So Friggin Mad!!

[Nikko's_human]

You wouldn't be human if you didn't get upset over something like that. Kids can be a handful and no matter how well you watch them, they still manage to sneak in a few "dirty deeds." I'm glad you are feeling better about things and don't allow other people to annoy you. Often times the people that are the first to judge you are the ones who would react the exact same way you did, sometimes even worse!!

[ytsirk27]

you know what....I guess everybody just does there job perfectly.I guess i must just be a loser that doesnt do hers. For somebody soo friggin bad i sure have a long waiting list to get in here so please keep your judgements to yourself and as for my reply guess im not the fake nicey nice person that will sit here and basically listen to the crap thats been thrown at me.. I actually tell ya how it is. I came on to tell you all what happened and theres some on here that has totally taken it out of context so whatever they want to be judgemental and pissy and bitchy they can go ahead hopefully theyll come back to reality and realizxe there are not perfect either!!

[Zoey's Momma]

Originally Posted by Nikko's_human

You wouldn't be human if you didn't get upset over something like that. Kids can be a handful and no matter how well you watch them, they still manage to sneak in a few "dirty deeds." I'm glad you are feeling better about things and don't allow other people to annoy you. Often times the people that are the first to judge you are the ones who would react the exact same way you did, sometimes even worse!!

I could've said it better myself!

[ytsirk27]

Originally Posted by Nikko's_human

You wouldn't be human if you didn't get upset over something like that. Kids can be a handful and no matter how well you watch them, they still manage to sneak in a few "dirty deeds." I'm glad you are feeling better about things and don't allow other people to annoy you. Often times the people that are the first to judge you are the ones who would react the exact same way you did, sometimes even worse!!

my gosh theres actaully some mere little mortals like me. Welcome to the supreme being world website

[candybaby]

"WOW", everyone really has their own opinion on YT. I have two kids and it only takes seconds for a child to do something, just like for a yorkie to. You can go to the bathroom come out an they put flour all over the kitchen. So, I don't think it was an issue of her watching her closly enough. The only thing I'm concerned about is how upset she got, but then that is understandable. If my child did something like that I would be mad too, but no enough to feel like beating them .

[Sophie'smom]

I think some of you are being way to hard on her. I babysit for a 2yr old and sometimes things happen while you are looking at them. I have been telling him no no no no and moving towards him and him do it anyway. It doesn't take long to rip wallpaper either. I am sure she was just frustrated at the time but calmed down.

Sorry this happened to you but as you know sometimes they are so fast and there is just nothing you can do but deal. Trust me I know I have been there.

[candybaby]

Originally Posted by ytsirk27

you know what....I guess everybody just does there job perfectly.I guess i must just be a loser that doesnt do hers. For somebody soo friggin bad i sure have a long waiting list to get in here so please keep your judgements to yourself and as for my reply guess im not the fake nicey nice person that will sit here and basically listen to the crap thats been thrown at me.. I actually tell ya how it is. I came on to tell you all what happened and theres some on here that has totally taken it out of context so whatever they want to be judgemental and pissy and bitchy they can go ahead hopefully theyll come back to reality and realizxe there are not perfect either!!

I agree!!!
I feel the same way sometimes when I post replies some people are so perfect and just think they know it all and judge like h*ll .

[chachi]

Accidents happen with children and it doesnt take long. I am sure she was just venting about it

[oceanair27]

My daughter tore some of my bathroom wallpaper off too a couple of years ago,so I can really relate. It is very frustrating. We had to wait awhile to fix it too because of finances. But I do have to say if I were in your shoes,I wouln't ask the parents for help to fix it financially or otherwise,becouse the little girl was in your care when this happened,and I would think that makes you responsible. Your the babysitter. I would just chalk it up as an expensive lesson learned. I too used to babysit and while I was changing a diaper and feeding a newborn,another child found some house paint from our remodeling and decided to paint the babybed and all over the walls in the kids room where I thought they were watching barney.I got most of it off,but did wind up repainting.that room.lol. I didnt say anything to her parents becouse I didnt want to look like I wasint doing my job right Ps. This was not meant to sound rude at all. I hope you dont take it that way. Good luck in whatever you decide with this situation. I hope all goes well.

[ytsirk27]

Originally Posted by candybaby

"WOW", everyone really has their own opinion on YT. I have two kids and it only takes seconds for a child to do something, just like for a yorkie to. You can go to the bathroom come out an they put flour all over the kitchen. So, I don't think it was an issue of her watching her closly enough. The only thing I'm concerned about is how upset she got, but then that is understandable. If my child did something like that I would be mad too, but no enough to feel like beating them .

