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R_Z · 03-07-2012, 04:26 PM

I would think it's who picks you. Sounds like the little boy has done just that. It's a tough decision for sure. We've only had boys so I can't speak for girls.

Good luck.

Stacey8221 · 03-07-2012, 04:31 PM

I do need to add that the girl also picked us. There were 5 puppies total and 3 of the puppies were scared of us and never came to see us one time out of the whole 40 minutes we were there and these 2 came to us everytime we walked up to the play yard. The boy did it the most because sometimes the little girl was busy running around or trying to play with the other 3 lol!

BLowry · 03-07-2012, 04:39 PM

Tough decision is right! they are BOTH so stinkin adorable!!! As everyone said here I wouldn't be too concerned about the watery eyes...all 3 of mine can get watery eyes,..could be hair in the eyes,...like some have said....Although they are both adorable...I love the little males face!...and like others have said...a soft cotton coat can mean lots of work...let the puppy pick you!

Sweet Girls · 03-07-2012, 05:10 PM

Ok, they are both super cute...but its not looks that will matter when it comes to being a good pet...its personality. When I went to pick my puppy, I let my breeder pick the right one for me. She knew their personalities better than I could judge, and she is a professional...I told her about my lifestyle, my experience, what I wanted/expected my lifestyle to be like and she picked the best puppy for me. For me, that's one of the reasons to search for a good breeder...she should be matching the puppy to you and your family. Can't really expect an 8 week old to make that kind of decision

That's my 2 cents. Good luck with your decision.

Jacksmom052709 · 03-07-2012, 09:14 PM

Looking at the second set of pictures you posted - how can you look at that little boy and not fall in love with that face?!? He is saying, "Please take me and make your home my forever home...." I have had both female and male dogs. In my experience, the female, though she was a loving dog, was loving when she wanted to be. All of my males have been loving regardless. As far as marking, if you have him neutered before he starts marking, he won't or shouldn't mark - again, the belly bands are great! As far as the little boys coat, I would think that you would probably want to keep him in a shorter style so the matting shouldn't be too much of a problem. And it sounds like he has the sweeter personality and a better fit with your daughter. Good luck! I would hate to be in your shoes...

Stacey8221 · 03-07-2012, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Jacksmom052709

Looking at the second set of pictures you posted - how can you look at that little boy and not fall in love with that face?!? He is saying, "Please take me and make your home my forever home...." I have had both female and male dogs. In my experience, the female, though she was a loving dog, was loving when she wanted to be. All of my males have been loving regardless. As far as marking, if you have him neutered before he starts marking, he won't or shouldn't mark - again, the belly bands are great! As far as the little boys coat, I would think that you would probably want to keep him in a shorter style so the matting shouldn't be too much of a problem. And it sounds like he has the sweeter personality and a better fit with your daughter. Good luck! I would hate to be in your shoes...

I know right?!? I told my husband that if we DID choose the girl it would probably break my heart to walk away from that little boy and those puppy dog eyes.

Every single time I think I have made up my mind I end up reading/thinking about something else and go back to having no clue. An hour ago for about 5 minutes I was set on getting the girl, and now I am thinking the boy again.
The only thing I can think to do is spend MORE gas money and drive the 6 hours there and back to see them one more time. I just worry that they boy will be bought (right now I have a deposit on the girl) and then I will always wonder if I should of switched my deposit to him.

POOKY · 03-08-2012, 09:38 AM

They are all cute, I would go for the boy who followed you around.. instinct. Plus my boy bonded with me, which is why I chose a boy instead of a girl. He loves my husband, but my hubby says he's considered chopped liver once I'm in the house. :-)

chachi · 03-08-2012, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Stacey8221

I know right?!? I told my husband that if we DID choose the girl it would probably break my heart to walk away from that little boy and those puppy dog eyes.

Every single time I think I have made up my mind I end up reading/thinking about something else and go back to having no clue. An hour ago for about 5 minutes I was set on getting the girl, and now I am thinking the boy again.
The only thing I can think to do is spend MORE gas money and drive the 6 hours there and back to see them one more time. I just worry that they boy will be bought (right now I have a deposit on the girl) and then I will always wonder if I should of switched my deposit to him.

I would go see them again and make your decision. Your going to have the yorkie a long time so its important to pick the one you want. A yr from now the extra money you spent in gas to see them again wont even be given a thought

Stacey8221 · 03-08-2012, 10:31 AM

Thank you all so much for all of your advice!! You have all given me a lot to think about! I am going to email the breeder today and set up another meeting with the puppies! Everyone cross your fingers that the boy will still be available when I get to go see them! I'm so afraid someone will buy him!

