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06-11-2010, 01:22 PM | #121 |
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| i am not really taking sides or anything. i don't know either of these ladies personally. i spoke up in the first place because i just felt like a very nice person had been taken advantage of. unfortunately, i don't know all the details about the situation. i just hope that things can get resolved in a fair and satisfactory way. it's not impossible, does take communication and people admitting to their mistakes and clearing misunderstanding between the 2 people.
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06-11-2010, 02:16 PM | #122 | |
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| How to work this out!! Spiritwings, This was written so well!! I just wanted to add that people need to stop saying they "hope that two people can put their differences aside and work through this" like both people were in the wrong here! There weren't 2 people in the wrong! There was one! And that person needs to own up to her mistake, stop using every excuse in the book to validate her poor choices and straight up apologize for taking advantage of a friend! And I am sorry, to use the excuse that "all dog dresses look the same" is lame! There are many vendors on YT that have found a unique and beautiful style ALL THEIR OWN to sell! Its called being a designer!! You're right these dog dresses do look the same because you stole someone else's designs! Like spiritwings said let's stop taking the focus off of the real issue which is that Connie was trying to be a good friend and someone took her kindness and generosity and fleeced her with it! There is no "working this out" IMO unless a sincere apology is made, the website (with connie's designs) taken down until there are some real, legit and unique designs on it! Last question: is stealing a couple of dog dress designs worth losing a friendship and a friend the caliber of Connie? Quote:
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06-11-2010, 03:55 PM | #123 |
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| I guess some people are better than me as far as being able to pick out who made each dress. But really, there's an easy way to prove it. Maybe someone could post several different designers dresses and those that think they all look so different can tell us who each of the designers are? It should be easy, right? And I really do hope that Connie and Cory can work things out.... If you believe they are such good friends (which I do) then I can't imagine not wanting that... |
06-11-2010, 06:04 PM | #124 | |
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06-11-2010, 06:39 PM | #125 |
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| We can go back & forth saying yes they should work it out, no they shouldn't. So now we know what "we' would do in this situation but the fact is that it is up to the 2 people involved to decide if this can be worked out and if so, great. If not, everyone will eventualy move on. It may be one rather than the other who needs to make the first move, I don't know but I just hope it happens in due time.
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06-11-2010, 06:39 PM | #126 |
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| This is a very sad thread imo. Two people who were supposedly friends, but I wonder what kind of friendship it really was that it ends up here in public. I totally don't get everyone elses' involvement in it. Some of this stuff reminds me of the politicians who profess a love of God and strong family values and then are found to be cheating on their wives. Kills me when people start mentioning values and yet are pointing fingers at another person and acting like that person is the only sinner.
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06-11-2010, 06:45 PM | #127 | |
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06-11-2010, 07:00 PM | #128 | |
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06-11-2010, 07:49 PM | #129 |
Thor's Human Donating Member | Well, I don't know either of these two people, and I'm not saying that both are in the wrong... from what I can see, maybe *neither* is. When money is involved, people are much less willing to cut each other slack. If I shared what I considered proprietary work with someone and they went and made money off of it, I would be very angry, and might publicly say they stole my idea. On the other hand, if I developed what I considered to be my own ideas, marketed them, and a friend publicly said I'd betrayed and stolen from them, I'd be angry and hurt about that as well. There's the old saying, you can be right, or you can be happy. For me personally, if I am able to recognize someone else's perspective, or forgive them for wrongdoing, I do. Not that I'm an angel or anything. I can't say I'm in either of the two C's shoes, so who knows.
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06-12-2010, 11:24 AM | #130 |
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| After reading both sides, here's a few of my thoughts on the subject: 1. There are always three sides to every story...Person A's version, Person B's version & then, the "truth"...plain & simple. 2. If you think it's "your" idea, PATENT IT & whatever you do...never, never, never share your company secrets especially down to the precise "how to's" with anyone! 3. Lastly, I hope all parties concerned can resolve their issues off YT...in private.
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06-13-2010, 05:35 AM | #131 | |
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Cindy as you once told me..."This too shall pass". In time we will see things settle down and return to the YT you have know to love.
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06-13-2010, 10:06 AM | #132 | |
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| So sorry to hear your friend would do this to you she wasnt much of a friend i dont think. Quote:
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06-14-2010, 03:07 PM | #133 | |
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