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11-26-2012, 06:25 AM | #1 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Pinehurst, NC USA
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| How do you get over the loss... Hi, I posted in the Sick and injured section a few weeks ago about my Hugo who had CHF...well...he died yesterday morning right before we got up. He was laying his bed with my other 2 yorkies. I heard the youngest Harley yelp really loud so I go up and found him dead in his bed. I am so upset with myself, because if I had gotten up only 30 minutes earlier I could have been there with him while he passed. He was still soo warm, so i know that we had just missed his passing. How do you get over this?? I am filled with so much sadness. Hugo was the light of my life and he was the sweetest boy ever. My husband and I have no children and I have not lost anyone close to me yet that would bring this much sadness. I thought I would feel a little better today, but I dont...I feel worse. Yes, I love my other 2 dearly and I am glad to have them here with me, but this sadness is overwhelming. I knew he could not live forever and i knew he could die at anyday and he lived the best life he could have lived. I just miss him dearly When will this feeling ever pass?? Sorry to ramble on...but if there is anyone who would understand how I feel, it would be everyone here. Thanks for listening! |
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11-26-2012, 06:41 AM | #2 |
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| I am sorry for your loss. I know how you feel we lost our Boxer in August. I felt heartbroken. I knew it was time for us to let go but it didn't make it easier. I think time helps heal. Instead of thinking of her laying there as she took her last breath I think about her running around the yard chasing her Boxer friend who would come to visit. I will pray that time will help you and always remember Hugo has left paw prints on your heart. HUGS to you!
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11-26-2012, 06:49 AM | #3 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member | I am so very sorry for your loss. You have to grieve. It takes time. I lost my Moon Shadow last year. I felt the same way. It does get better. Big hugs to you
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11-26-2012, 06:55 AM | #4 | |
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11-26-2012, 07:42 AM | #5 |
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| I am so sorry for your loss. It takes time to heal |
11-26-2012, 07:45 AM | #6 |
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| I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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11-26-2012, 07:52 AM | #7 |
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| I am so sorry for the loss of your dear Hugo. I know and many others on YorkieTalk know what it is like to lose a fur baby . My husband and I lost our little Keally in 2010 and we were so devastated. We always talked about the wonderful memories we had with Keally and we knew she would of wanted us to be happy. We did go on and now we have another love of our life and her name is Kinder. Try to think of the memories and remember Hugo will always be in your heart. He knew you both loved him. R.I.P. Hugo and give my Keally a hug and kiss from Mom and Dad. Hugs to you and hope each day gets better for you and your husband. Susan |
11-26-2012, 09:09 AM | #8 |
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| I am so sorry for your loss of Hugo. I know just how you feel. My husband and I don't have children either so Gracie was a child to us. I know it will take time, but I really don't know how we can stop the over whelming sadness. I will hold your hand in my heart for I know we have a long road to travel.
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11-26-2012, 09:23 AM | #9 |
♥Trained by my pups♥ Donating YT 500 Club Member | I lost my Lexi and that was 1 year and 5 months ago. I also have others that I love dearly. But I miss her everyday. You will settle into life without him but you will miss him all the time. So sorry RIP Hugo
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11-26-2012, 09:30 AM | #10 |
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| I am so sorry... I know it is hard to lose a loved one. Just think of the happy moments what what a great life he lived instead of the last moments. RIP Hugo
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11-26-2012, 09:42 AM | #11 |
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| My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband. I'm sure Hugo was like your child and I know you are hurting so right now. Rest in peace sweet little Hugo. |
11-26-2012, 11:24 AM | #12 |
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| I'm so sorry for your loss and I know just how you feel. It's just like losing a child or a family member. I lost my little boy unexpectedly a month ago. I was so depressed. Nothing made me happy including my 2yo daughter who always makes me smile. It's been hard. I think of him everyday. At first it seemed like I could look in certain spots where he would normally be and I'd think he'd be there. It's very strange. I miss him so much. After a month , it has gotten somewhat better. I still cry everyday though at least once. In time you will feel a little better. I promise. (((Hugs))) |
11-26-2012, 11:43 AM | #13 |
♥Love My 3 Furrbutts♥ Donating Member | I'm so sorry for your loss....I know you will miss him everyday, it will get better. Try and remember the good times, he is in a better place now, running and well with all the others at the Rainbow Bridge....you will meet him there one day. RIP Hugo
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11-26-2012, 06:54 PM | #14 | |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Pinehurst, NC USA
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I feel the same way!!! Everytime I look in the dining room at his bed, all I can see is him lying there dead He also knew when 9:00pm was, on the dot... he would come to me and want to lay in the bed to watch TV. he was soo funny. That is what I will miss the most. Thanks everyone | |
11-26-2012, 07:31 PM | #15 |
YT 2000 Club Member | I have tears reading about precious Hugo. Yorkies are family and we grieve when one of our little ones passes. I work with hospice patients and I will tell you there are times when you are not meant to be there when they pass. So do not feel sad for not being there. I believe the angels come and surround a person and take them home. One never dies alone. Same with our pets. How do you get over this. It takes time. I handed my little Teddy Peanut back to his Creator. Cried. Still miss him. I went out and brought JoJo, a Yorkie puppy home. He will not take Ted's place but he has helped me not grieve so much over Ted. Any loss is hard on us but we press on and know that God is in control He has our lives and our pets lives in His hands. |
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