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Bizzymammabee · 03-17-2008, 08:25 AM

oh boy those children are little disgusting monsters. I would kill my kids for doing something like that to someone else house. Shoot when we go to my SIL's house I make the kids clean the playroom for her before they play.

mizzwanned · 03-17-2008, 08:45 AM

Yikes! That sounds bad! I too hate when parents are not responsible and don't teach their children manners. They are at fault for what their children do. I would have gone off on them.

Sookie · 03-17-2008, 09:15 AM

Email the parents the before and after pics of the playroom! OMG, they are MONSTERS!!!!

And to top it off, you're pregnant and haven't been feeling all that great (dizzy, fainting, etc.). And now you have to clean up THEIR mess??? Those parents should be ASHAMED of themselves!!

pepe mint · 03-17-2008, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Sookie

Email the parents the before and after pics of the playroom! OMG, they are MONSTERS!!!!

And to top it off, you're pregnant and haven't been feeling all that great (dizzy, fainting, etc.). And now you have to clean up THEIR mess??? Those parents should be ASHAMED of themselves!!

exactly.

did I mention that I spent nearly $100 on stuff for dinner last night? and THIS is the thanks I get. blows my mind. i'm still in shock.

tiggerr36792 · 03-17-2008, 09:26 AM

I hope you get everything back in order soon. You sure didnt need the stress of irresponsible parenting. Your a better person than I am cause I would have asked them to leave my home and never return!

Tammyh · 03-17-2008, 09:37 AM

Wow, that's a tough one especially since they go to your church. Definitely sleep on it. I don't know if saying anything to them or emailing them will even to any good as it sounds like they knew exactly what their kids were doing and saw nothing wrong with it

. I understand the need to say something to them but I can't help but wonder if it wouldn't be better to just let it be and if the opportunity for them to invite themselves over comes up again you could say "no" and tell them exactly why. Now if the kids were being sneaky and the parents didn't have a clue as to what they were doing it would be different. These people are a prime example of why there are so many bratty kids out there. The parents have no respect so why should the kids! It's pretty sad. I'm really sorry you had to deal with all of that

bailey12 · 03-17-2008, 09:44 AM

I don't think it's necessarily easy to ask people to leave, but I would have done just that. Why in the world do we worry about the perception of rudeness in response to rudeness? I believe we have the right and responsibility to be respectful of ourselves and each other. It is not "rude" of me to let another person know that their behavior is unacceptable in my own home, and I don't feel bad about that. Whatever is chosen in this instance doesn't really matter as long as it is what feels right for the "poster". I hope you can have the conversation, be it by phone, email, etc., so you feel ok about the outcome. What I or anyone else would or wouldn't do doesn't really matter, although it feels good, and is important to talk about. Juliet

*sophie's mama* · 03-17-2008, 10:09 AM

I was hoping that the parents were unaware of disaster their boys created. I would invite them over to help clean. I would want to know immediately if my boys made a mess like that. Their butts would be there cleaning until it was immaculate.

itsmeagain05 · 03-17-2008, 10:28 AM

WOW!!!!! unbelievable. i would be furious. you need to talk to those parents. send them copies of those pictures.

pepe mint · 03-17-2008, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by bailey12

I don't think it's necessarily easy to ask people to leave, but I would have done just that. Why in the world do we worry about the perception of rudeness in response to rudeness? I believe we have the right and responsibility to be respectful of ourselves and each other. It is not "rude" of me to let another person know that their behavior is unacceptable in my own home, and I don't feel bad about that. Whatever is chosen in this instance doesn't really matter as long as it is what feels right for the "poster". I hope you can have the conversation, be it by phone, email, etc., so you feel ok about the outcome. What I or anyone else would or wouldn't do doesn't really matter, although it feels good, and is important to talk about. Juliet

I agree. I have no idea why I am worried about upsetting them...when I am TOTALLY upset. I mean...they had NO concern for my feelings. none at all. I have been spending time in the play room today cleaning and I just get so mad with everything I am picking up. and that is just the tip of the iceberg in relation to all that happened last night.

I have an email typed up...I just need to make sure I don't want to add anything before I send it. I am attaching the pics of the play room...just for "reference" for them.

I honestly, at this point, do not care if they get mad at my email. and if they think they can go to my bff and complain about it...they will get a rude awakening because she is just as appalled as I am.

mattymac · 03-17-2008, 10:33 AM

WOW.. I just read this and saw those pictures..I don't even know what to say!! That is totally unacceptable behavior. I would be livid

Sandysbabies · 03-17-2008, 10:37 AM

I know how you feel. We had a simular sitution years ago. These people came over from church one Sunday nite. First time they were in our home. I also was pregnant. They had 2 boys. They literally chewed our leather furniture and went in my son's room and we heard a crash, and they tore the closet door off the hinges. Needless to say they were never invited again. Better not to say anything since you do go to church with them but I would never let them come over again.

pepe mint · 03-17-2008, 10:50 AM

Ok, I sent the email along with the pictures. I'll let you know what...if anything...I hear back

Jody Renfroe · 03-17-2008, 10:54 AM

Wow! I don't blame you for being mad. I couldn't have remained as civil as you did under the circumstances! That sounds horrible!!!

