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daisy mae06 · 03-14-2008, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by bettyeanne

Oh, Lori, I am so terribly sorry. She is only 4 yrs. older than I ... if you got your "grit" from her, I'll bet she will lick this. Can you get away for awhile to go and be with her ... I'm sure you would be a comfort right now. Please, please tell us if there is anything that we can do!? I will be praying for her and for you. Please update us as you get more details. God bless you!

Oh Bettye I hope I can change her mind she told my lil sis that she wont get treatment..

patty58 · 03-14-2008, 04:07 PM

Oh Lori you and your family are in my prayers. I am so sorry.

mypreciouspups · 03-14-2008, 04:18 PM

I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother.. I will pray for her to overcome this cancer.. I will pray for you to be ok in dealing with this.

Is there any way you can come to florida.. if I am at all close.. I will help you with the dogs... that would not be a problem for me..let me know if I can help you in any way...

((((hugs)))))

MICKEYK · 03-14-2008, 04:19 PM

lori im so sorry to hear this.sending you a big hug and prayers you and your
family.

bettyeanne · 03-14-2008, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by daisy mae06

Oh Bettye I hope I can change her mind she told my lil sis that she wont get treatment..

Oh, she is probably in shock right now. If this is an early discovery she can beat this, I just know she can! Do you have the time right now to go? Where in Florida is she?

TammyJM · 03-14-2008, 04:23 PM

Lori~

I wish that I was there to give you a great big ole hug! I will say a prayer that your grandmother will heal and that she has no pain. I lost my beautiful grandma this past October and it feels like just yesterday that I was talking with her. Feel free to call or email...I understand the fear that comes along with a loved one being so ill.

Tammy

jp4m2 · 03-14-2008, 04:24 PM

I'm so sorry about your Grandmother!...Can you call her and let her know of your concern?.....She may want to hear your voice.....I will be thinking good thought for her and her test results......

daisy mae06 · 03-14-2008, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by mypreciouspups

I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother.. I will pray for her to overcome this cancer.. I will pray for you to be ok in dealing with this.

Is there any way you can come to florida.. if I am at all close.. I will help you with the dogs... that would not be a problem for me..let me know if I can help you in any way...

((((hugs)))))

Thak you so much for your offer Anne If I did get to go down They would most likely stay here with Hubby.
But also My mom has Daisy's mom and dad and a sister and Gramma has a sister and brother ..And both my sisters have sisters... So they are in Yorkie Heaven there.. It was sweet of you to offer though.

jencar98 · 03-14-2008, 04:26 PM

Oh Lori, I'm sorry, my heart goes out to you. I'm praying the cancer is not advanced and your Grandma will change her mind about treatment. There is so much more that can be done today than even a few years ago. Don't give up hope sweetie, I won't!

red98vett · 03-14-2008, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by jencar98

Oh Lori, I'm sorry, my heart goes out to you. I'm praying the cancer is not advanced and your Grandma will change her mind about treatment. There is so much more that can be done today than even a few years ago. Don't give up hope sweetie, I won't!

I so agree with this !!

I'm so sorry to hear this

and you have my prayers and hopes with your family - I really do hope it's not as bad as it sounds and sending hugs....

luckylady · 03-14-2008, 04:28 PM

Oh Lori, I am so very sorry to hear about your Gramma...I will keep her and you and you family in my prayers. The video link you posted was beautiful and almost immediately brought tears to my eyes; the part about the parent repeating themselves hit close to home...it made me want to hug my mom right that moment. Thankfully she is still here with us as her 94th birthday draws near.
Do not feel that you abandoned your family just because you are not near them. When my brother lived in Texas when I was going through a tough time, he gave me a wall plaque with this poem...maybe it will make you feel a little closer to them....

A FAMILY IS LOVE
There's a special kind of closeness
that only families know
It starts with early childhood trust
and deepens as you grow...
There's a special kind of comfort
in knowing your family's there,
to love and understand you,
to listen and to care...
Of all the treasures life may bring,
your family means the most,
And whether near or far apart
that love will hold you close.

I have loved that poem from the first time I read it; it still hangs on my wall today.
((((((Hugs to you Lori)))))...if there is anything I can do to help, let me know.

ryorkies · 03-14-2008, 04:31 PM

Lori, those are truly the scariest words to ever hear and when you do hear them your world changes and is never, ever the same. I think the most important thing you can do for her right now is to just let her know how much you care for her and let her know that you can be as strong as needed.
Lori, You are an amazing individual and I have every confidence that you will be her shining star through all this. Miles are just that ....miles, but a heart is forever close. Hugs to you.....

daisy mae06 · 03-14-2008, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by bettyeanne

Oh, she is probably in shock right now. If this is an early discovery she can beat this, I just know she can! Do you have the time right now to go? Where in Florida is she?

She has been Really sisck since Thanksgiving. THey thought it was TB

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but after doing everything else they could have they deside to test for cancer!

They should have tested for Cancer months ago.

. Now she is really Sick and My mom feels that it could be in her bones among other organs. I am Praying that it is not true. but it Really does not look good.

omega · 03-14-2008, 04:40 PM

Lori, I'm so sorry to hear about your grandma.

