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Mayas Mommy · 08-20-2008, 11:24 AM

Hi ... so I don't know if any one noticed but I have not been on here long the past few days .... I feel a little upset I guess ....

A few of you know that we are moving and well in 2 weeks we might now when exactly ..... I am excited to move to the US and have a normal Family life like all of you .... but then it tears me up to leave my home forever and leave my big sis ..... all of this stresses me a lot .... the other day we had to go to the Dr. cause my Hands turned gray and my fingernails purple .... two days after that we were there again cause I had a terrible flu and three days after that I had a terrible rash under my eyes ..... the Dr. wants me to take meds cause I am stressing .....

... I am NOT stressing ... maybe a little ... I am nervous about this ... that's all .....

Hubby tried to cheer me up and bought me a new Purse (Dooney & Bourke) and I love it ..... but it does not make me feel any better .....

D & B.JPG

linz06 · 08-20-2008, 11:28 AM

awww don't stress out so much! NOTHING is forever. You can always go back and visit, right? Enjoy the time you have left there, because I'm sure you'll feel a little homesick after moving to the US. But it'll be a whole new life and whole new people, and that's something to be excited about, right? I imagine it must be very hard on you, but getting really worked up always makes situations even harder. You have a great hubby for getting you that purse! It's very cute!

NANCYETTA · 08-20-2008, 11:51 AM

when i get stressed or out of sorts all i ge from dh is alittle pat on the head...darn i want a purse next time...i too have moved around first hubby was in the airforce, i learned to enjoy what ever was offered to me at the differnt areas and smile...

celstu1 · 08-20-2008, 12:22 PM

so where in US are you guys going to be settling?

I know its really stressful. My family (my mom and my brother and my other brother) are all far away from me. I won't lie to you, its not easy and it does not seem to get easier as time passes. I miss my mom each and everyday and my brothers, well the sad thing is Ive lived without one for almost 10 years and I feel that we are barely family anymore. The other one I miss sooooo much its an ache in my heart nearly everyday.

I know you are saying to yourself "how is this helping me?? HELLO!" sooo That all being said, its sooo exciting to learn new areas, new countries. You are doing something that I bet tons of people wish they could do. Its taking the bad with the good in this case! You will have things you LOVE and thing you HATE about being seperated from all that is familiar. Embrace the change and know that visits are a plane trip away.

(((HUGS)))

Yorkiedaze · 08-20-2008, 12:37 PM

I have two English, one French and one Irish friend that all married military men and moved to the States when they were quite young. They left all their friends and families and were very sad and scared. As time went on they each started raising a family of their own and of course went back to their countries to visit as often as they could. They ended up with kids, lots of relatives and friends and a new and wonderful life and was very very happy.
So you see, it really doesn't matter where you live because you can have a life and happiness as long as you have friends, family and love.

PANAMA69 · 08-20-2008, 02:37 PM

I heard you, it was so hard for me leaving mime too specially my twin

so if you need to talk feel free to pm

your husband sounds like a wonderful man that purse is sure cute

anyway the best advice that comes to my mind now, is to take one day at the time

YorkieChick1 · 08-20-2008, 07:18 PM

Where are you moving to?? Near me in California???

Brooke would love to meet Maya!!

Mayas Mommy · 08-20-2008, 11:12 PM

..... thanks you guys .....

I have lived in the US before ..... for about 4 years and yes being married to a Military Guy gives you a lot of chance to see places but I always knew we would end up back home .....

This time will be forever ..... I tried to stay here and Hubby loves Germany .... he has been here over 10 years BUT he thinks things will be easier back in the US ..... and he is right ....

We are buying our first HOME and I can finally paint walls and do the kitchen the way I want it .... and my Girl can have her room the way she wants it ..... we will have my In-Laws and Relatives there and they all can't wait to have us come there .....

I don't know what is wrong with me ..... a few weeks ago I could not wait to find out what's going on and now that I do ..... I am pressured by it ....

Anyway ... we will be in FL ... the Sunshine State .....

BamaFan121s · 08-21-2008, 04:48 AM

Send me the purse! It will make me feel better!

I can imagine that if I were moving to a different country, I would be a nervous wreck.

I don't think there is anything wrong with you--that is alot of stress, both excitement and sadness, for anyone.

