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11-15-2015, 07:44 PM | #1 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: Scottsdale, AZ
Posts: 16
| Does this heartbreaking pain ever get better? My precious little fluffy girl died 1 week ago. This has been the most painful week, crying every day....looking at pictures of her. I can't even put her bed and toys away (even left weewee pads down for a few days because it was too painful not to have them there). I wish I had just 1 more day with her. She died so suddenly, I didn't have time to prepare myself. |
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11-15-2015, 10:23 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2015 Location: Murrells Inlet SC
Posts: 656
| I am so sorry for your loss and hurt. Loosing one suddenly puts you in shock, I went through that in January. I too cried all the time and for quite awhile. Take one day at a time, she was a very important part of your life, don't be too hard on yourself or expect too much too fast from yourself. RIP precious baby girl
__________________ Blessed Mommy to Presley, Bama & Holly My angel RIP Jingle |
11-16-2015, 04:34 AM | #3 |
Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Central Texas
Posts: 9,685
| I'm so very sorry for your loss and your heartache. Rest in peace precious baby girl.
__________________ "Betty Boop" The light of my life & the joy of my living! |
11-16-2015, 08:24 AM | #4 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Alexandria, Virginia
Posts: 146
| So sorry for your loss. Losing one of these babies is the greatest pain I have ever known, having one is the greatest joy. |
11-16-2015, 11:03 AM | #5 |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: SW USA
Posts: 2,505
| Lost baby I am so very sorry that you have lost your sweet baby, so suddenly too. As many of us have been through this pain and misery we sure know how terrible it feels. For me it was many weeks before the crying subsided and I began to accept what had happened. I understand now why you cannot do anything or remove any reminders of her. That is natural as that is how we deny to ourselves that she is gone. We keep seeing and hearing them when they are not there, we expect them to come running as we come home......And on and on the pain goes. I made the terrible mistake of removing everything connected with my baby , thinking that would help. How wrong could I have been. After I felt a little better I was able to find her collar and some pictures that I had missed before. I mounted them all in a picture frame in her memory. The vet also gave us a montage of her paw print and lock of hair, even now I cry remembering this. I am so glad I have these items to remember her by, now even able to smile at the happy times we had together. So this sad period will gradually give way to the happy memories, but it will take time. You need time to mourn and crying is how we get the sadness out. She had a wonderful life with you and the love for her will never die. Thoughts and prayers for you and your previous girl. She is happy playing at the Rainbow Bridge and you will see her again. Peace and love. Dot (((xxx))) |
11-16-2015, 12:09 PM | #6 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: Scottsdale, AZ
Posts: 16
| Having a terribly sad day Thank you Dot and all YT mommys that offer such sweet and supportive messages! Today is an especially sad day for me. My 7 yr old son had a very upsetting dream that we went to Heaven to visit Teddi. We called her name and searched and searched but couldn't find her. This loss is obviously hard on all of us. |
11-16-2015, 12:18 PM | #7 |
No Longer a Member Join Date: Sep 2014 Location: Utah
Posts: 7
| The pain never really leaves completely, its better to concentrate on the good memories, it can be really tough. |
11-16-2015, 12:21 PM | #8 |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: SW USA
Posts: 2,505
| Typo correction to # 5. Should read, Thoughts and prayers for you and your PRECIOUS girl. So sorry I did not catch it earlier. My iPad thinks it knows better than what I type!! |
11-16-2015, 01:20 PM | #9 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: Scottsdale, AZ
Posts: 16
| Feeling guilty And if the grief and sadness isn't bad enough, I'm overwhelmed with feelings of guilt as well! I don't know if this is normal but I keep thinking back on all the times that I did NOT to play with her...or NOT take her outside because I was busy with a million things. I hate thinking about how long she was in pain or feeling sick and she couldn't tell me. I would never have left her side if I knew she was in pain. |
11-21-2015, 07:09 AM | #10 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Hibbing Minnesota
Posts: 1,106
| I am so sorry reading about your loss of your baby girl. It is normal what you are going through and time does heal. You will always have her in your heart. When we lost our Keally we had guilt feelings to. It was why didn't I do this or why did we do that and it was why? I went several times to my vet and he was so helpful and we went on to buy a healthy little girl from a reputable breeder. We keep Keally's pictures on the wall and her memories are with us everyday. Our new baby is five years now and we just love her to death. Sending a hug your way and time heals . Susan |
11-21-2015, 08:23 AM | #11 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Mesa, Arizona
Posts: 313
| Sorry We lost our beloved Bella two weeks ago tomorrow. It has been the most painful experience in our married life. We miss her every minute of the day. We are just going day by day. It happened quickly for us to. You are not alone. Wishing you well. |
12-22-2015, 02:23 PM | #12 | |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: South Carolina
Posts: 31
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Sweetheart, I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand . My precious April left a year ago. I miss with all my heart and soul. There is not a day that goes by, my hear aches for her😭 They have crossed the rainbow bridge and barking and waiting for us to join them❤️😇🐾 Prayers sweetheart🙏😇🐶🐾 | |
12-22-2015, 02:25 PM | #13 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: South Carolina
Posts: 31
| When does the pain go away??? I love April May Dinkel❤️🙏🐾 I miss April everyday of my life🐶🐾😒 |
12-22-2015, 07:27 PM | #14 |
Senior Yorkie Talker | We lost our beloved, Milo, suddenly last summer. He was only three years old and his passing was a huge shock. My husband and I cried for weeks. The pain does subside after a time. It never really goes away completely. I miss him as I am writing this. I am so sorry for your loss and my heart aches for you. It takes time to walk through the grief you are feeling. Just know you are not alone. Hugs and prayers being sent. Take it one day at a time. 💕
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12-22-2015, 07:33 PM | #15 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Sep 2014 Location: hou,tx,usa
Posts: 238
| I lost my beloved Bella a year ago... two pit-bull's got into our backyard and I was not able to save her. ....I felt so guilty...I felt like poison was running throughout my veins..... My pain and sorrow was lessened when I found YT.... You, like me, will find comfort here...... Now I understand why they say that misery loves company. I still miss Bella like crazy... but friends in YT have helped me to understand that she will always be in my heart... and that she knew how much I loved her.
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