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Originally Posted by JUDY's2yorkies Please accept this comment with the love that is intended.. Our youngest daughter{human} died at 5 years old with the human form of the same brain problem..it hurt so bad, I didn't cry rivers, I cried lakes..I knew i would never be the same again,then my wonderful husband who was hurting as bad as I was took me out to buy a yorkie baby,that was 15 years ago..yes the puppy did help me to get better, I had someone to love and take care of,not just cry my life away..I have sence lost her,but I will always have a yorkie to love..they are all differant,but they make you see a new day..you can't keep hurting and love a new someone too..there is no way a dog took the place of our daughter,but it sure helped heal me and to bring out the best in me.. I can still love,my heart is big enough to love,but it also showed me I can get past this..time does heal,but you need to put forth the effort too..no puppy will replace your baby,but it will allow you to give and receive love again..allow yourself the privlege of starting life over..I do understand more than you know |
Gosh, I am so sorry about the loss of your daughter...I almost feel selfish for grieving over the loss of my yorkie and you lost your
child. Thank you so much for understanding. You guys are beginning to make me feel somewhat excited at the thought of a new fur baby. As I mentioned in my earlier post, just when I start feeling somewhat better, something happens that makes me sad again. For example, I have been patiently waiting for the University of Pennsylvania School of Veterinary Medicine to provide me with Tinkerbell's ashes and my vet with the written report. I called the business office today (since they are the ones who charged me $525 for the necropsy and cremation) and they did not have my paperwork and were not able to provide me with a response. That made me very angry because here I am trying to get some closure, and the red tape is just aggravating. Anyway, I will take your advice about allowing myself to love another baby. Somewhere deep down in my heart I know you are right. Thank you for your love and support.
Mia