That was the wrong thing to say but i am sure almost every parent or whatever atleast one time has said "i could have beat her" but actually doesnt. It was dumb for me to say so for that I apologize but for being mad No i dont. I have found that some things and people on here have no trouble typing bitchy things but if they were in your face they would be sooo much different so i am going to take my own advice and ignore. I appreciate the ones that understand my view and answered with respect. The other ones can go somewhere else and be a BI^&* because obviously thats what brings them joy in their world of perfection!! I would NEVER EVER beat a child..EVER.
I have two children of my own and I love kids.

[ytsirk27]

Originally Posted by oceanair27

My daughter tore some of my bathroom wallpaper off too a couple of years ago,so I can really relate. It is very frustrating. We had to wait awhile to fix it too because of finances. But I do have to say if I were in your shoes,I wouln't ask the parents for help to fix it financially or otherwise,becouse the little girl was in your care when this happened,and I would think that makes you responsible. Your the babysitter. I would just chalk it up as an expensive lesson learned. I too used to babysit and while I was changing a diaper and feeding a newborn,another child found some house paint from our remodeling and decided to paint the babybed and all over the walls in the kids room where I thought they were watching barney.I got most of it off,but did wind up repainting.that room.lol. I didnt say anything to her parents becouse I didnt want to look like I wasint doing my job right Ps. This was not meant to sound rude at all. I hope you dont take it that way. Good luck in whatever you decide with this situation. I hope all goes well.

i never expect a parent to pay for anything that happens. ever... I didnt take it wrong. Thank You! I however do tell the parent just because i would want to know if mine had done something like that. Not for payment just to let the parent know!

[candybaby]

Originally Posted by ytsirk27

That was the wrong thing to say but i am sure almost every parent or whatever atleast one time has said "i could have beat her" but actually doesnt. It was dumb for me to say so for that I apologize but for being mad No i dont. I have found that some things and people on here have no trouble typing bitchy things but if they were in your face they would be sooo much different so i am going to take my own advice and ignore. I appreciate the ones that understand my view and answered with respect. The other ones can go somewhere else and be a BI^&* because obviously thats what brings them joy in their world of perfection!! I would NEVER EVER beat a child..EVER.
I have two children of my own and I love kids.

I hear ya, I'm going to contridict what I said in my last post. I have gotten mad and have wanted to beat my kids, but its just a figure of speech I would never do it eitheir. Don't worry I think we all get jumped on in YT for one reason or another. We are all very opionated, but I don't think nothing is wrong with how you reacted. Like another YT member said, "I don't think your human if you don't get upset".

[Zoey's Momma]

Originally Posted by candybaby

I hear ya, I'm going to contridict what I said in my last post. I have gotten mad and have wanted to beat my kids, but its just a figure of speech I would never do it eitheir. Don't worry I think we all get jumped on in YT for one reason or another. We are all very opionated, but I don't think nothing is wrong with how you reacted. Like another YT member said, "I don't think your human if you don't get upset".

[ytsirk27]

Originally Posted by candybaby

I hear ya, I'm going to contridict what I said in my last post. I have gotten mad and have wanted to beat my kids, but its just a figure of speech I would never do it eitheir. Don't worry I think we all get jumped on in YT for one reason or another. We are all very opionated, but I don't think nothing is wrong with how you reacted. Like another YT member said, "I don't think your human if you don't get upset".

Thank you. I admit there are some thing that I say that come out either wrong or i am just being to hard that day but if I go back and read it I will usually apologize. Theres some stuff that i have read that I will not apologize for and I dont have to very often but like you said...everybody has gotten jumped on. What i have realized though that alot of the " newbies or newer ones" are the ones being super judgemental....

[Lorraine]

A daycare operator and a parent are kind of two different responsibilities in a sense. As a daycare operator or nanny you are caring for someone else's kid. You are quite lucky that the baby never ate the wallpaper and got ill or choked. Yes this can happen under a parents care, but trust me, it will not play out the same way if something goes wrong while in daycare or under a nannies care as it would under the parents care.
A daycare is even more imperitive to have enough staff per child to keep an absolute eagle eye on each kid especially for those little toddlers.
An 18 months old wouldn't have a clue it is doing something wrong. Can't blame the baby or the parents that aren't there.