08-20-2008, 11:24 AM	#1
Mayas Mommy ..... and BLAIR'S too ...... Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: USA Posts: 3,190	I am a little frustated .... Hi ... so I don't know if any one noticed but I have not been on here long the past few days .... I feel a little upset I guess .... A few of you know that we are moving and well in 2 weeks we might now when exactly ..... I am excited to move to the US and have a normal Family life like all of you .... but then it tears me up to leave my home forever and leave my big sis ..... all of this stresses me a lot .... the other day we had to go to the Dr. cause my Hands turned gray and my fingernails purple .... two days after that we were there again cause I had a terrible flu and three days after that I had a terrible rash under my eyes ..... the Dr. wants me to take meds cause I am stressing ..... ... I am NOT stressing ... maybe a little ... I am nervous about this ... that's all ..... Hubby tried to cheer me up and bought me a new Purse (Dooney & Bourke) and I love it ..... but it does not make me feel any better ..... D & B.JPG __________________ I LOVE MY LIFE AS A MOMMY AND A WIFE

08-20-2008, 11:28 AM	#2
linz06 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,154	awww don't stress out so much! NOTHING is forever. You can always go back and visit, right? Enjoy the time you have left there, because I'm sure you'll feel a little homesick after moving to the US. But it'll be a whole new life and whole new people, and that's something to be excited about, right? I imagine it must be very hard on you, but getting really worked up always makes situations even harder. You have a great hubby for getting you that purse! It's very cute! __________________ Lindsey and Layla, Lucy, and Kash

08-20-2008, 11:51 AM	#3
NANCYETTA Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: MCALLEN, TEXAS Posts: 58	wow when i get stressed or out of sorts all i ge from dh is alittle pat on the head...darn i want a purse next time...i too have moved around first hubby was in the airforce, i learned to enjoy what ever was offered to me at the differnt areas and smile... __________________ MY KEEPERS, STAR,SHANE,SISTER SUE,SOPHIE,SKYLER

08-20-2008, 12:22 PM	#4
celstu1 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 10,534	so where in US are you guys going to be settling? I know its really stressful. My family (my mom and my brother and my other brother) are all far away from me. I won't lie to you, its not easy and it does not seem to get easier as time passes. I miss my mom each and everyday and my brothers, well the sad thing is Ive lived without one for almost 10 years and I feel that we are barely family anymore. The other one I miss sooooo much its an ache in my heart nearly everyday. I know you are saying to yourself "how is this helping me?? HELLO!" sooo That all being said, its sooo exciting to learn new areas, new countries. You are doing something that I bet tons of people wish they could do. Its taking the bad with the good in this case! You will have things you LOVE and thing you HATE about being seperated from all that is familiar. Embrace the change and know that visits are a plane trip away. (((HUGS))) __________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz

08-20-2008, 12:37 PM	#5
Yorkiedaze My hairy-legged girls Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: lompoc, ca. Posts: 12,228	I have two English, one French and one Irish friend that all married military men and moved to the States when they were quite young. They left all their friends and families and were very sad and scared. As time went on they each started raising a family of their own and of course went back to their countries to visit as often as they could. They ended up with kids, lots of relatives and friends and a new and wonderful life and was very very happy. So you see, it really doesn't matter where you live because you can have a life and happiness as long as you have friends, family and love. __________________ AZRAEL RAZAEL JILLI ANN

08-20-2008, 02:37 PM	#6
PANAMA69 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: ~~YorkieWorld~~ Posts: 8,428	I heard you, it was so hard for me leaving mime too specially my twin so if you need to talk feel free to pm your husband sounds like a wonderful man that purse is sure cute anyway the best advice that comes to my mind now, is to take one day at the time

08-20-2008, 07:18 PM	#7
YorkieChick1 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Bay Area, California Posts: 2,249	Where are you moving to?? Near me in California??? Brooke would love to meet Maya!! __________________ Nanci 's her furbabies!! Brooke,Binky,Bunny,Buster & BooBoo And My Chichis: Baby & Bitsy There's nothing that brightens my day more than a puppy kiss!

08-20-2008, 11:12 PM	#8
Mayas Mommy ..... and BLAIR'S too ...... Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: USA Posts: 3,190	..... thanks you guys ..... I have lived in the US before ..... for about 4 years and yes being married to a Military Guy gives you a lot of chance to see places but I always knew we would end up back home ..... This time will be forever ..... I tried to stay here and Hubby loves Germany .... he has been here over 10 years BUT he thinks things will be easier back in the US ..... and he is right .... We are buying our first HOME and I can finally paint walls and do the kitchen the way I want it .... and my Girl can have her room the way she wants it ..... we will have my In-Laws and Relatives there and they all can't wait to have us come there ..... I don't know what is wrong with me ..... a few weeks ago I could not wait to find out what's going on and now that I do ..... I am pressured by it .... Anyway ... we will be in FL ... the Sunshine State ..... __________________ I LOVE MY LIFE AS A MOMMY AND A WIFE

08-21-2008, 04:48 AM	#9
BamaFan121s Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Alabama Posts: 11,432	Send me the purse! It will make me feel better! I can imagine that if I were moving to a different country, I would be a nervous wreck. I don't think there is anything wrong with you--that is alot of stress, both excitement and sadness, for anyone.