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Kona · 08-06-2006, 12:09 PM

I hope you had a fantastic day at the spa! You certainly deserve it!

Big hugs to you!!

GeorgiesMomma · 08-06-2006, 02:52 PM

Danielle,

I just saw your post I am sorry that your boyfriend did that to you. But remember if God brought you to it he can bring you through it. Georgie and I are here for you and Zoey.

Hugs

Zoey's Momma · 08-07-2006, 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by GeorgiesMomma

Danielle,

I just saw your post I am sorry that your boyfriend did that to you. But remember if God brought you to it he can bring you through it. Georgie and I are here for you and Zoey.

Hugs

Thanks a lot Morgan, you're the sweetest.

Lexi Rae · 08-07-2006, 09:46 AM

girfriend, you dont need him...you worth much more.. believe me... he's just
a jerk and you know what, he will come back for you, if he does, show him the door ...head first... good luck, there are plenty of fish in the sea sweetie, believe me, been there, done that. its really hard i know it, but
you move on and get over it and find out later and say, what the heck did i see in the idiot... hugs go you...and remember we are here for you,,
anytime

Zoey's Momma · 08-07-2006, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae

girfriend, you dont need him...you worth much more.. believe me... he's just
a jerk and you know what, he will come back for you, if he does, show him the door ...head first... good luck, there are plenty of fish in the sea sweetie, believe me, been there, done that. its really hard i know it, but
you move on and get over it and find out later and say, what the heck did i see in the idiot... hugs go you...and remember we are here for you,,
anytime

Thanks Gina. Last night was really hard on Zoey. She missed him the most. She whined all night. We fell asleep at 3 this morning. We both have our moment where we have to shed tears. I just want someone for the both of us. Thanks, you're a kind friend.

Lexi Rae · 08-07-2006, 10:06 AM

danielle dont you worry ok, i know it feels like death... ive been through
divorce in which i lost so much weight, i was down to 94 lbs, couldnt eat.
after the divorce i was a guy who had moved in with me for 3 years and
again was destroyed. i stayed alone for a year, got my lexi and was content enough and gave her all the love i had, didnt want anyone else..so enjoy your time with your baby for now and dont go looking for someone else, it will happen and it will come to you, it has for me... i promise you and baby will be just fine without that piece of dirt...you have friends and family, thats all you need sweetie,, and of course us ( your yorkie talk pal),,

Zoey's Momma · 08-07-2006, 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae

danielle dont you worry ok, i know it feels like death... ive been through
divorce in which i lost so much weight, i was down to 94 lbs, couldnt eat.
after the divorce i was a guy who had moved in with me for 3 years and
again was destroyed. i stayed alone for a year, got my lexi and was content enough and gave her all the love i had, didnt want anyone else..so enjoy your time with your baby for now and dont go looking for someone else, it will happen and it will come to you, it has for me... i promise you and baby will be just fine without that piece of dirt...you have friends and family, thats all you need sweetie,, and of course us ( your yorkie talk pal),,

Thanks Gina. I'm happy Zoey and I have each other. Even though I know she upset, she finds ways to make me laugh. I don't thinkI want to dat anyone for awhile. Thanks for the very kind words. I'll be fine.

Rockster's Mom · 08-07-2006, 10:34 AM

What a JERK!!!! I had the same thing happen with me. On of my ex's liked drinking and hangout with his friends, and one night he told me he was tried of me complianing about it and left me at a club one night. I was so mad at him a sold all his stuff and took a well deserved trip on him. I hope things get better soon.

Rem&Silkmom · 08-07-2006, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Rockster's Mom

What a JERK!!!! I had the same thing happen with me. On of my ex's liked drinking and hangout with his friends, and one night he told me he was tried of me complianing about it and left me at a club one night. I was so mad at him a sold all his stuff and took a well deserved trip on him. I hope things get better soon.

hahahaha...that is so funny! Took a trip on him....

Rockster's Mom · 08-07-2006, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Rem&Silkmom

hahahaha...that is so funny! Took a trip on him....

