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10-25-2013, 09:24 PM | #1 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2004
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| well Its been almost 2 months well Its been almost 2 months since I lost my sweet baby angel girl Roxee and its still no better will someone please tell me when ....... when ....... when please tell me when does it get better to be honest I think I've had a total and complete nervous break down over losing her. people tell me to go get another yorkie but I just cant no way no how they say if I do the bond I will form with the new one will help ......... there's no way I can bond with another one there's no way one would ever come close I had that once I a life time bond. my little mox mox as I called her for short was my very heart and soul my best friend my soul mate no one in my life has ever loved me like she did . this last part is for Roxee ears I thank all of you for listen it does help to be with people that loved their little ones like I did mind ....... Roxee its been almost two months since you left daddy and I still cant believe it and i'm still in total shock baby girl you were my life you were my reason for living I want you to know what an honor it was for me to be your daddy for you to be waiting at the door when I came home for you to make every step I made my sweet precious sweet darling like we always said no matter what nothing or nobody can separate us not even death itself your here with me now in my hear just as i'm there with you in your heart baby girl you wait for daddy at that rainbow bridge I promise my sweet darling I will meet you there and we will live together forever God Bless you my sweet sweet baby girl your daddy's baby angel girl. I love you Rox then now and forever love daddy Last edited by stormchaser; 10-25-2013 at 09:27 PM. |
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10-25-2013, 09:32 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | There's no timetable for grieving. I lost my husband 16 months ago after 42 years together and the pain never goes away. But time does fade some of the terrible heartache. I found for me, when I lost one of mine bringing in another puppy helped. You can never replace Roxee, but she would want you to be happy and share your love with another baby.
__________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html |
10-25-2013, 11:57 PM | #3 |
YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Idaho
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| I agree, You need a new little Happy in your life. No you can't ever replace your sweet baby but she would be very sad seeing you so depressed. No other pup will be like your sweet baby but they ALL steal your heart & they all deserve to have a loving human such as yourself. The pain will eventually be replaced with happy, loving memories. . |
10-26-2013, 05:52 PM | #4 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Hibbing Minnesota
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| Oh how I feel for you but you need to get yourself together.I lost my dear Keally in 2010 and I felt I just wanted to die.I met a lovely breeder and six months later we got Kinder. Keally and I were so bonded together but I really felt she would want me to give another a wonderful home.Surprisely Kinder is an angel from God I love her so much and now she is three years old.Please think of sharing your love with another your baby would want to look down from heaven and see that you are happy again.I really can thank the breeder we got Kinder from she gave us life again. Take care of and I hope all goes well for you.It is normal to grieve for many months and believe me I still think of my little Keally.Susan |
10-27-2013, 04:35 AM | #5 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: montana
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| I agree// after I lost my Lab and my JRT a year apart, it took me awhile before I got morgan and I never thought that I could love a dog as much as I love morgan// he did not replace my other babies he just opened up my heart // I can't imagine my life without morgan// I think all of our fur babies have a special spot in our hearts |
10-27-2013, 05:17 AM | #6 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Boston MA
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| you sound like such a kind hearted gentleman. There are countless yorkies that are given up every day and have no where to go. What a great way to honor Roxee then by adopting a pet in need. It will truly honor her memory and give you such joy knowing you helped another helpless yorkie get the love and care that you gave to your beloved "mox mox" She would be very proud Daddy helped another one of her kind. think about it. I think sometimes helping another (be it person or animal) can help take the sting out of our own pain. It focuses you on something rather than your pain while giving you the satisfaction of knowing you have truly helped make a life better. |
10-27-2013, 06:01 AM | #7 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Easton, PA
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| Hugs...
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10-27-2013, 06:15 AM | #8 |
♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas
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| Take it from someone like you who waited too long between losing a dog and getting another, it's better to have a dog no matter how much you don't feel ready. After two months, the depth of pain usually starts to get better so perhaps a counselor who is proficient at dealing with grief counseling and even a grief group would help you get past the stage you are at. Whether you think you want one or not, a dog would help you to deal with your grief and know the happiness of loving of a puppy once again.
__________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |
10-27-2013, 06:51 AM | #9 |
YT 2000 Club Member | I know how you feel.....I sat at my little girls grave for days....crying! It is the worst feeling to lose your best friend & soul mate. Time heals! I knew that getting another puppy would help heal my broken heart. I found a sweet little girl and she made my life worth living, again. You never forget your little girl and no puppy can replace her, but a puppy can bring happiness to your days! Please open your heart to another puppy, when you feel the time is right.
__________________ Proud Mommy to Max, Teeka, Tatiana and forever in my heart Tameka! My sunshine doesn't come from the skies, it comes from my puppies eyes! |
10-27-2013, 08:04 AM | #10 | |
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11-06-2013, 09:17 PM | #11 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: Custer, SD
Posts: 141
| I agree with all the other ladies. I lost my sweet girl Bailey the end of April and I cried for days. I couldn't even hear her name without crying. I had her for 10 wonderful years, she died to young in my book but there was nothing I could do. She wouldn't eat but was drinking all the time so I took her to the vet and that's when I found out what was wrong. Within 2 weeks of finding out she was gone. I told my husband that I didn't want another yorkie EVER, I missed her to much. But then one day he told me I was getting another one so that I wasn't so depressed anymore. They were tired of me moping around. I now have my little Izzy and let me tell you she has helped me. I will never forget Bailey and you will never forget your little one. No other dog can replace how you felt about your little one. I was thankful that I got her paw prints on canvas so that I could decorate it and add her pictures to it and hang it in my house. I even took my Izzy to Bailey grave and introduced them. I know Bailey is happy that I am not so sad anymore. Hope this helps you. |
11-17-2013, 03:22 AM | #12 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Tonawanda NY
Posts: 27
| Storm We lost ana almost two months today.. Does it get better..yes.. And no.. For everyone its different.. I still grieve everyday.. I miss her everyday.. And i go on everyday knowing i will hold her again.. And yes it sucks (sorry excuse my lang) But we welcomed cooper into our house. We try not to compare but its hard.. But he has brought smiles on everyones face.. He has his own personality and we have adored finding every one of them. Laugh When i look into his eyes i know that getting him was a great decision.. No one could love my cooper like i can You decide when and if you are ready.. But there is another little one out there who is waiting for you.. I just know it J and coop |
11-17-2013, 06:40 AM | #13 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: canada
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| Are you there? Hi Stormcaser. Haven't heard from you for a bit and just wondering how you are doing. I certainly hope that your broken heart is some what piecing back together, bit by little bit. Please let us know how you are doing. Many YT'ers here do care. Looking forward to hearing from you. Much appreciated!! |
12-28-2013, 06:46 PM | #14 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Tallahassee, FL
Posts: 249
| Sending good vibes ...
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01-26-2014, 08:35 AM | #15 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Barbourville, KY, US
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| My Baby Carter I lost my baby Carter on New Years Day. He had my heart in his tiny paws. He was so tiny and his little body couldn't fight back once he got sick. We did get another baby. He will never replace Carter but that hole in my heart is no longer there. Piper is so special!! We love him so much and our home feels complete once again. I would recommend getting another baby. There is nothing like it. You heart will allow you to love again! |
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