[Lovetodream88]

Originally Posted by Nancy1999

Taylor, she never blamed you, I read this thread and could see the conflict between you and her. She made a few mistakes with her words and then got confused in the editing process and doesn't like conflict and felt like she probably shouldn't post anymore. I see you as someone who does a great job of teaching others, but sometimes you get overzealous in spreading the word. She's allowed to wish she had gotten the pups earlier, as I said before, unless you are going to a great breeder who is educated in the breed and socializes them, waiting doesn't do a bit of good.

Taylor sometimes you feel attacked when someone is just trying to share their view, nobody is saying that you are wrong for what you are saying, but someone can have another viewpoint and that's okay too. That's how we learn from each other. I don't want to ever hurt your feelings, I'm so happy that you show such a love and passion for this breed and you are very brave in sharing your message, but we have to remember that others have feelings as well. If you were in person with this person would you respond that way? Saying things like, "I'm sorry I guess I need to be spanked for how I interpreted what I read and I'm an evil person." When you say things like that, it just sets the argument off to a much high level and very little understanding can be reached. Maybe you think I'm wrong for telling you how to post, and maybe you are right about that, but I felt I needed to speak up because Graneet never said that YOU were causing any problem she just spoke of some people in general. I wish you could read some of your posts as if someone wrote them to you, and see if you think you come off as a little harsh and judgmental? Please don't take what I'm saying so seriously that you get sad, I just really care about you and think your such an asset to YT, but I really believe you can do better.

My first response never had a darn thing bad in it yet I get called out and in trouble for that? I felt I was being unfairly treated for something I hadn't done because nothing was wrong in my original post I reread it many many times. I was worried it sounded like she was saying to get your puppies very early and someone could have read that as it's ok and you should get a pup before 12 weeks. I shouldn't be called out in two different posts because of how I interpreted it or because she felt bad or mad or whatever because she said something that made me interpret it away it was not meant. It happens all the time and most people just say I'm sorry I mean this and move on. The other posts she was referring to was also one I was posting in and I was one of the people who disagreed with her. People disagree on the board a lot. It it should not be where someone is scared to disagree with a member or person because they will pull the I'm just not going to post here anymore card and that's not fair to someone who hasn't done anything. Yes my defensive post was a little jerky but that's what happens when I get defensive and feel like I'm being jumped on.