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01-30-2006, 04:31 PM | #16 | |
YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: CA
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GREAT IDEA Vilette
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01-30-2006, 04:37 PM | #17 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: California
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| OH SORRY..... i thought you were friends with the woman, i need to stop skimming....... yeah..... dont tell her ..... |
01-30-2006, 04:38 PM | #18 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: alabama
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| I wouldn't say anything. Normally is true, the messenger is shot...you will likely end up being viewed as a troublemaker and they will find someone else to keep the children. Sounds like a horrible situation, but I would stick it out for the little girl. |
01-30-2006, 04:54 PM | #19 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: tennessee
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| it's your husbands friend and it will probably break up their friendship and you don't need trouble with your own husband so i would stay out of it. maybe he don't love his wife but feels stuck because he has a child by her and already raising his own daughter by another woman. i would just make sure the little girl is cared for and let everything else go. thats my advice |
01-30-2006, 05:02 PM | #20 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Boynton Beach, FL
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| I would say stay out of it. Someone else's marriage, especially someone who is not a friend of yours, is none of your business. Also, could it possibly be that you want to tell her BECAUSE you don't like her and you want to hurt her? Devote your time to keeping your own house clean instead of cleaning someone else's. |
01-30-2006, 05:06 PM | #21 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama
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| Always remember, that a PICTURE is worth a thousand words. I'd take a picture of the dude with his girlies and mail it to her. Just a "group shot" taken publicly with him acting like a silly school boy. |
01-30-2006, 05:14 PM | #22 | |
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01-30-2006, 05:20 PM | #23 | |
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01-30-2006, 05:23 PM | #24 | |
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01-30-2006, 05:23 PM | #25 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Tucson, Arizona
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| Absolutely stay out of it. She is not a friend of yours, and she will not be grateful. It is impossible to know what is going on in another couple's marriage, and although you might think you understand the dynamics of their marriage, your probably do not. I believe most women know when their husbands are cheating, and if not the husband will get tired of the situation at some point and probably ask for a divorce or 'fess up. I have been in this situation a few times. The older you get, the more you will see it happen. It's sad, but it is not your problem. The only time I would get involved was 1--if one of the people involved was my sister or 2--someone was being physically abused. Last edited by alisonJ; 01-30-2006 at 05:25 PM. |
01-30-2006, 05:23 PM | #26 | |
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01-30-2006, 05:33 PM | #27 | |
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01-30-2006, 05:34 PM | #28 |
I Love Thor Donating Member | I totally agree with you. She probably just 'doesn't want to know'. If you have made it that clear then she is probably in denial. It sounds like she is in her own little world anyways to be treating her stepdaughter the way she is. She makes the horrible name for stepmothers... |
01-30-2006, 05:37 PM | #29 |
No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: South Florida
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| problem I would not say anything, so you can remain in the children's life. You are no doubt one bright spot in their difficult life. Expect nothing from this woman in the way of thanks and appreciation, you already know you are not doing it for her, you are making an emotional impact on the children and they will never forget it. Most children can grow up fairly stable if they know at least one person who cares about them. You have an opportunity to make the world just a bit better for another human being, lucky you. |
01-30-2006, 05:40 PM | #30 | |
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These are my thoughts exactly...
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