Nervous new Yorkie mom

[Graneet]

I appologize if i have misslead anyone that was not what i ment by the post

[Nancy1999]

Originally Posted by Lovetodream88

4 months old is still a puppy and young please be careful suggesting someone get there puppies young because the Yorkshire terrier club of America says puppy's should stay with there moms until 12 weeks which is 3 months. There are also show breeders who will keep some of there puppies until 6 months so they can see if there show potential and then sell them. A good breeder will expose them to new things like that to prepare them for there new home.

I think her post is important because some breeders don't expose them to things and this can lead to an unsocialized puppy, who's afraid of car rides. I don't think she's saying we should get pups too young.

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by Nancy1999

I think her post is important because some breeders don't expose them to things and this can lead to an unsocialized puppy, who's afraid of car rides. I don't think she's saying we should get pups too young.

I wasn't sure, I have heard a few people say before the only way to get and bond with a pup is to get them like at 6 weeks. I don't know what this person thinks but it was sounding to me like she meant you should get them young. She said she got hers at 4 months and she missed all those puppy days so that it what it sounded like to me.

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by Graneet

I did not suggest she get a four month old i was relating to how old people said the puppy would have to be before she could get the puppy threw to theU.S. And it is 16 weeks old by then to. My whole point was if the breeder doesnt condition the puppy to ride before hand it might be to hard on it to travel. My baby was actually 5 months old and has not taken well to travel. Please read the post before accusing me of something.

Originally Posted by Graneet

I need to make a correction i am just not fast enought to catch the edit thing. My boo was not 4 months which is sixteen weeks and some months it would be longer. I got boo at 5 months. Which i would have liked to get him at 12 weeks. Which everyone says is standard. But i was not suggesting she get her puppy then. Actually cautioning her some things to think about before getting the puppy. If she had not already paid.

I'm sorry I guess I need to be spanked for how I interpreted what I read and I'm an evil person.......When you said that you got your puppy at 4 months and missed all those puppy days that made me think you meant the puppy should have been gotten much younger because 4 months is only one month after the 12 week/3 month age a pup should go home. Please try to remember these are words on a screen people can't know how they are said. People will interpret things differently. You took my post as an attack on you and it was definitely not wrote like that at all nor meant like that. I reread my post and I still don't see anything mean or attacking but I am sorry you interpreted that way.

[Graneet]

I would have like to got my pup at 12 weeks actually i got mine at 5 months and i missed my little puppy time. She wont get hers till its 4 or five months old . If the breeder dont take her for rides. The puppy may do like mine does vomits when riding long distance.The difference in her getting a 12 week old puppy and a 16 or 20 week puppy is a big difference in growth and what i call puppy time. Its just sad a person cannot post with out having it torn appart. Or spend a day explainning it. Lets just let it go. As i said before not trying to cause issues.

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by Graneet

I would have like to got my pup at 12 weeks actually i got mine at 5 months and i missed my little puppy time. She wont get hers till its 4 or five months old . If the breeder dont take her for rides. The puppy may do like mine does vomits when riding long distance.The difference in her getting a 12 week old puppy and a 16 or 20 week puppy is a big difference in growth and what i call puppy time. Its just sad a person cannot post with out having it torn appart.

But you did the same thing to me! I didn't even tear you apart. A puppy is still a puppy until a year old. Like I said there are a lot of people who don't get there pups when buying from show breeders until 6 months or even older. A lot of puppies get car sick and grow out of it, throwing up in the car dosen't mean they weren't exposed.

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by Graneet

I would have like to got my pup at 12 weeks actually i got mine at 5 months and i missed my little puppy time. She wont get hers till its 4 or five months old . If the breeder dont take her for rides. The puppy may do like mine does vomits when riding long distance.The difference in her getting a 12 week old puppy and a 16 or 20 week puppy is a big difference in growth and what i call puppy time. Its just sad a person cannot post with out having it torn appart. Or spend a day explainning it. Lets just let it go. As i said before not trying to cause issues.

You were the one who could not let it go....... I shoukd be allowed to defend myself when I didn't even do what you charged me with. Saying your not going to post again causes issues especially when you blame it on me!

[Graneet]

Please just let it go .

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by Graneet

Please just let it go .

No I take it very seriously when someone wants to blame me for something I didn't do!

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by Graneet

Please just let it go .

My feelings are very hurt.

[Graneet]

Im sorry your feelings are hurt. Think because im recouperating from major surgery i am a little more sensitive.
Its hard to hold the i pad up and type so i tend to rush threw my post. Hince the confusion. I think things could have been handled differently all the way around. So for now lets just move on and let it go. People dont come here to hear us fuss.

I appologize nervous mom for doing this on your post. I hope you can get your baby. And be happy. I lost a doxie after seventeen years and know how hard it is to loose your fur baby.