How hard it must be to be so far away. I hope you don't feel any guilt for moving away - it wouldn't have changed anything.

Do you know why she doesn't want treatment?

I hope you can go down to see her - after my grandmas died that was my one wish - that I had spent more time with them when they got sick.

Thinking of you and your family sweetie.

bettyeanne · 03-14-2008, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by daisy mae06

She has been Really sisck since Thanksgiving. THey thought it was TB

.
but after doing everything else they could have they deside to test for cancer!

They should have tested for Cancer months ago.

. Now she is really Sick and My mom feels that it could be in her bones among other organs. I am Praying that it is not true. but it Really does not look good.

TB? Sometimes doctors just won't listen ... and they misdiagnose a lot. But, there have been so many breakthroughs in treatment that there is so much more that they can do now! Why don't you find out from your Mom what would be a good time for you to call and talk to your grandmother and perhaps you can help her decide that she does need to receive treatment? Maybe she just needs a little more time to decide. I'm sure that she knows how much you all love her! I will also be praying that it has not spread.

BTW ... I love that Josh Groban video! Someone sent me that when I lost my sweet Mother in 2006 and it helped me so much! I had experienced every single one of those things with her and handled them exactly the way it was described in the video. It gave me so much peace!! Please thank your Mom for me!

03-14-2008, 04:07 PM	#17
patty58 Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas Posts: 5,272	Oh Lori you and your family are in my prayers. I am so sorry. __________________ Decide To Make It A Good Day

03-14-2008, 04:24 PM	#22
jp4m2 Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: w/ my boys Posts: 5,056	I'm so sorry about your Grandmother!...Can you call her and let her know of your concern?.....She may want to hear your voice.....I will be thinking good thought for her and her test results...... __________________ B.J.mom to : Jake J.J. Jack & Joey, momma misses you..... The joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The two most powerful words when we’re in struggle: me too..

03-14-2008, 04:26 PM	#24
jencar98 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 6,435 Blog Entries: 3	Oh Lori, I'm sorry, my heart goes out to you. I'm praying the cancer is not advanced and your Grandma will change her mind about treatment. There is so much more that can be done today than even a few years ago. Don't give up hope sweetie, I won't! __________________ ~Ruby, Reno, Razz, & Jack~

03-14-2008, 04:28 PM	#26
luckylady Living My Yorkie Dream Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Nebraska Posts: 6,114 Blog Entries: 6	Oh Lori, I am so very sorry to hear about your Gramma...I will keep her and you and you family in my prayers. The video link you posted was beautiful and almost immediately brought tears to my eyes; the part about the parent repeating themselves hit close to home...it made me want to hug my mom right that moment. Thankfully she is still here with us as her 94th birthday draws near. Do not feel that you abandoned your family just because you are not near them. When my brother lived in Texas when I was going through a tough time, he gave me a wall plaque with this poem...maybe it will make you feel a little closer to them.... A FAMILY IS LOVE There's a special kind of closeness that only families know It starts with early childhood trust and deepens as you grow... There's a special kind of comfort in knowing your family's there, to love and understand you, to listen and to care... Of all the treasures life may bring, your family means the most, And whether near or far apart that love will hold you close. I have loved that poem from the first time I read it; it still hangs on my wall today. ((((((Hugs to you Lori)))))...if there is anything I can do to help, let me know. __________________ Rose Lucky,Toby, Hannah,Camie, & Reggie Heartland Biewers and Yorkies

03-14-2008, 04:18 PM	#18
mypreciouspups Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Florida/Canada Posts: 5,514	I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother.. I will pray for her to overcome this cancer.. I will pray for you to be ok in dealing with this. Is there any way you can come to florida.. if I am at all close.. I will help you with the dogs... that would not be a problem for me..let me know if I can help you in any way... ((((hugs)))))

03-14-2008, 04:19 PM	#19
MICKEYK BANNED FOR STEALING YORKIETALK CONTENT! Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: MI Posts: 2,052	lori im so sorry to hear this.sending you a big hug and prayers you and your family.

03-14-2008, 04:23 PM	#21
TammyJM No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: With My Beautiful Fur Babies! Posts: 5,525	Lori~ I wish that I was there to give you a great big ole hug! I will say a prayer that your grandmother will heal and that she has no pain. I lost my beautiful grandma this past October and it feels like just yesterday that I was talking with her. Feel free to call or email...I understand the fear that comes along with a loved one being so ill. Tammy

03-14-2008, 04:31 PM	#27
ryorkies No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Yorkieville Posts: 2,860	Lori, those are truly the scariest words to ever hear and when you do hear them your world changes and is never, ever the same. I think the most important thing you can do for her right now is to just let her know how much you care for her and let her know that you can be as strong as needed. Lori, You are an amazing individual and I have every confidence that you will be her shining star through all this. Miles are just that ....miles, but a heart is forever close. Hugs to you.....

03-14-2008, 04:40 PM	#29
omega Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: MN Posts: 7,575	Lori, I'm so sorry to hear about your grandma. How hard it must be to be so far away. I hope you don't feel any guilt for moving away - it wouldn't have changed anything. Do you know why she doesn't want treatment? I hope you can go down to see her - after my grandmas died that was my one wish - that I had spent more time with them when they got sick. Thinking of you and your family sweetie.