A girlfriend and I went to New Orleans for weekend and had a blast. Needless to say he was not too happy with me at all, but he admitted that he deserved it after the way he acted and treated me.

Nikko's_human · 08-07-2006, 11:49 AM

I just saw this thread and had to respond. I know EXACTLY how you feel. I walked in on my boyfriend of three years with another girl. We weren't living together but I had his apartment key and I was worried because I hadn't heard from him all day. I opened up the door and there he was with HER. I was devastated and can you believe the jerk blamed me because I came in unannounced!! WTF?

Of course I dumped him but it took me a long time to get over it. Three years of memories and love are hard to forget, but it gets better, believe me. There were some days I would go to the bathroom at work and cry my eyes out all over again, then put a smile on my face and continue with my day. Like Gina said, I lost weight and was miserable. But you know what? With each day it gets better. A month after I dumped the loser, I met a wonderful guy. I had decided I wanted to be alone and really didn't want to get into another relationship. I told him this and he was so sweet and supportive. Six months later, we got engaged and now he is my husband.

The point is, at the time I was grieving over the loss my relationship I could never imagine being happy again. I promise you, things will get better and one day you will meet the perfect guy for you. He is out there waiting for you, and when you find him, you'll know. Please feel free to PM me if you need to talk. Nikko and I send plenty of hugs and puppy kisses your way.

Kona · 08-07-2006, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Nikko's_human

I opened up the door and there he was with HER. I was devastated and can you believe the jerk blamed me because I came in unannounced!! WTF?

He blamed YOU?!?! What a jerk...oh well, looks like it happened for a reason, you met your wonderful hubby!

Zoey's Momma · 08-07-2006, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Nikko's_human

I just saw this thread and had to respond. I know EXACTLY how you feel. I walked in on my boyfriend of three years with another girl. We weren't living together but I had his apartment key and I was worried because I hadn't heard from him all day. I opened up the door and there he was with HER. I was devastated and can you believe the jerk blamed me because I came in unannounced!! WTF?

Of course I dumped him but it took me a long time to get over it. Three years of memories and love are hard to forget, but it gets better, believe me. There were some days I would go to the bathroom at work and cry my eyes out all over again, then put a smile on my face and continue with my day. Like Gina said, I lost weight and was miserable. But you know what? With each day it gets better. A month after I dumped the loser, I met a wonderful guy. I had decided I wanted to be alone and really didn't want to get into another relationship. I told him this and he was so sweet and supportive. Six months later, we got engaged and now he is my husband.

The point is, at the time I was grieving over the loss my relationship I could never imagine being happy again. I promise you, things will get better and one day you will meet the perfect guy for you. He is out there waiting for you, and when you find him, you'll know. Please feel free to PM me if you need to talk. Nikko and I send plenty of hugs and puppy kisses your way.

I can't believe he would blame you, after he gavce you the friggin key! Guys are Asses I tell ya. I sort of feeling lonely now actually. I'm just so use to him coming home for lunch, spending time with Zoey then going back to work. I guess I just have to get adjusted to not expecting that.

baby03 · 08-07-2006, 12:03 PM

I am so sorry you had to go through this!!! The time and place he chose sucks!! I know that time as well as Zoey will heal you!! Hang in there!!!

Lexi Rae · 08-07-2006, 12:25 PM

you watch , in a few weeks, maybe months, your not gonna want anyone.
it happend to me.. i was so happy being by myself, me and lexi, no asking me to cook and whatever, its so nice sometimes to be alone...now its sometimes hard for me cause my b/f always wants to be with me and im used to being alone... but im working it out.. what im trying to say is, your number one and will always be and dont forget it girl. your worth a million dollars remember that. he a pee on and you didnt need him in the first place... if he really loved you, he would of never did that. thats one way of thinking that got me over any break ups... some men just arent worth a tear...

