Ok Folks, tell me if I am wrong

[roseylovestosho]

Originally Posted by Rhetts_mama

Please don't leave because of that idiotic PM, Steve. I think that you showed a great deal of compassion asking for condolences and well wishes for someone else while at the same time you were going through your own very difficult time.

Just write the PM off as another tactic by the polite police to control not only how and what we say, but now evidently the topics on which we may post. [sarcasm] If any of them are reading this (and they probably aren't because they've all put me on "ignore", too) then could you please do us all a HUGE favor and give us a sanctioned list of approved topics and responses? It would make our lives sooo much easier. Pretty please with sugar on top [/sarcasm]

I LOVE your [sarcasm] [/sarcasm]

[concretegurl]

Unless Lisette herself sent you a pm saying she was upset by it, $#@% 'em.

I can make a sailor blush with my mouth. Sorry.

No disrespect to her I do not know her personally but will add, if you don't want people to know your business, don't put it on the internet.

In cases of private pages, forums, correspondence I see where feelings get hurt.
I have fellow YTers on my FB page and wouldn't want some of my personal information given out-however a condolence thread over the death of a family member-well that's an act of kindness, pure & simple.
Please, I'm apparently the queen of rude with a heart of concrete I was told by someone, anyways I can spot rude a long ways away, if that was rude I need to reevaluate my perception of reality.

Why would you leave because someone didn't like your post?

Again I said $#@! 'em

Rude & disrespectful is talking out of turn on someone else's emotions & responses...and censorship...again I can make a sailor blush.

shodanusmc, if you leave who is going to post randomly concise insightful crazy nonsense on threads that need it?

Originally Posted by shodanusmc

It is messages that I get like this, that makes me seriously consider leaving YT. I know I am far from perfect, but I felt I did the right thing as a lot of YT people are not FB users or friends.

[concretegurl]

You're old LOL...I just saw that...yep you are...too old to give a shi!t about silly people and their pm nonsense!

[Lisa and Pic]

Steve, My opinion is that Lissette is going to feel honored that you care enough about her to let her YT friends know what a sad and difficult time she is facing with the death of her father. Hugs to you.

[Ilovemy2Yorkies]

You said it perfectly! I agree 1000%. I am new to YT but I know loving & caring people when I see them & I've seen nothing but that in many posts I've read on YT! Steve, please don't change the good, caring & loving person you are because of that one person's cruel pm to you. They are saying your rude while myself & many others on YT find that they were extremely arrogant & also speaking out of turn. It is not their place to even make that decision, it's Lisette's & I'm quite sure that she will be nothing but grateful for all of the prayers & support through this very difficult time. All of us good, kind & compassionate people must stick together & stay strong so that there remains more peace then war in this sometimes cruel world. So please stay with YT & continue to touch all of our lives with your love, wisdom & most important, your good intentions!

[Jeepmom]

Originally Posted by concretegurl

Unless Lisette herself sent you a pm saying she was upset by it, $#@% 'em.

I can make a sailor blush with my mouth. Sorry.

No disrespect to her I do not know her personally but will add, if you don't want people to know your business, don't put it on the internet.

In cases of private pages, forums, correspondence I see where feelings get hurt.
I have fellow YTers on my FB page and wouldn't want some of my personal information given out-however a condolence thread over the death of a family member-well that's an act of kindness, pure & simple.
Please, I'm apparently the queen of rude with a heart of concrete I was told by someone, anyways I can spot rude a long ways away, if that was rude I need to reevaluate my perception of reality.

Why would you leave because someone didn't like your post?

Again I said $#@! 'em

Rude & disrespectful is talking out of turn on someone else's emotions & responses...and censorship...again I can make a sailor blush.

shodanusmc, if you leave who is going to post randomly concise insightful crazy nonsense on threads that need it?

I am known to say what I think without the concern of others so i pondered over posting my opinion, but you pretty much said what was on my mind. I hope the person thinks before they send another PM like this one. As a "newbie" " youngster" " young upstart" or "little whippersnapper" ( had to throw that one in) I do not believe the person should have attacked someone in this way. Agree to disagree or mind your own business.

[margaritaville]

Steve, if you leave how will we get our Spice Boys updates? I thank you for posting about Lissette's Dad so that we can offer our condolences. This was already public info since it was posted-it wasn't something made up.

[SophieKatesMom]

I think you what you posted was fine.

As others have said the only person who has a right to say something to you is Lissette.

In my opinion you bring a lot of value to Yorkie Talk, you're always honest in your posts and offer good advice.

Makes me kind of glad I don't get a lot of PM's.

[jmdt]

After all you're a Marine. You have thick skin. Let it roll off. Shes an a$$ for even thinking of pm'ing you.

And....we love our spice boys!!!!

Anyone who has served our country so that my kids can sleep tonight safely is alright in my book !!

[DvlshAngel985]

Originally Posted by concretegurl

Unless Lisette herself sent you a pm saying she was upset by it, $#@% 'em.

I can make a sailor blush with my mouth. Sorry.

No disrespect to her I do not know her personally but will add, if you don't want people to know your business, don't put it on the internet.

In cases of private pages, forums, correspondence I see where feelings get hurt.
I have fellow YTers on my FB page and wouldn't want some of my personal information given out-however a condolence thread over the death of a family member-well that's an act of kindness, pure & simple.
Please, I'm apparently the queen of rude with a heart of concrete I was told by someone, anyways I can spot rude a long ways away, if that was rude I need to reevaluate my perception of reality.

Why would you leave because someone didn't like your post?

Again I said $#@! 'em

Rude & disrespectful is talking out of turn on someone else's emotions & responses...and censorship...again I can make a sailor blush.

shodanusmc, if you leave who is going to post randomly concise insightful crazy nonsense on threads that need it?

My feelings exactly. If I don't want something known, I just won't put it out there. Shoot... my family still doesn't know my BF and I broke up or that I got a new job. I didn't plaster it on FB. My YT family knows.

I do agree though, if you know of something personal, and that person didn't post it anywhere on the web, but a second party did, I'd be offended too. I'm a private person, and I hate when other people post, talk, email about my business. All of my mom's friend's who I don't know know my business. It drives me crazy! But if I posted it publicly, well then... It's out there because of me.

[Lil Sis]

steve.. please do not get upset over something said by a person who doesn't know what they are talking about. The rude pm doesn't have value!!!

[joann1166]

Steve don't you dare go anywhere just because someone dont like something you posted. If they don't like it, they don't have to read the posts. I am tired of people running others lives because they dont like something they said or posted.

This is why I keep coming back to YT is because of the people here especially the ones that have been here a good while. I have met alot of sweet and nice people and feel like ya'll are family. It is too bad that some other people don't feel that way. It is their loss.

[BabyGirl Rosie]

Originally Posted by joann1166

Steve don't you dare go anywhere just because someone dont like something you posted. If they don't like it, they don't have to read the posts. I am tired of people running others lives because they dont like something they said or posted.

This is why I keep coming back to YT is because of the people here especially the ones that have been here a good while. I have met alot of sweet and nice people and feel like ya'll are family. It is too bad that some other people don't feel that way. It is their loss.

[RachelandSadie]

i love ya grandpa steve and i think you are the sweetest guy and only would do something with everyone's best interest at heart. who cares about some person who doesn't know you that well to know how sweet you really are. ignore them because they are obviously wrong and have no idea what they are talking about.

[caw]

Nooooo......I read that post the other day and thought to myself, "How thoughtful".