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Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly Take it from someone like you who waited too long between losing a dog and getting another, it's better to have a dog no matter how much you don't feel ready. After two months, the depth of pain usually starts to get better so perhaps a counselor who is proficient at dealing with grief counseling and even a grief group would help you get past the stage you are at. Whether you think you want one or not, a dog would help you to deal with your grief and know the happiness of loving of a puppy once again. |
Agreed. So sorry to hear of the great pain you are still experiencing!! Having said that, it has been only two months. You will never forget Roxee, but I hope that time will heal your broken heart a bit at a time. It's because of you that Roxee was such a wonderful dog. You seem to put your heart and soul into her
Please give some thought to sharing your life with another YT. Yes, it would not be 'mox mox', but you
may just be
surprised how opening your
heart again to another one will help you feel
alive again. You would be giving another one a chance at being in a good and loving home!!!! Do you remember the day you brought Roxee home and how she made you feel warm and fuzzy? This could happen again. Yes, it wouldn't be exactly the same as bringing Roxee home. Just a thought here - perhaps having a male YT sharing your love may be better and not so much of a reminder of Roxee?? Just open your big heart and share your wonderful love with another. I think that Roxee would understand, and would want you to, to be whole again.... and she knows you have much love is left in your!! If she's looking down at you now, in her heart, she would love to see you happy again. All the VERY best!!!!! Big Hugs