08-06-2006, 12:09 PM	#31
Kona Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Bay Area, California Posts: 1,877	I hope you had a fantastic day at the spa! You certainly deserve it! Big hugs to you!! __________________ Kona Bernie

08-06-2006, 02:52 PM	#32
GeorgiesMomma I love TBCG! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: MD Posts: 7,227	Danielle, I just saw your post I am sorry that your boyfriend did that to you. But remember if God brought you to it he can bring you through it. Georgie and I are here for you and Zoey. Hugs __________________ Morgan Mommy toGeorgie boy & Isaiah RIP sweet Coco 10/12/99-8/1/12 Read About Georgie's Experience with Atlantoaxial Instability (AAI) Here!

08-07-2006, 09:46 AM	#34
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	girfriend, you dont need him...you worth much more.. believe me... he's just a jerk and you know what, he will come back for you, if he does, show him the door ...head first... good luck, there are plenty of fish in the sea sweetie, believe me, been there, done that. its really hard i know it, but you move on and get over it and find out later and say, what the heck did i see in the idiot... hugs go you...and remember we are here for you,, anytime __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

08-07-2006, 10:06 AM	#36
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	danielle dont you worry ok, i know it feels like death... ive been through divorce in which i lost so much weight, i was down to 94 lbs, couldnt eat. after the divorce i was a guy who had moved in with me for 3 years and again was destroyed. i stayed alone for a year, got my lexi and was content enough and gave her all the love i had, didnt want anyone else..so enjoy your time with your baby for now and dont go looking for someone else, it will happen and it will come to you, it has for me... i promise you and baby will be just fine without that piece of dirt...you have friends and family, thats all you need sweetie,, and of course us ( your yorkie talk pal),, __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

08-07-2006, 11:49 AM	#41
Nikko's_human Proudly owned by Nikko Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Bronx, New York Posts: 768	I just saw this thread and had to respond. I know EXACTLY how you feel. I walked in on my boyfriend of three years with another girl. We weren't living together but I had his apartment key and I was worried because I hadn't heard from him all day. I opened up the door and there he was with HER. I was devastated and can you believe the jerk blamed me because I came in unannounced!! WTF? Of course I dumped him but it took me a long time to get over it. Three years of memories and love are hard to forget, but it gets better, believe me. There were some days I would go to the bathroom at work and cry my eyes out all over again, then put a smile on my face and continue with my day. Like Gina said, I lost weight and was miserable. But you know what? With each day it gets better. A month after I dumped the loser, I met a wonderful guy. I had decided I wanted to be alone and really didn't want to get into another relationship. I told him this and he was so sweet and supportive. Six months later, we got engaged and now he is my husband. The point is, at the time I was grieving over the loss my relationship I could never imagine being happy again. I promise you, things will get better and one day you will meet the perfect guy for you. He is out there waiting for you, and when you find him, you'll know. Please feel free to PM me if you need to talk. Nikko and I send plenty of hugs and puppy kisses your way. __________________ NIKKO and his mommy NECEE

08-07-2006, 10:34 AM	#38
Rockster's Mom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Fort Worth, Texas Posts: 1,279	What a JERK!!!! I had the same thing happen with me. On of my ex's liked drinking and hangout with his friends, and one night he told me he was tried of me complianing about it and left me at a club one night. I was so mad at him a sold all his stuff and took a well deserved trip on him. I hope things get better soon.

08-07-2006, 12:03 PM	#44
baby03 Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: us Posts: 2,255	I am so sorry you had to go through this!!! The time and place he chose sucks!! I know that time as well as Zoey will heal you!! Hang in there!!!

08-07-2006, 12:25 PM	#45
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	you watch , in a few weeks, maybe months, your not gonna want anyone. it happend to me.. i was so happy being by myself, me and lexi, no asking me to cook and whatever, its so nice sometimes to be alone...now its sometimes hard for me cause my b/f always wants to be with me and im used to being alone... but im working it out.. what im trying to say is, your number one and will always be and dont forget it girl. your worth a million dollars remember that. he a pee on and you didnt need him in the first place... if he really loved you, he would of never did that. thats one way of thinking that got me over any break ups... some men just arent worth a tear... __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...