In Memorial-Kassie Kisses-My Precious Yorkie

[Tophersmom]

Papi, how sad I am to read of your loss. These little souls that come into our lives add so much love, so much happiness and when they're gone it seems that our hearts will never be the same...but time is our friend and it gives us strength. With it we're soon able to look back at our precious memories and smile.
Kassie was so beautiful and I know she's so thankful to you for your love. She was a lucky little gal to have such a wonderful Papi in her life.

This poem I've carried with me since 1983. It's helped me through many losses. I hope it might help ease your sadness just a bit.

The Rose Beyond the Wall

Near a shady wall a rose once grew,
Budded and blossomed in God's free light,
Watered and fed by the morning dew,
Shedding it's sweetness day and night.

As it grew and blossomed fair and tall,
Slowly rising to loftier height,
It came to a crevice in the wall
Through which there shone a beam of light.

Onward it crept with added strength
With never a thought of fear or pride,
It followed the light through the crevice's length
And unfolded itself on the other side.

The light, the dew, the broadening view
Were found the same as they were before,
And it lost itself in beauties new,
Breathing it's fragrance more and more.

Shall claim of death cause us to grieve
And make our courage faint and fall?
Nay! Let us faith and hope receive--
The rose still grows beyond the wall,
Scattering fragrance far and wide
Just as it did in days of yore,
Just as it did on the other side,
Just as it will forevermore.
~ A. L. Frink ~

warm hugs
Val

[wemple2]

That was lovely...helps me to realize that life does go on, I have many loved ones on the "other side", till we meet again. Thanks for the reminder...they are all healthy and happy once again, sometimes it's easy to forget that.

[Monday]

Papi,
My heart is with you. Thankfully, I have not suffered the loss of a furbaby, but I have suffered the loss of 2 loving husbands (at a way too young age). so I can share that with you. I found this story and now you seem like the perfect person to show this to.

Dog's Don't Have Souls, Do They?
By Chuck Wells, Palmyra N.Y.
I remember bringing you home. You were so small and cuddly with your tiny paws and soft fur.

You bounced around the room with eyes flashing and ears flopping. Once in awhile, you'd let out a little yelp, just to let me know this was your territory.

Making a mess of the house and chewing on everything in sight became a passion, and when I scolded you, you just put your head down and looked up at me with those innocent eyes, as if to say, "I'm sorry, but I'll do it again as soon as you're not watching."

As you got older, you protected me by looking out the window and barking at everyone who walked by.

When I had a tough day, you would be waiting for me with your tail wagging just to say, "Welcome home. I missed you." You never had a bad day, and I could always count on you to be there for me.

When I sat down to read the paper and watch TV, you would hop on my lap, looking for attention. You never asked for anything more than to have me pat your head so you could go to sleep with your head over my leg.

As you got older, you moved around more slowly. Then one day old age finally took its toll, and you couldn't stand on those wobbly legs anymore. I knelt down and patted you lying there, trying to make you young again. You just looked up at me as if to say you were old and tired and that after all these years of not asking for anything, you had to ask me for one last favor.

With tears in my eyes, I drove you one last time to the veterinarian. One last time, you were lying next to me.

For some strange reason, you were able to stand up in the animal hospital; perhaps it was your sense of pride.

As the veterinarian led you away, you stopped for an instant, turned your head, and looked at me as if to say, "Thank you for taking care of me"

I thought, "No, thank YOU for taking care of me."

*********************

This invokes tears each time I read it, but tears are good when shed for those you love. To never cry, is to have never loved.
You are a loving man ... bless your heart! Kassie was lucky to have you.
Debbie, Monday and Friday

[Papi]

Originally Posted by wemple2

Papi...I know how the depression and loneliness can be, I can truly vouch for that, there were times, I swear, that I would break down for no apparent reason, I just utterly missed him so much. During that time, I told myself I never wanted to feel like that again, I swore I would NOT get another dog...but as time went on, I realized how wrong that was, I needed another Yorkie...there was no question about it...I started my search, it took over my life, I wanted another JUST LIKE SPENCER...well I have to tell you, if I had tried to find one any more different then Spencer, I couldn't have. The difference is like night and day. But I love them both despite their differences. So I know, in time you will make up your mind...HAPPY SEARCHING!!!

Hello Kathy,

I as you know, many other's here, can sincerely empathaize with you, knowing of your love for your precious Spencer, though in all this, her loss, the loss of Kassie, I as you never even entertained the thought of owning another Yorkie until recently, hearing how you after losing Spencer never contemplated owning another either, yet did choose to bring Winston into your life, obviously the happier for it, and I can see many other friends here who suffered the loss of their babies didn't feel they could either, yet it has become apparent to me, so many have come through their grief, found new happiness, by in fact bringing a new baby into their live's, and this has convinced me I must somehow do the same if I'm to get my sanity back, I'm sure as you I'll never get a clone of Kassie but from what I have heard from many of you, the differences can be just as much a joy, and healer.

