We can go back & forth saying yes they should work it out, no they shouldn't. So now we know what "we' would do in this situation but the fact is that it is up to the 2 people involved to decide if this can be worked out and if so, great. If not, everyone will eventualy move on. It may be one rather than the other who needs to make the first move, I don't know but I just hope it happens in due time.