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kikil · 06-20-2012, 02:44 PM

lot of different onces. I don't remember the name of the treat or toy right of hand either. we just use what she like more often if we have them around.

yorkietalkjilly · 06-20-2012, 03:14 PM

That was the problem. You needed to use some warm chicken, piece of hot dog, sausage, cheese or something so alluring it would bring her out from under that bed. And if you are patient, eventually she will come out unless she is very afraid or uncertain of what will happen to her if she does. But you can't lure her out from another room - you have to be right there to wave that high-value treat within her close range of smell. It will make her hungry for it.

Another thing you can try when she hides from you is to get your husband or a child to get some of her balls, squeaky toys & start playing with them & having fun in another room, laughing & letting her hear all the fun she is missing.

You mentioned you had been yelling or shouting so she was probably scared & just hiding due to some uncertain feelings, frank fear or asserting her leadership role, which she's been taking from you - plus, she wanted to visit with your parents. Just follow the good instructions you've found here on YT or in the books you have read to the letter & have loads of patience. Nothing else will work but good training of her to respond to your commands.

Best of luck with her.

kikil · 06-20-2012, 04:54 PM

we was using her toys to get her out. mom was saying her name and mom would say go find ur mom she got ur bear or ur toys. but that didn't work. and we have use chesse or chicken with her. I don't think that she was scared. I just think she didn't want to be put up in her bed/pen. we just don't want her to be free at night when we sleep thats all. there are no kids in this house or husband just me and my parents. and Fancy is the baby of the house.

gracielove · 06-20-2012, 11:51 PM

You might start putting her treat in her pen so that going into the pen is less of a punishment to her. That way she will not think of the pen as a punishment but as something to look forward to instead. You need to just quietly walk up to her, pick her up and put her in. Don't call her. Don't let her know it is bed time. Just pick her up and put her in with a treat already waiting for her inside the pen. Eventually she will start wanting to go in. Be patient and kind. Don't raise your voice or sound upset. Make sure her treat is something she really likes. Something like chicken or cheese. Getting upset is only going to make matters worse.

kikil · 06-21-2012, 12:26 PM

lot of the time she go in her bed on her own too. just sometime at night when she out running around and we want her in her bed thats when she don't want to. I think she not done running around or just want to see how far she can get away with things.

gracielove · 06-21-2012, 01:37 PM

As far as I can tell you have not considered a bit of any of the advise people have given you. I don't know what else to say.

kikil · 06-21-2012, 06:18 PM

why do u think I haven't considered a bit of any of the advise that other people have giving me. I am just telling that it didn't work when I did try it that way thats all. but I could do it again it could have been a bad day for and that maybe why some of it didn't work or the way I am doing. but then again other people have tryed and she wont listen to them so now what.

yorkietalkjilly · 06-21-2012, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by kikil

we was using her toys to get her out. mom was saying her name and mom would say go find ur mom she got ur bear or ur toys. but that didn't work. and we have use chesse or chicken with her. I don't think that she was scared. I just think she didn't want to be put up in her bed/pen. we just don't want her to be free at night when we sleep thats all. there are no kids in this house or husband just me and my parents. and Fancy is the baby of the house.

Trying to help here so be specific with your answer: Where were you and under what circumstances did you use the chicken or cheese treats as rewards? Without real specifics & with the problems you have with her, general or guesses won't help. Need to know exact circumstances.

yorkietalkjilly · 06-21-2012, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by kikil

she is normal and healthy nothing wrong with her. we have a yorkie book I just don't know the name of it right off hand. and I know how to do the puppy classes at petsmart thats where we had 2 of the same class. and I have try to tell her I am the boss not her but that just don't work.

Another answer needed: What book or books about actual training of dogs have you read. Not just a book about the Yorkie dog in general but an actual training book that goes into what you are trying to achieve in the dog's mind with the training about to be taught in that book or books. And when I say "read", I mean read or listened to on audio. I actually need to know whose training instruction(s) you are using.

kikil · 06-21-2012, 07:26 PM

I was in my room and all we said that mom is in our room and mom has something for u. we didn't want to say what I had at the time just to see if she would come out to see what I had. but she never did. so we just let it go and just went back to watching tv. and we didn't pay any mind to her. after she come in our room ( thats what we call my room since she sleep in here.) she went to the bed/pen on her own. but other time when we do call her we do say what we have sometime. but that don't work. but after a while we just give up and go pick her up if she not hiding but in day time she don't really hide on me when we try to get her come into the kitchen.

kikil · 06-21-2012, 07:30 PM

all I know the book is yorkie what I got at petsmart. and last month my aunt got a megs just about yorkie. and the trainer we used was at petsmart. we took the same class 2time. and she couldn't get her to stop the bitting and she was going to ask other trainer she knew and emailed me but I never gotting anything from her and thats been over a month now. in class she would listen some but not much.

yorkietalkjilly · 06-21-2012, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by kikil

I was in my room and all we said that mom is in our room and mom has something for u. we didn't want to say what I had at the time just to see if she would come out to see what I had. but she never did. so we just let it go and just went back to watching tv. and we didn't pay any mind to her. after she come in our room ( thats what we call my room since she sleep in here.) she went to the bed/pen on her own. but other time when we do call her we do say what we have sometime. but that don't work. but after a while we just give up and go pick her up if she not hiding but in day time she don't really hide on me when we try to get her come into the kitchen.