[Nancy1999]

Originally Posted by Lovetodream88

I'm sorry I guess I need to be spanked for how I interpreted what I read and I'm an evil person.......When you said that you got your puppy at 4 months and missed all those puppy days that made me think you meant the puppy should have been gotten much younger because 4 months is only one month after the 12 week/3 month age a pup should go home. Please try to remember these are words on a screen people can't know how they are said. People will interpret things differently. You took my post as an attack on you and it was definitely not wrote like that at all nor meant like that. I reread my post and I still don't see anything mean or attacking but I am sorry you interpreted that way.

Originally Posted by Lovetodream88

You were the one who could not let it go....... I shoukd be allowed to defend myself when I didn't even do what you charged me with. Saying your not going to post again causes issues especially when you blame it on me!

Taylor, she never blamed you, I read this thread and could see the conflict between you and her. She made a few mistakes with her words and then got confused in the editing process and doesn't like conflict and felt like she probably shouldn't post anymore. I see you as someone who does a great job of teaching others, but sometimes you get overzealous in spreading the word. She's allowed to wish she had gotten the pups earlier, as I said before, unless you are going to a great breeder who is educated in the breed and socializes them, waiting doesn't do a bit of good.

Taylor sometimes you feel attacked when someone is just trying to share their view, nobody is saying that you are wrong for what you are saying, but someone can have another viewpoint and that's okay too. That's how we learn from each other. I don't want to ever hurt your feelings, I'm so happy that you show such a love and passion for this breed and you are very brave in sharing your message, but we have to remember that others have feelings as well. If you were in person with this person would you respond that way? Saying things like, "I'm sorry I guess I need to be spanked for how I interpreted what I read and I'm an evil person." When you say things like that, it just sets the argument off to a much high level and very little understanding can be reached. Maybe you think I'm wrong for telling you how to post, and maybe you are right about that, but I felt I needed to speak up because Graneet never said that YOU were causing any problem she just spoke of some people in general. I wish you could read some of your posts as if someone wrote them to you, and see if you think you come off as a little harsh and judgmental? Please don't take what I'm saying so seriously that you get sad, I just really care about you and think your such an asset to YT, but I really believe you can do better.

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by Graneet

Im sorry your feelings are hurt. Think because im recouperating from major surgery i am a little more sensitive.
Its hard to hold the i pad up and type so i tend to rush threw my post. Hince the confusion. I think things could have been handled differently all the way around. So for now lets just move on and let it go. People dont come here to hear us fuss.

I appologize nervous mom for doing this on your post. I hope you can get your baby. And be happy. I lost a doxie after seventeen years and know how hard it is to loose your fur baby.

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[magicgenie]

Originally Posted by Lovetodream88

But you did the same thing to me! I didn't even tear you apart. A puppy is still a puppy until a year old. Like I said there are a lot of people who don't get there pups when buying from show breeders until 6 months or even older. A lot of puppies get car sick and grow out of it, throwing up in the car dosen't mean they weren't exposed.

Totally agree with what you said here.

[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by Nancy1999

Taylor, she never blamed you, I read this thread and could see the conflict between you and her. She made a few mistakes with her words and then got confused in the editing process and doesn't like conflict and felt like she probably shouldn't post anymore. I see you as someone who does a great job of teaching others, but sometimes you get overzealous in spreading the word. She's allowed to wish she had gotten the pups earlier, as I said before, unless you are going to a great breeder who is educated in the breed and socializes them, waiting doesn't do a bit of good.

Taylor sometimes you feel attacked when someone is just trying to share their view, nobody is saying that you are wrong for what you are saying, but someone can have another viewpoint and that's okay too. That's how we learn from each other. I don't want to ever hurt your feelings, I'm so happy that you show such a love and passion for this breed and you are very brave in sharing your message, but we have to remember that others have feelings as well. If you were in person with this person would you respond that way? Saying things like, "I'm sorry I guess I need to be spanked for how I interpreted what I read and I'm an evil person." When you say things like that, it just sets the argument off to a much high level and very little understanding can be reached. Maybe you think I'm wrong for telling you how to post, and maybe you are right about that, but I felt I needed to speak up because Graneet never said that YOU were causing any problem she just spoke of some people in general. I wish you could read some of your posts as if someone wrote them to you, and see if you think you come off as a little harsh and judgmental? Please don't take what I'm saying so seriously that you get sad, I just really care about you and think your such an asset to YT, but I really believe you can do better.

My first response never had a darn thing bad in it yet I get called out and in trouble for that? I felt I was being unfairly treated for something I hadn't done because nothing was wrong in my original post I reread it many many times. I was worried it sounded like she was saying to get your puppies very early and someone could have read that as it's ok and you should get a pup before 12 weeks. I shouldn't be called out in two different posts because of how I interpreted it or because she felt bad or mad or whatever because she said something that made me interpret it away it was not meant. It happens all the time and most people just say I'm sorry I mean this and move on. The other posts she was referring to was also one I was posting in and I was one of the people who disagreed with her. People disagree on the board a lot. It it should not be where someone is scared to disagree with a member or person because they will pull the I'm just not going to post here anymore card and that's not fair to someone who hasn't done anything. Yes my defensive post was a little jerky but that's what happens when I get defensive and feel like I'm being jumped on.