You are the only one who knows what is right for you. I am prochoice. Does that mean I'd have an abortion? No...it means that I believe a woman should have a choice as to whether or not she wants to have one. Only YOU know what's right for your situation.
There are already lots of children out there that need homes(don't feel you need to bring a child into the world because someone else can't have one, there are more than enough to go around).
Don't have an abortion if you won't be able to live with it. No matter what anyone else feels, it is YOUR body, therefore YOUR decision. You'll only scare yourself with those sites. There isn't a site that shows you how hard it is being a mom and those sites are NOT the norm. They're for shock value.
I miscarried my first two pregnancies. Neither one ever had a heartbeat. Do I say two of my children died? No, I say I miscarried. If that wouldn't have happened then I wouldn't have had the two I have now because I wouldn't have had 4 children.
All the choices are hard but no one should judge you. It's scary what you're going through right now. Having a baby should be a joyous happy time. Maybe you can see a free counselor and decide what you want before you tell your parents? Then at least you have a starting point because right now, it just sounds like you're scared and understandbly so.
Whatever you decide, don't feel you have to tell anyone here your decision. We are just offering our own advice, take it or not. Good luck, honey. |