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01-10-2006, 07:43 PM | #16 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: USA
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| MiaW - I hope you feel up to getting your new little puppy soon. I lost a dog I loved with all my heart a few months ago - and two or three months later got my little Yorkie. I can assure you that one dog never replaces another. You will just be getting a new little dog to love. I think of the little dog I lost daily and will remember and love her every day for the rest of my life. And, of course, I love my new little Yorkie pup to pieces. He's wonderful. And, I still have my Bichon (I got the new little Yorkie pup for him as much as I did for myself - he was lonesome). And he and the new little pup have become fast friends. Every dog you have is something different that you love. One part of your heart will love Tinkerbell forever - and another part will fall in love quickly with your new little pup. Good luck! Carol Jean |
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01-12-2006, 08:00 AM | #17 |
Gizmo and Gidget's Pet Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Arkansas
Posts: 1,326
| Hello, just wanted to check in with you and see how you and your family were doing.. I know that you have been through hell on earth. I hope that you will be able to move forward and get another baby someday. Don't rush yourself though, you will know when the time is right. Good luck and God bless you all, -Heather
__________________ Heather & Max - In honor of my sweet Ayden! |
01-12-2006, 04:50 PM | #18 |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2005 Location: Missouri
Posts: 248
| Mia, I wanted to say I'm so sorry to hear about your little Tinkerbell. We lost our Kelli on November 25th and I thought my heart would break without her. It did for a while and still does at times, but on January 7th we brought Isabella home. I still miss Kelli. I still want to kiss her, and hold her, and love on her. I can still hear her feet clicking across the floor, her tags jingling, and her sweet bark. I still talk to her (and in fact, one of the first things I did when we brought Bella into the house was show her Kelli's picture and I said, "Isabella, look, it's your big sister! She's your angel now baby, she'll always watch over you." and I believe that. Kel will always be a part of our family, just as Tinkerbell will always be a part of yours. I hope that you're able to bring a new baby into your home soon because you will not believe the immense weight it takes off your heart. Nothing and no one can replace your Tinkerbell, but you have alot of love in your heart to give a new baby when you're ready to. You and your family will be in my thoughts. RIP little Tinkerbell.
__________________ Carrie & Isabella Kelli - 1995-2005 - Always in Our Hearts, Babygirl. Bella's Dogster Kelli's Dogster |
01-13-2006, 07:01 AM | #19 |
Mommy's Little Angel Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Northern New Jersey
Posts: 1,496
| My regards are with you and your family during this hard time...I know first hand how it is to lose a baby so soon afet getting it... I got another dog a month later because I knew it would be the right thing.. Even though Mocha is never forgotten, Lily Mae has filled that void in my heart that Mocha left.. I wish you all the best in your decision
__________________ **Brooke & Lily Mae (Maltipoo)** Mocha (12/23/04-6/25/05) |
01-18-2006, 06:50 PM | #20 |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Jersey
Posts: 78
| Hello My Friends Hi my friends - haven't been on here for a few days (I am an attorney and have been on trial) but in any event, first and foremost, thank you so much for all of your messages - public and private - expressing concern about Tinkerbell. And thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. The last few days have been terrible. For some reason, I find myself feeling just as sad today as the day when Tinkerbell passed away. And I thought I was doing so well. I suppose this is part of the grief cycle. The breeder called and said she had a new litter in December and that the babies would be able to go in March. I told her I couldn't even entertain the thought of looking at a picture of another baby right now. Is that crazy or what? Especially when most of you say that another baby would ease the pain. I just don't know. My 12 year old daughter still cries when we mention Tinkerbell and I overheard my 3 year old talking to one of her dolls and saying that God was "naughty" for taking Tinkerbell away. That broke my heart. But how do I console them when I am so sad myself? Mia
__________________ Rest In Peace My Sweet Tinkerbell - 12/21/05 and Bella 10/29/06 |
01-19-2006, 12:02 AM | #21 | |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Los Angeles
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Mia, I am so sorry to hear that things are still so hard for you. I know how you feel. I myself am up tonight still crying my eyes out for my Maddie. I wish there was something to say, but there's not. There's simply nothing you can do but grieve. I don't have children so I cannot imagine what you're going through. I know they must be devastated. I saw this website http://www.homevet.com/bonding/loss.html that may be able to help (I've been reading them for myself). If you scroll down, it has a few pointers with helping children deal with the loss of their pet. Saying a prayer and hugs for you all.
__________________ Heather, Monkey & Lil Maddie Play in peace my sweet Maddie girl. We miss you so much. 1/02/06 | |
01-19-2006, 12:32 AM | #22 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: California
Posts: 459
| Hi Mia, I'm so sorry to hear about Tinkerbell. I'm sure Tinkerbell had the most wonderful 10 days BECAUSE she was with you. I hope you'll heal soon so that your heart will be ready for another baby to love. |
01-19-2006, 06:09 AM | #23 | |
My Heart, My Life, My Dogs Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: El Paso,TX
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01-19-2006, 03:30 PM | #24 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: NJ
Posts: 4,021
| Mia, I am so sorry for your pain and loss. We went through it with Bandit, he died a month after we got him. I totally did not want another one because I was heartbroken. But then, I decided that I couldn't live without a yorkie to love. Tucker is our new boy and I love him so much. He absolutly did not take the place of Bandit. I love him as a completly different baby. You'll know when you are ready. It won't be disrespectful to Tink's memory, it shows that she was so special that you went and got another one to honor the love she brought into your life. Where in NJ do you live? I am in Milltown.
__________________ Teri Owned by and completely devoted to Tucker... Maddie, we will always love you Bandit, you are always in my heart Proud Member SSLS |
01-19-2006, 03:45 PM | #25 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Logan Utah
Posts: 280
| Please accept this comment with the love that is intended.. Our youngest daughter{human} died at 5 years old with the human form of the same brain problem..it hurt so bad, I didn't cry rivers, I cried lakes..I knew i would never be the same again,then my wonderful husband who was hurting as bad as I was took me out to buy a yorkie baby,that was 15 years ago..yes the puppy did help me to get better, I had someone to love and take care of,not just cry my life away..I have sence lost her,but I will always have a yorkie to love..they are all differant,but they make you see a new day..you can't keep hurting and love a new someone too..there is no way a dog took the place of our daughter,but it sure helped heal me and to bring out the best in me.. I can still love,my heart is big enough to love,but it also showed me I can get past this..time does heal,but you need to put forth the effort too..no puppy will replace your baby,but it will allow you to give and receive love again..allow yourself the privlege of starting life over..I do understand more than you know |
01-19-2006, 07:35 PM | #26 | |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Jersey
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Mia
__________________ Rest In Peace My Sweet Tinkerbell - 12/21/05 and Bella 10/29/06 | |
01-19-2006, 07:47 PM | #27 | |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Jersey
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Mia
__________________ Rest In Peace My Sweet Tinkerbell - 12/21/05 and Bella 10/29/06 | |
01-19-2006, 07:58 PM | #28 | |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Jersey
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Mia
__________________ Rest In Peace My Sweet Tinkerbell - 12/21/05 and Bella 10/29/06 | |
01-19-2006, 08:00 PM | #29 | |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Jersey
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Mia
__________________ Rest In Peace My Sweet Tinkerbell - 12/21/05 and Bella 10/29/06 | |
01-19-2006, 08:05 PM | #30 | |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Jersey
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Hugs, Mia
__________________ Rest In Peace My Sweet Tinkerbell - 12/21/05 and Bella 10/29/06 | |
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