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08-14-2017, 08:56 AM | #1 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Aug 2017 Location: Elk Grove, CA USA
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| My 4 moth old yorkie is super withdrawn help! My 4 moth old yorkie named Kupcake , whom I have only had her two days. Is extremely shy. she doesn't take to anyone. I try to hold her to make her feel secure and talk softly to her and it doesn't work, she stays in her bed and wont come out. If I wanted to spend time with her she will let me pick her up but she hide her head under my arms. she will not look at me or eat from my hands, she's completely withdrawn. She does not bark or play or run. Her health is fine and she been dewormed and has had her first shots. Her eating is good, but she will only eat and drink when no one is around to see. I don't know what to do to make her feel secure, She was the last puppy from the breeder so she was very attached to her mom. I guess no one wanted her because of her disposition. I love you any way. I just need to know if she will come around and what should I do? My plan is to make her a therapy dog so how can I do that if she is so antisocial ? will this change as she gets older? Kimberley |
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08-14-2017, 09:26 AM | #2 |
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| Two days is not a long time and all this is new for her so she just needs time. Have you found any treats she likes? If you can find some she likes sit on the floor with her a give her a few. Just be patient. It is going to take her some time.
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08-14-2017, 09:36 AM | #3 |
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| Welcome to YT. Poor lil thing, 4 months is a long time to be with her momma and humans, then taken away. She will come around. If it was me, when she's in her bed or on the floor, I would get on the floor also, get a ball and YOU play with it, roll it gently, bounce it lightly, any toy will do, but balls seem to be favorites with most dogs, I wouldn't try any squeaky toys yet due to her shyness, the noise may scare her. Talk softly as you do this, have some treats handy, cheerios is a great treat. When she comes towards you, toss her a little treat, the closer she comes throw another treat. Play or entice her to play with you as much as possible and always have treats handy to reward her. She needs time to adjust to new humans, new home, smells, sounds, schedule that's a lotta adjustments for a wee lil baby, be patient with her, be happy and up beat. As long as she is eating, drinking, peeing and pooping she is fine. She needs time to get to know you, trust you, and bond with you, and time to get use to her new surroundings. Poor little sweetie is missing her momma.
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08-14-2017, 09:36 AM | #4 |
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| Patients! She has just been taken away from all she has known. It will take her awhile to feel safe and comfortable.
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08-14-2017, 09:38 AM | #5 | |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Aug 2017 Location: Elk Grove, CA USA
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Thanks so much! I just want her to be happy, Stay tuned for her progress, I will find some treats and try that | |
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08-14-2017, 09:48 AM | #7 |
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08-14-2017, 10:24 AM | #8 |
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| Make yourself interesting (carry a squeaky toy and squeeze it occasionally, but keep moving)--let her start to focus on you; pretend like you're not totally focused on her. As others have stated, she is a stranger in a strange land and she doesn't yet understand our language or wishes or where she fits. Your love and unending patience, along with compassion and humor will work magic over time, time and more time. Congratulations on your new baby girl; she's lucky to have you! |
08-14-2017, 10:34 AM | #9 | |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Aug 2017 Location: Elk Grove, CA USA
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Thanks I received that advice from a vet a moment ago. pretty much ignore her or pretend to. I know it is hard because she is intimated and unsure, and misses her mommy. I will give her time. I will let this totally be up to her. Thank you I'm excited for our new adventures | |
08-14-2017, 02:01 PM | #10 |
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| Don't worry. My baby Scottie was similar when I brought him home at 5 months. He was super timid and shy. They need time to adjust to their new home and time to get to know you. With lots of love and patience, your puppy will fall loyally in love with you! I highly recommend getting a clicker and start doing basic obedience training at home with some healthy treats! That usually helps to quickly create a bond between you.
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08-14-2017, 02:16 PM | #11 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Aug 2017 Location: Elk Grove, CA USA
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| Thanks everyone for the great advice, I am so glad I joined this forum, I was really worried that she will never love me back. Thanks I feel so much better now! |
08-14-2017, 06:25 PM | #12 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2016 Location: FL
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| I had one like that. When she came around she was the most intuitive, loving dog in the universe. It took a long time though, but well worth the effort. |
08-16-2017, 06:23 PM | #13 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Aug 2017 Location: Elk Grove, CA USA
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| My 4 month yorkie , barely eats or drinks! My yorkie is barely eats and drinks water. I'm worried , all she does is sleep. Is she depressed and miss her mom? Or is she sick? I have only had her 5 days.. |
08-16-2017, 06:38 PM | #14 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2016 Location: FL
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| A vet visit is in order ASAP. For your sanity as well as the puppy's health |
08-16-2017, 08:14 PM | #15 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Aug 2017 Location: Elk Grove, CA USA
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| Ok will do! |
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