Rae Rae · 03-17-2008, 10:57 AM

I would be totally pist! You have every right to be mad, and who cares if you upset them or hurt there feelings. They obviously have no common sense when it comes to bring their children over to someone elses house, especially after they even invited themselves!!! I would totally go off on them!!! Keep us updated on the email.

03-17-2008, 08:25 AM	#46
Bizzymammabee Luvs Lulu Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Queens, NY Posts: 6,931 Blog Entries: 1	oh boy those children are little disgusting monsters. I would kill my kids for doing something like that to someone else house. Shoot when we go to my SIL's house I make the kids clean the playroom for her before they play. __________________ Lulu will always be in my heart

03-17-2008, 08:45 AM	#47
mizzwanned Donating YT 11K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: new york Posts: 14,007 Blog Entries: 2	Yikes! That sounds bad! I too hate when parents are not responsible and don't teach their children manners. They are at fault for what their children do. I would have gone off on them. __________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3

03-17-2008, 09:15 AM	#48
Sookie My Four Sweet Babies Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: South Jersey near Philadelphia Posts: 5,452	Email the parents the before and after pics of the playroom! OMG, they are MONSTERS!!!! And to top it off, you're pregnant and haven't been feeling all that great (dizzy, fainting, etc.). And now you have to clean up THEIR mess??? Those parents should be ASHAMED of themselves!! __________________ I LOVE MY BABIES Last edited by Sookie; 03-17-2008 at 09:16 AM.

03-17-2008, 09:37 AM	#51
Tammyh YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Washington Posts: 399	Wow, that's a tough one especially since they go to your church. Definitely sleep on it. I don't know if saying anything to them or emailing them will even to any good as it sounds like they knew exactly what their kids were doing and saw nothing wrong with it . I understand the need to say something to them but I can't help but wonder if it wouldn't be better to just let it be and if the opportunity for them to invite themselves over comes up again you could say "no" and tell them exactly why. Now if the kids were being sneaky and the parents didn't have a clue as to what they were doing it would be different. These people are a prime example of why there are so many bratty kids out there. The parents have no respect so why should the kids! It's pretty sad. I'm really sorry you had to deal with all of that __________________ Bella & Lucee's Momma

03-17-2008, 10:33 AM	#56
mattymac YT Addict Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: NJ Posts: 467	WOW.. I just read this and saw those pictures..I don't even know what to say!! That is totally unacceptable behavior. I would be livid __________________ Tori and Lily

03-17-2008, 09:26 AM	#50
tiggerr36792 BANNED! Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: California Posts: 6,685 Blog Entries: 1	I hope you get everything back in order soon. You sure didnt need the stress of irresponsible parenting. Your a better person than I am cause I would have asked them to leave my home and never return!

03-17-2008, 09:44 AM	#52
bailey12 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: St. Louis MO Posts: 85	I don't think it's necessarily easy to ask people to leave, but I would have done just that. Why in the world do we worry about the perception of rudeness in response to rudeness? I believe we have the right and responsibility to be respectful of ourselves and each other. It is not "rude" of me to let another person know that their behavior is unacceptable in my own home, and I don't feel bad about that. Whatever is chosen in this instance doesn't really matter as long as it is what feels right for the "poster". I hope you can have the conversation, be it by phone, email, etc., so you feel ok about the outcome. What I or anyone else would or wouldn't do doesn't really matter, although it feels good, and is important to talk about. Juliet

03-17-2008, 10:09 AM	#53
sophie's mama YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Heartland Posts: 506	I was hoping that the parents were unaware of disaster their boys created. I would invite them over to help clean. I would want to know immediately if my boys made a mess like that. Their butts would be there cleaning until it was immaculate.

03-17-2008, 10:28 AM	#54
itsmeagain05 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: CA Posts: 62	WOW!!!!! unbelievable. i would be furious. you need to talk to those parents. send them copies of those pictures.

03-17-2008, 10:37 AM	#57
Sandysbabies YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Dallas, Texas Posts: 2,234	I know how you feel. We had a simular sitution years ago. These people came over from church one Sunday nite. First time they were in our home. I also was pregnant. They had 2 boys. They literally chewed our leather furniture and went in my son's room and we heard a crash, and they tore the closet door off the hinges. Needless to say they were never invited again. Better not to say anything since you do go to church with them but I would never let them come over again.

03-17-2008, 10:50 AM	#58
pepe mint YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Franklin, TN Posts: 11,145	Ok, I sent the email along with the pictures. I'll let you know what...if anything...I hear back __________________ Anyone who does not know what soap tastes like has never washed a dog

03-17-2008, 10:54 AM	#59
Jody Renfroe No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 1,375	Wow! I don't blame you for being mad. I couldn't have remained as civil as you did under the circumstances! That sounds horrible!!!

03-17-2008, 10:57 AM	#60
Rae Rae YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Illinois Posts: 4,823	I would be totally pist! You have every right to be mad, and who cares if you upset them or hurt there feelings. They obviously have no common sense when it comes to bring their children over to someone elses house, especially after they even invited themselves!!! I would totally go off on them!!! Keep us updated on the email. __________________ Owned by Rocky and Bella