry I haven't replied to some PM's yet. I told my parents this morning so I'm not at home right now. I'm staying at my best friends house 2night but will be back home 2morrow. They took it extremely hard and did kick me out at first. But they called me back later on and told me 2 come back, so I'm going 2morrow and were going to talk about it more once they are cooled down. Once again, thanks for all the support!

Love,
Jessica.

Marydb · 11-15-2006, 03:44 PM

Dear Jess:
I am a mother of two girls. If one of them was pregnant at 17 I would want to know asap. Your parents love you and will guide you with your decision, whatever that may be. I would embrace my daughter and support her. I'm sure your parents will do that also. If keeping your baby isn't a possibility then know that there are a lot of childless parents out there yearning to love a child. That child could be yours. Try to keep an open mind. God bless you.

mizzwanned · 11-15-2006, 04:06 PM

awwwww I hope everything works out for you hun and that they do let you stay home

GracieLou · 11-15-2006, 04:35 PM

im glad they arent going to make you move out! Good Luck!!!!

monica20 · 11-15-2006, 04:41 PM

jess, i know exactly what you are going through. at the age of 17 my junior year of highschool i got pregnant with my then boyfriend who at the time was ONLY 16 a kid himself. i was scared to death because my father is a strict hispanic man and expected more from me. my then boyfriend and i made the desc. to keep the baby and we told my father. of course like any parent he was dissapointed because he only want the best for hisdaughter and don't want them to suffer .. but in his words "siempre seras mi nina .." ( you'll always be my little girl ). sadly i misscarried according to the doctor i was too petite and young. telling your parents seems like the scariest thing to do but they are the ONLY ones who will support you 100% no matter what.

Monday · 11-15-2006, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by GORJESS

Hey everyone,

Sorry I haven't replied to some PM's yet. I told my parents this morning so I'm not at home right now. I'm staying at my best friends house 2night but will be back home 2morrow. They took it extremely hard and did kick me out at first. But they called me back later on and told me 2 come back, so I'm going 2morrow and were going to talk about it more once they are cooled down. Once again, thanks for all the support!

Love,
Jessica.

Hello Jessica
I hope things go well for you. Your parents did the right thing ... they love you and don't really want to lose you, they were just stunned.

When they 'came to their senses' ... they called you ...
things will work out, Jessica, we all know you will make the decision thatz best for you. Keep your options open.
with concern,
Debbie

GORJESS · 11-15-2006, 05:06 PM

Ok I'm home already. My mom didn't want me spending the night anywhere else because she wanted to talk to me. We talked and I'm going to keep the baby. They are going to help me and make sure I stay in school and accomplish everything I've planned. I will stay living at home, thank God.

Monday · 11-15-2006, 05:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GORJESS

Ok I'm home already. My mom didn't want me spending the night anywhere else because she wanted to talk to me. We talked and I'm going to keep the baby. They are going to help me and make sure I stay in school and accomplish everything I've planned. I will stay living at home, thank God.

Hello Jessica,
Whew! I am so glad your parents are supportive ... they love you ... they only have your best interests at heart. I know that sounds corny ... but itz the truth.

Now you just concentrate on taking care of yourself, going to school and think positively.

GORJESS · 11-15-2006, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Monday

Hello Jessica,
Whew! I am so glad your parents are supportive ... they love you ... they only have your best interests at heart. I know that sounds corny ... but itz the truth.

Now you just concentrate on taking care of yourself, going to school and think positively.

Im soooooooooooooo glad too!! The good thing is I'm due on June 23rd and I graduate June 8th

Tiggerwit · 11-15-2006, 05:28 PM

Yeah..... I'm so happy for you. I send you many happy thoughts and blessings.

11-15-2006, 11:01 AM	#106
Chelsey My2Pearls Chelsey & Chanel YT Donator Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: N Posts: 4,097	Sorry you in this tough situation, but you can't look back now. Make decisions, and tell your parents, don't wait too long. Once they get over the "shock" they will accept it, talk to your sister, and get her advice. In the end, you have to do what's best for you! Best wishes to you. __________________ Proud member of the crazy club

11-15-2006, 11:25 AM	#107
JCarlson2004 Mommy To 3 Poochies Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: New York Posts: 8,287	Jess, this is a very tough situation. I wish you all the best and please keep us updated. We're all here praying for you. __________________ Mommy Loves Codie, Tia & Baby Cali RIP My Precious Katie - I Love You