May I thank you for helping me to see with a clearer mind, a more positive view, you have given me a new outlook, away to get through a trialsome time.

Thank you very, very much.

Papi

[Patti]

I usually last 1 week before I misss having my baby so much that I got another. I have lost 3 Yorkies, one at a time and each time I was able to find another love of my life no matter how similar or different. Some of the early days were hard as a puppy is a lot different than an old friend but they are so full of energy you can't help but fall in love all over again. I now have 3 dogs and each one holds a special place in my heart and has their own little personalities. I am so happy you are reconsidering getting another Yorkie.

[Papi]

Originally Posted by michiko

I am sorry for your loss... My girl is a little over 1 year old. Every time I read something like this, I get started worrying really bad. I cannot imagine how much pain it must have been for you. But she is in peace now and I am sure she wishes you all the happiness.

I feel really blessed to be able to have Haruka. Having a yorkie is such a wonderful gift. Then I also had to prepare myself to invite her to my life. I feel so grateful that I really made it to have her. I have always wanted a yorkie. When I was depressed, being alone in this country, facing culture shocks every day and not being able to tell anyone as an immigrant, I didn't have Haruka. But I found a way to cope somehow. I had to find ways.. When I determined to get a yorkie, I didn't know how long it would take me to be actually ready environmentally and also FINANCIALLY. I waited for one year. I visited yorkie meet-up, went to all the dog parks and pet shops to meet different dogs.

So I am not sure what your plan is. (I am sorry that I haven't read all the threads) But I do hope that you find your healthy ways to cope from this pain. You are a great writer!! It sounded to me that this thread was one of the ways for you to cope. One day when you are ready, you may get a yorkie and also keep the wonderful memories of Kassie.

Peace and Love,

Michiko

Hello Michiko ,

First may I apologize to you for such a late response, and thank you for your consoling, thoughtful words, I do appreciate it very much.

Michiko, please don't be overly worried, make yourself sick, or stressed out over something so soon in Haruka's young years, as you said just over a year, yes, something to think about of course, but I'm sure you, and precious Haruka's will see many wonderful year's togeather, my biggest concern is the kidney disease, I think if I had taken Kassie for more than the standard or recommended time for blood test, I think it's every 6 months or a year, I may have caught it sooner, and we wouldn't be having this conversation now, if had it to do all over again, I would have taken her at the least, every 3 months for a kidney test.

Machiko, I see you had a very difficult time as an immigrant, a mountain so to speak to climb, overcome, the language, the culture, yet you perservered, I sincerely applaud and commend you for your fortitude, for conquering such aewsome odds, as they may have to you when you began on your journey, you have to be proud of yourself, as I'm sure your family and friends are, and look at the reward, the fullfilment of your dream, owning a Yorkie did come true. not just any Yorkie, you found Haruka, or did she find you ? I can't tell you how very happy I am for you, you worked so hard, and are so deserving of the fruits of your labor, I have no doubt you and Haruka will have many long years to share your love for one another, have many joyous, happy and fun filled years to share togeather, I pray so.

It sounded to me that this thread was one of the ways for you to cope.

Without a doubt, you hit the nail on the head, I don't know how I would have managed without the YorkieTalk Community, so very many friends who have listened to some of my rants, who have shared so much of their own grief, and more than anything else have supported, encouraged me in way's I can't put into words, yes, the friends, as you, have helped me to cope, and for that I'll be forever grateful.

A side thought if I may, saw all the beautiful pics of Haruka in your blog, she is adorable, and the truth be told, I think my Kassie's face looked very much like her's, and I think your sewing is fine, I can't do that.

My thank's and gratitude Machiko for your support, and encouarging expressions, you truly have a Yorkie heart, a special un-selfish love charactoristic of Yorkie lover's, that is a true statment.

Thank you very, very much.

Papi

[Papi]

Originally Posted by YORKIEMOM2B2006

hi Papi, I'm just checking in to see how your doing.
been thinking about you..........
(((((Papi)))))
Elaine

A warm hello Elaine,

How very thoughtfull, kind of you to remember us, I just don't have anymore words to express my amazement with you, and all the Yorkie friends, just so humbling for me to find so many people, friends who honestly care.

The truth be told, I'm beginning to come back to my senses, see a light at the end of the tunnell so to speak, and with thanks to you, all the friends here who have given me so much support, encouragement, and most of all hope, the over riding factor being LOVE shown me from the Yorkie community, friends, and to someone you don't really know.

How can I ever thank you, the friends other than a sincere, heartfelt Thank you

Papi

[wemple2]

Papi...Your Welcome!!!

