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Originally Posted by jesscruz absolutley not! believe me if i wanted to hurt her i wouldn't even have to bring up the cheating issue, just by me telling her what i think of her would hurt her, and if those were my intentions, then i would have done that already. i do have a heart, and that's why i have not told her off. my words cut like a knife, i feel that it is my obligation as this girl's daycare provider to make sure she is safe and being treated right. she is only 8 yrs old for god's sake! this woman says cuss words at her and everything. and she is sucha sweet girl, she always says yes maa'm everything. so why not try to look out for her. and as for me keeping my own house clean,believe me i do it everyday, i dare and challenge anyone to try and find something wrong with my household. |
Then why is the title of your thread "should I tell her he's cheating" as opposed to "Should I help this little girl"? For the record, I'm not saying your house isn't clean, what I AM saying is your time is better spent taking care of your own business and leaving others' alone. As far as the little girl is concerned, if you feel she is being mistreated by this woman, speak to her father about THAT. Anything else ( his extra-curricular activities), is none of your business.