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12-28-2013, 06:00 AM | #1 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Short Hills, NJ, USA
Posts: 4
| Our Story Truffle turned 9 in July. Absolutely beloved member of the family. Slept in bed next to me, did everything with us, truly our child (to go with our 8 year old boy Jeremy). She had her annual checkup 1 week ago (Dr Stack, Milburn Veterinary Hospital), got her shots, told clean bill of health, come back in a year. Truffle passed away on the 24th. My wife and I were vacationing in Napa, Truffle and Jeremy stayed with my wife's mom. When we left, other than her being sad, Truffle seemed to be perfectly fine. My mother-in-law, who loved Truffle like she was her own, says she noticed some weird panting a day or two into her stay, and an increased desire to be picked up/held, but otherwise, nothing unusual, still eating well, etc. Tuesday morning, early, she was apparently in a bit more distress. Jeremy picked her up to put her on the couch, went to get her a treat, and when he returned, he found her unconscious on the floor. My mother in law ran over, they rushed to an emergency hospital, who said she had passed, and could find no immediate cause of death, no trauma, said likely an anaryism or the like. Im a mess. Im blaming myself, if I had been here, would have noticed something was wrong, taken her to the vet immediately, etc. I keep trying to comfort myself and say what the vet said, that it was some sort of health "event", that these things happen, that it was likely inevitable and at least she didn't suffer long and went fast. I miss her tremendously, cannot believe that she passed at the end without me being there to hold her, and continue to have a really hard time. I see her everywhere, think of her anytime I go anywhere in the house where she is supposed to be and isn't. I miss my little buddy and best friend (I work from home, so Truffle was my constant companion when I was alone in the house). We are going Sunday to look at a new puppy, at Wingold Yorkies in Westfield. He has one available, 5 month old boy, he says wonderful and ready to go home. Family is excited, thinks we need to do this, fill the void, continue to welcome the warmth and love of a dog into the house. I don't disagree, but still mourn my Truffle, cant believe she is gone. Sorry for rambling. Figured if anyone could understand, it was here. All the best. |
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12-28-2013, 07:28 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: with my yorkie
Posts: 1,690
| Hello and welcome to YT. I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved Truffle. Your love for her shines through in your post. It is so hard to lose a much loved pet and I am glad you found us here at YT because we do understand how you feel. Our yorkies, all our pets, are beloved family members. Please don't blame yourself, sometimes these things happen and a full explanation can't be found. Please be kind to yourself and know that we are here for you. I hope the new addition to your family can help you all to heal and come to terms with the loss of Truffle. Best wishes to you and your family. RIP Truffle. |
12-28-2013, 08:33 AM | #3 |
YT 2000 Club Member | I am so sorry for you loss and I totally understand how you feel. The loss never goes away, but filling the void with a new puppy will help heal the pain. A memorial and pictures have always helped me. Hugs to you and your family!
__________________ Proud Mommy to Max, Teeka, Tatiana and forever in my heart Tameka! My sunshine doesn't come from the skies, it comes from my puppies eyes! |
12-28-2013, 08:54 AM | #4 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: North Ridgeville, Oh. US
Posts: 1,396
| My heart breaks for you.
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12-28-2013, 09:03 AM | #5 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Maui, Hawaii
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| I am so sorry for your loss. Our pups are like our children, and it is devastating to lose one. I lost my mini Schnauzer at the age of 8 in the same mysterious manner. She was panting in the middle of the night, but we all went back to sleep. In the morning I found her dead on the floor. So sad. I too immediately started looking for another pup, and I was able to get my first Yorkie Tiki about a month later. I am so happy that you are opening up your hearts and your home to puppy love again, and wish you much joy and many years of happiness.
__________________ SANDY, MOM TO TIKI , KAYLA , KARLEE , R.I.P. MEIKA |
12-28-2013, 09:22 AM | #6 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: montana
Posts: 2,945
| I am so sorry for your loss// they do leave pawprints on your heart |
12-28-2013, 09:47 AM | #7 |
♥Love My Snuggle Bugs♥ Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Missouri
Posts: 4,290
| So sorry for you loss. RIP little one. Welcome to YT to you and your new puppy, wish it could of been a happier time for you.
__________________ CharleneMama to Laddy and Kyra and Always in our hearts Lolita |
12-28-2013, 12:11 PM | #8 |
YT Addict Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: Coastal, Virginia, US
Posts: 261
| I'm so sorry that you've lost your sweet Truffle. We pet lovers truly understand the ache and sadness. This little pup that is available might need you as much as you need him--and sharing your loving home with a new companion would be like a testament to the wonderful life you enjoyed with her. Our thoughts are with you as you grieve and we hope that your new pup brings new joy to your family.
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12-28-2013, 12:24 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Long Island, New York
Posts: 5,891
| I am deeply sorry for your loss. We understand how much it hurts and care. Nothing but time can ease the pain, but there will come a time that your memories of Truffle will bring more joy than pain. Opening up your hearts to a new puppy is a nice way to honor your love for Trufle.
__________________ Lisa and Katie Ashley 6/10, Gracie 2/04, Kiwi 10/03, and Jolie 7/93 . |
12-28-2013, 05:47 PM | #10 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: Lake Charles, Louisiana
Posts: 226
| I'm so sorry for your loss. They do have a way of getting deep into your heart. I hope a new pup will help heal your heart. |
12-28-2013, 07:20 PM | #11 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada
Posts: 14
| Oh I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Your love for Truffle is very obvious in your writing... I hope this new little pup helps you to heal. Rest in peace little one.
__________________ Jillian & Maxwell & Ruby |
12-28-2013, 10:29 PM | #12 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Oregon
Posts: 2,721
| Well said, the love shines through in your words. I am so sorry for your loss. Looking forward to sharing your experience with your new little guy here on yt.
__________________ Alyssa and Lilah |
12-29-2013, 06:29 AM | #13 |
YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: NY
Posts: 6,582
| Such a sad story. It is perfectly normal to be grieving for your little girl. It certainly was a terrible shock and loss for you. If you are not ready for a new dog in the house then let the family know. There will always be more Yorkies out there. I don't really understand your vets explanation. Obviously she died of some physical event but I would not call that normal. She was obviously ill since she was panting and giving warning signs. I can't imagine the stress you are under because you were not there with her and don't know what happened. All you can do is remember the good years you had with her and take comfort in the fact that you gave her a good life. There is nothing else you can do. Grieve and when your mind tries to move to her last days don't go there. Think back to her good days. Where ever these little ones go when they move on she is there with happy thoughts about you and her life with you so don't blame yourself or let guilt beat you up. |
12-29-2013, 04:38 PM | #15 |
and Shelby's too Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Millbrook, AL
Posts: 7,842
| I, too, am so sorry for your loss. Most of us here have felt this deep pain from losing one of our babies. We definitely know what you are going through. I think the timing of getting another pup is individual. It took me 2 years before I could even think of getting another when my Jasmine died. However, it seems like getting one now may be therapeutic for you and your family. Prayers for your heart to heal and that you find that just right puppy to help. Truffle will always be with you...those menories are yours forever. Hang onto them.
__________________ Terri, proud mom to Mandie & Shelby-Dale |
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