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Originally Posted by bailey12  I don't think it's necessarily easy to ask people to leave, but I would have done just that. Why in the world do we worry about the perception of rudeness in response to rudeness? I believe we have the right and responsibility to be respectful of ourselves and each other. It is not "rude" of me to let another person know that their behavior is unacceptable in my own home, and I don't feel bad about that. Whatever is chosen in this instance doesn't really matter as long as it is what feels right for the "poster". I hope you can have the conversation, be it by phone, email, etc., so you feel ok about the outcome. What I or anyone else would or wouldn't do doesn't really matter, although it feels good, and is important to talk about. Juliet |
I agree. I have no idea why I am worried about upsetting them...when I am TOTALLY upset. I mean...they had NO concern for my feelings. none at all. I have been spending time in the play room today cleaning and I just get so mad with everything I am picking up. and that is just the tip of the iceberg in relation to all that happened last night.
I have an email typed up...I just need to make sure I don't want to add anything before I send it. I am attaching the pics of the play room...just for "reference" for them.
I honestly, at this point, do not care if they get mad at my email. and if they think they can go to my bff and complain about it...they will get a rude awakening because she is just as appalled as I am.