[Papi]

Originally Posted by Surfie and Tiki

I am so sorry for the loss of your best friend Kassie, your tribute to her touched my heart. I would be honored as well if I can be a part in helping you get a new little Yorkie. You are a very kind, gentle human being, and I hope you remain a part of the YT family...........

Hugs to you!

Good day Surfie and Tiki,

I must begin with what is coming to be my standard greeting, sorry to say, with a apology to you for this late reply, I come to YT read the post, reply to one or two then I'm gone for a few day's, not that it's working or traveling, taking up my time as I'm retired, and have holes in my pocket, so those are out, the truth is even though everyone here, the friends have been so supportive, and encouraging, I just get so distraught, feel so unworthy, and lost for words, it literally takes me day's to get myself back togeather, I'm just so un-accustomed to so many people caring, I hope you will please understand, and forgive me.

May I thank you for your kind words, and thoughfulness, even though my tardiness may appear, as not giving these words much credence, I wish you to know I do sincerely appreciate it.

Thank you very, very much.

Papi

[Papi]

Originally Posted by RMKC

I am in too, it will an honor to someone that is that loving and kind !

Good day RMKC,

I'm sorry, my apology to you also for my tardy reply, please believe me I do not intentionally wish to be rude, or disrespectful, of you or anyone else, I am just so overcome by all the support, encouragement, the love being shown to a complete stranger, I do as perhaps difficult for other's to undertsand, get so distraught, I just don't know how to respond to it at time's, and have to take a few day's to get myself back togeather, yes a sad commentary but it is the truth.

May I thank you so much for your kind words, your thoughfulness, I sincerely appreciate it.

Thank you very, very much.

Papi

[RMKC]

Originally Posted by Papi

Good day RMKC,

I'm sorry, my apology to you also for my tardy reply, please believe me I do not intentionally wish to be rude, or disrespectful, of you or anyone else, I am just so overcome by all the support, encouragement, the love being shown to a complete stranger, I do as perhaps difficult for other's to undertsand, get so distraught, I just don't know how to respond to it at time's, and have to take a few day's to get myself back togeather, yes a sad commentary but it is the truth.

May I thank you so much for your kind words, your thoughfulness, I sincerely appreciate it.

Thank you very, very much.

Papi

I would never think of you as rude, i am just glad i could help, and all i need in return to see a pic of you and a new baby with a smile on your face

[Papi]

Originally Posted by SophieRose

Good evening, Papi and after viewing your beautiful photography website, I want to call you by your true name, however, will call you by your YT name, Papi. I am not sure you remember, but my beloved Sophie died on January 23 @ 12:30 pm. this year, taking her last breath in my arms. So, you understand, my heart still feels pain when I look at her picture, smell the lining of her jacket or look at her wee urn that sits on my nightstand.

BUT...Into my life, exactly one month ago, came dear Charlie, a rescued male Yorkie who is 10 years old. He is the dearest, little guy who has some health conditions, but every time he looks into my eyes, my heart feels so full.

I, too wanted another pup to take care of, love and look forward to seeing at the end of the day. When I first met Charlie and decided to adopt him, it was still not a clear decision and even decided not to bring him into my life. Two weeks later, my head and heart were clear with the message "Charlie belongs with you". Because of the adoption process and he needed more medical attention, time was on my side.

Having an older pup is just wonderful because I am older. I raised Sophie from 14 weeks and let her go at 13. For me, a senior was a perfect choice and matches my energy level.

So, Papi, give yourself time to "sift through your broken heart", and her death has probably reopened unresolved wounds in your life. Please remember though, living without a furry companion is once less day of feeling the love again these precious animals share with us.

If you are concerned about the longevity of your life and a puppy, don't let that be an issue. There is always someone who will love and care for your pup if you are unable. Charlie and I will live our lives to the fullest; we found each other just in time.

Warmly, Deborah

Good day Deborah,

May I first also apologize to you also for this tardy reply, please believe me I mean no disrespect or of being intentionally rude, I am very sorry

I am not sure you remember, but my beloved Sophie died on January 23 @ 12:30 pm. this year, taking her last breath in my arms.

Deborah , yes I do remember, and if I didn't this would help, remind me:

What a beautiful tribute to your beautiful companion. I also lost my Sophie, 13 yo. on January 23 and I also had to help her cross the Rainbow Bridge. I thought my heart would also break and said many times "there isn't a patch kit for a broken heart". She was my first Yorkie and the first that was truly mine. This sad story does have a happy ending though. Last Saturday, I welcomed the most wonderful 10 yo. Yorkie male named Charlie whom I adopted through United Yorkie Rescue. Both of us of not perfect in health and both older, but we are perfectly suited

I do understand how your heart can still grieve for your precious Sophie, she is only gone 3 months-24 day's now, for my Kassie it is 47 day's today, yet a month, a year, or 20 year's from now, when we look around our home's, I'm sure we will come across many things which will bring all the memories back, and the tears will come flooding back once again, I'm really sorry, you loved Sophie so much.

