Lori, I'm so sorry to hear about your grandma.

How hard it must be to be so far away. I hope you don't feel any guilt for moving away - it wouldn't have changed anything.
Do you know why she doesn't want treatment?
I hope you can go down to see her - after my grandmas died that was my one wish - that I had spent more time with them when they got sick.
Thinking of you and your family sweetie.