Okay, so you have the food treats calling from another room from where she was at the time. Where was she each time described above?

yorkietalkjilly · 06-21-2012, 07:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kikil

all I know the book is yorkie what I got at petsmart. and last month my aunt got a megs just about yorkie. and the trainer we used was at petsmart. we took the same class 2time. and she couldn't get her to stop the bitting and she was going to ask other trainer she knew and emailed me but I never gotting anything from her and thats been over a month now. in class she would listen some but not much.

Can you give me the title & trainer's name?

kikil · 06-21-2012, 07:34 PM

we have read something online about yorkie too. but lot of time u read one thing about then and then the next u find something else said don't do this. so u never know what to believe or not to.

kikil · 06-21-2012, 07:36 PM

she was in the next room under the bed that night. but lot of time she not that far from or we are in the same room when I do try and call here. not that often we use other room to call her. only to see where she at but we don't make her come in the room since we know she don't like the kitchen any more. if we really want her in that room we just go pick her up if she don't come in. since she don't like the nose in that room any more and too the floor is to slipper for her at time too.

06-20-2012, 03:14 PM	#32
yorkietalkjilly ♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas Posts: 22,140	That was the problem. You needed to use some warm chicken, piece of hot dog, sausage, cheese or something so alluring it would bring her out from under that bed. And if you are patient, eventually she will come out unless she is very afraid or uncertain of what will happen to her if she does. But you can't lure her out from another room - you have to be right there to wave that high-value treat within her close range of smell. It will make her hungry for it. Another thing you can try when she hides from you is to get your husband or a child to get some of her balls, squeaky toys & start playing with them & having fun in another room, laughing & letting her hear all the fun she is missing. You mentioned you had been yelling or shouting so she was probably scared & just hiding due to some uncertain feelings, frank fear or asserting her leadership role, which she's been taking from you - plus, she wanted to visit with your parents. Just follow the good instructions you've found here on YT or in the books you have read to the letter & have loads of patience. Nothing else will work but good training of her to respond to your commands. Best of luck with her. __________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis

06-20-2012, 02:44 PM	#31
kikil YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Illinois Posts: 567	lot of different onces. I don't remember the name of the treat or toy right of hand either. we just use what she like more often if we have them around.

06-20-2012, 04:54 PM	#33
kikil YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Illinois Posts: 567	we was using her toys to get her out. mom was saying her name and mom would say go find ur mom she got ur bear or ur toys. but that didn't work. and we have use chesse or chicken with her. I don't think that she was scared. I just think she didn't want to be put up in her bed/pen. we just don't want her to be free at night when we sleep thats all. there are no kids in this house or husband just me and my parents. and Fancy is the baby of the house.

06-20-2012, 11:51 PM	#34
gracielove YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: NY Posts: 6,582	You might start putting her treat in her pen so that going into the pen is less of a punishment to her. That way she will not think of the pen as a punishment but as something to look forward to instead. You need to just quietly walk up to her, pick her up and put her in. Don't call her. Don't let her know it is bed time. Just pick her up and put her in with a treat already waiting for her inside the pen. Eventually she will start wanting to go in. Be patient and kind. Don't raise your voice or sound upset. Make sure her treat is something she really likes. Something like chicken or cheese. Getting upset is only going to make matters worse.

06-21-2012, 12:26 PM	#35
kikil YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Illinois Posts: 567	lot of the time she go in her bed on her own too. just sometime at night when she out running around and we want her in her bed thats when she don't want to. I think she not done running around or just want to see how far she can get away with things.

06-21-2012, 01:37 PM	#36
gracielove YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: NY Posts: 6,582	As far as I can tell you have not considered a bit of any of the advise people have given you. I don't know what else to say.

06-21-2012, 06:18 PM	#37
kikil YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Illinois Posts: 567	why do u think I haven't considered a bit of any of the advise that other people have giving me. I am just telling that it didn't work when I did try it that way thats all. but I could do it again it could have been a bad day for and that maybe why some of it didn't work or the way I am doing. but then again other people have tryed and she wont listen to them so now what.

06-21-2012, 07:26 PM	#40
kikil YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Illinois Posts: 567	I was in my room and all we said that mom is in our room and mom has something for u. we didn't want to say what I had at the time just to see if she would come out to see what I had. but she never did. so we just let it go and just went back to watching tv. and we didn't pay any mind to her. after she come in our room ( thats what we call my room since she sleep in here.) she went to the bed/pen on her own. but other time when we do call her we do say what we have sometime. but that don't work. but after a while we just give up and go pick her up if she not hiding but in day time she don't really hide on me when we try to get her come into the kitchen.

06-21-2012, 07:30 PM	#41
kikil YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Illinois Posts: 567	all I know the book is yorkie what I got at petsmart. and last month my aunt got a megs just about yorkie. and the trainer we used was at petsmart. we took the same class 2time. and she couldn't get her to stop the bitting and she was going to ask other trainer she knew and emailed me but I never gotting anything from her and thats been over a month now. in class she would listen some but not much.

06-21-2012, 07:34 PM	#44
kikil YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Illinois Posts: 567	we have read something online about yorkie too. but lot of time u read one thing about then and then the next u find something else said don't do this. so u never know what to believe or not to.

06-21-2012, 07:36 PM	#45
kikil YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Illinois Posts: 567	she was in the next room under the bed that night. but lot of time she not that far from or we are in the same room when I do try and call here. not that often we use other room to call her. only to see where she at but we don't make her come in the room since we know she don't like the kitchen any more. if we really want her in that room we just go pick her up if she don't come in. since she don't like the nose in that room any more and too the floor is to slipper for her at time too.