I am though so happy to know you did decide to bring Charlie into your life, he will without a doubt make the journey a little easier, help you through some of those trying moments with his love and affection, Yorkie's have an uncanny way of mending our broken hearts, I've learned that from this community, and the many other's who have had this sad experience, I also believe another Yorkie in my life, if ever possible, will be just what the Doctor prescribed.

"there isn't a patch kit for a broken heart".

Your very words Deborah, and true, there isn't a patch kit but there assuredly is the love of a Yorkie, or another Yorkie in one's life can heal us in time, and I'm sure you are experiencing that now.

By the way how are you and Charlie doing, how is he coming along as I believe you said he had some health issues, I pray your both doing well, bonding, and healing, a bright light of joy, happiness fill your hearts, you both deserve to be loved, cared for.

May I thank you again for your kind support, being so encouraging for me. I appreciate it Deborah.

By the way if you feel more comfortable, would like to use my true name Ralph, your welcome to, no way I can hide it after all the year's it's been with me please feel free to use it.

Thank you very much for your kindness Deborah.

Papi

[Papi]

Originally Posted by Tophersmom

Papi, how sad I am to read of your loss. These little souls that come into our lives add so much love, so much happiness and when they're gone it seems that our hearts will never be the same...but time is our friend and it gives us strength. With it we're soon able to look back at our precious memories and smile.
Kassie was so beautiful and I know she's so thankful to you for your love. She was a lucky little gal to have such a wonderful Papi in her life.

This poem I've carried with me since 1983. It's helped me through many losses. I hope it might help ease your sadness just a bit.

The Rose Beyond the Wall

Near a shady wall a rose once grew,
Budded and blossomed in God's free light,
Watered and fed by the morning dew,
Shedding it's sweetness day and night.

As it grew and blossomed fair and tall,
Slowly rising to loftier height,
It came to a crevice in the wall
Through which there shone a beam of light.

Onward it crept with added strength
With never a thought of fear or pride,
It followed the light through the crevice's length
And unfolded itself on the other side.

The light, the dew, the broadening view
Were found the same as they were before,
And it lost itself in beauties new,
Breathing it's fragrance more and more.

Shall claim of death cause us to grieve
And make our courage faint and fall?
Nay! Let us faith and hope receive--
The rose still grows beyond the wall,
Scattering fragrance far and wide
Just as it did in days of yore,
Just as it did on the other side,
Just as it will forevermore.
~ A. L. Frink ~

warm hugs
Val

Evening Val (Tophersmom)

My apology to you also for my tardy reply, I'm sorry.

How so true Val, these little souls, my little Kassie, introduce so much love into our live's, and I am so grateful I came to know of this very special Yorkie breed, Kassie changed my heart as I could never imagined, it was I who was a lucky Papi to have had her come into my life, I will remember her fondly for the rest of my life.

I thank you for sharing this beautiful poem, it is so appropo, I will save it, and read when life is at it's darkess, it's sure to assist me through that crevice in the wall, it truly encourages one to know if one has faith, there is still life, joy, and happiness awaiting us all if we endure, the key being to endure, and where does's one find the strength for such, other than from leaning on and supporting one another in our joy's and sorrow as you, and the many, many Yorkie friends have given me, for which I will alway's be grateful.

Val, May I thank you for your most thoughtfull word's, very kind expressions, for the uplifting, beautiful poem, I appreciate it very much.

Thank you, thank you very much.

Papi

[lilbit4fun]

I am sitting here at this computer at 1:43 in the morning tears and runny nose because like you I have been there to be touched by the wonders of a loving yorkie I know she is dancing and thanking you for loving her so much and for allowing her to go to a better place ..if you need anyone to chat with please email me I have been told i have a good ear..
with prayers and thoughts
Dionna
lilbit4fun@yahoo.com

[Baby Blessing]

Dear Papi,
We just want to say how happy we are to learn you are in search for another little girl yorkie. With the Lord in lead we are BELIEVING that somehow this will come about. Our getting another helped Jack tremendously, one with Parkinsons, smiles on ones face seldom happen and when they do they are forced smiles. I thank the Lord for when he picks up Baby Blessing and now Dollie they are smiles that come forth as big and beautiful as before this dreadful disease took over his body. We are praying that before too long you will be able to have another. Your love shown for Kassie is so touching and there is a little girl out there somewhere waiting for you, when the time is right God will let it happen. Papi we pray you are getting more rest and know that we join in with others in being here to help you.
Kind Regards, from the both of us Jack and Patti
and our girls, Baby Blessing and DollieDae