11-15-2006, 11:30 AM	#108
cribal YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Mt. Ulla, NC Posts: 683	Jess, Good luck in whatever you decide to do. I hope everything works out well with your parents and I hope they stand by you on whatever you may decide to do. You've received alot of wonderful advice and I wish you the best. Crystal __________________ RIP My little Lucy Live forever my Lucy Too, Tank and Annabelle

11-15-2006, 12:29 PM	#110
makemepretty YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Middleville Posts: 933	You are the only one who knows what is right for you. I am prochoice. Does that mean I'd have an abortion? No...it means that I believe a woman should have a choice as to whether or not she wants to have one. Only YOU know what's right for your situation. There are already lots of children out there that need homes(don't feel you need to bring a child into the world because someone else can't have one, there are more than enough to go around). Don't have an abortion if you won't be able to live with it. No matter what anyone else feels, it is YOUR body, therefore YOUR decision. You'll only scare yourself with those sites. There isn't a site that shows you how hard it is being a mom and those sites are NOT the norm. They're for shock value. I miscarried my first two pregnancies. Neither one ever had a heartbeat. Do I say two of my children died? No, I say I miscarried. If that wouldn't have happened then I wouldn't have had the two I have now because I wouldn't have had 4 children. All the choices are hard but no one should judge you. It's scary what you're going through right now. Having a baby should be a joyous happy time. Maybe you can see a free counselor and decide what you want before you tell your parents? Then at least you have a starting point because right now, it just sounds like you're scared and understandbly so. Whatever you decide, don't feel you have to tell anyone here your decision. We are just offering our own advice, take it or not. Good luck, honey. __________________ http://www.dogster.com/pet_page.php?j=t&i=369717

11-15-2006, 04:35 PM	#114
GracieLou The grace of god Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: LA Posts: 1,945	im glad they arent going to make you move out! Good Luck!!!! __________________ Gracie Lou

11-15-2006, 03:01 PM	#111
GORJESS Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Chicago, Illinois Posts: 829	Hey everyone, Sorry I haven't replied to some PM's yet. I told my parents this morning so I'm not at home right now. I'm staying at my best friends house 2night but will be back home 2morrow. They took it extremely hard and did kick me out at first. But they called me back later on and told me 2 come back, so I'm going 2morrow and were going to talk about it more once they are cooled down. Once again, thanks for all the support! Love, Jessica.

11-15-2006, 03:44 PM	#112
Marydb Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Caledonia, MI Posts: 79	Dear Jess: I am a mother of two girls. If one of them was pregnant at 17 I would want to know asap. Your parents love you and will guide you with your decision, whatever that may be. I would embrace my daughter and support her. I'm sure your parents will do that also. If keeping your baby isn't a possibility then know that there are a lot of childless parents out there yearning to love a child. That child could be yours. Try to keep an open mind. God bless you.

11-15-2006, 04:06 PM	#113
mizzwanned Donating YT 11K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: new york Posts: 14,007 Blog Entries: 2	awwwww I hope everything works out for you hun and that they do let you stay home

11-15-2006, 04:41 PM	#115
monica20 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: SW Florida & South Texas [Hometown] Posts: 216	jess, i know exactly what you are going through. at the age of 17 my junior year of highschool i got pregnant with my then boyfriend who at the time was ONLY 16 a kid himself. i was scared to death because my father is a strict hispanic man and expected more from me. my then boyfriend and i made the desc. to keep the baby and we told my father. of course like any parent he was dissapointed because he only want the best for hisdaughter and don't want them to suffer .. but in his words "siempre seras mi nina .." ( you'll always be my little girl ). sadly i misscarried according to the doctor i was too petite and young. telling your parents seems like the scariest thing to do but they are the ONLY ones who will support you 100% no matter what. __________________ Proud Mommie of ~ Howie Love GOD BLESS OUR TROOPS ; COME HOME SAFE!

11-15-2006, 05:06 PM	#117
GORJESS Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Chicago, Illinois Posts: 829	Ok I'm home already. My mom didn't want me spending the night anywhere else because she wanted to talk to me. We talked and I'm going to keep the baby. They are going to help me and make sure I stay in school and accomplish everything I've planned. I will stay living at home, thank God.

11-15-2006, 05:28 PM	#120
Tiggerwit Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX Posts: 4,596	Yeah..... I'm so happy for you. I send you many happy thoughts and blessings. __________________ "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." Alphy 's Roxy