Carmeow · 03-08-2012, 10:35 AM

Seems to me like you really don't want that boy to be bought...hmm. Maybe that should tell you something?

navillusc · 03-08-2012, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Stacey8221

...can I really base it off of a 30-40 minute visit?...

Yes...you can!

A bond can be instantaneous and last a lifetime. If you cannot get both...and who wouldn't want both of those cutie pies

...I'd go with the one who wants to be yours.

I 'knew' 14-month-old Brody was 'mine' the instant I saw printed words on a sheet of paper...not even a photo or personal visit, and 'knew' 17-month-old Mia was mine when I saw her photo online.

When looking for a companion for Brody, out of hundreds of dogs, there were 2 others I 'knew' belonged with me...one, a Parti-Yorkie, was in a shelter too far away, the other, a Malti-Yorkie, was a case of only email allowed to contact the shelter...they never replied to me, and he was adopted by the next day, but would have been at a local pet store in 2 more days where I would have taken him home. I still consider these two little guys "mine" which is why I keep their photos !

I have had lots of male dogs of several breeds and mixes and never had one mark inside my house, not even the unaltered males. Both males and females can be affectionate, devoted, etc...it depends on the puppy itself. If you are concerned about the coat, check the color reflected by the eyes...red is a caution flag as it indicates a cotton coat, but if that's the puppy that wants you most, maybe coat ceases to be an issue, same as puppy biting, teary eyes, wide-set or floppy ears, incorrect coat color, size, or whatever 'faults' they may have.

So, yes, yes, yes...please do not feel bad about choosing the pup who so obviously chooses you!

Good luck...I am sure you will figure it all out and take home your 'real' fur baby.

Stacey8221 · 03-08-2012, 11:08 AM

What do you mean by "color reflected by the eyes"?

navillusc · 03-08-2012, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Stacey8221

What do you mean by "color reflected by the eyes"?

Shine a light in the eye (may need a dark place or camera flash) and look at the color. Gold-green-blue = silky coat, red=cottony coat.

See the image of Yoda at the top of each YT page?

http://www.yorkielane.com/Health/eyes.htm

lillymae · 03-08-2012, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Stacey8221

Thank you SO much for all of your replies! I really wish getting both was an option but unfortunately it isn't.

Believe me that's exactly what I would do lol! Every time I started swaying my decision more towards the girl I swear I would look over at the boy who was giving me puppy dog eyes and wanting me to hold him.
I do keep wondering if the boy would be the better decision now as far as the biting/rough housing goes BUT can I really base it off of a 30-40 minute visit? I keep thinking the girl could of just been wide awake and ready to play while the boy could've just been tired from playing BEFORE we got there. I dunno! I seriously don't think I will make a decision. I really want to go see them again but they are 3 hours away so it's not so simple. Especially with gas prices the way they are right now. I know that soon the other puppies will all be chosen by other ppl so that is the only thing driving me crazy! If I had all the time in the world to make my choice it would be MUCH easier!
I am glad to see that most of you wouldn't worry about the eyes watering! I am hoping that if we do choose the girl I can keep it under control.
I hadn't thought of the fluffy fur being a problem but that has made me think as well. I am not 100% sure that they will have different coats but I do think the girl felt softer than the boy. I also noticed that the girl already has brown hair on the very top of her head and the boy is still black so she will probably be much lighter.
Here are a few more pictures, I would love for the opinions to keep coming!!
Here is a boy, he does seem to look more wirey here and not so fluffy and cute.
boy2 | Flickr - Photo Sharing!

Side by side girl on the left, boy on the right
side by side | Flickr - Photo Sharing!

Girl
girl | Flickr - Photo Sharing!

Not the best pic but you can see all the cute white hair the boy has here
boywhite | Flickr - Photo Sharing!

Based on these pics I say the boy. The 1st pic the close up , he has the most endearing eyes & reminds me of my boy who is just the sweetest thing in the whole world.

Ringo1 · 03-08-2012, 02:29 PM

Going strictly on looks alone (cause I didn't meet them); I'm partial to the little girl.

But then I have a female yorkie so maybe I am biased!

Both are so adorable I don't think you can go wrong.

03-07-2012, 04:39 PM	#33
BLowry My furkids Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 4,625 Blog Entries: 1	Tough decision is right! they are BOTH so stinkin adorable!!! As everyone said here I wouldn't be too concerned about the watery eyes...all 3 of mine can get watery eyes,..could be hair in the eyes,...like some have said....Although they are both adorable...I love the little males face!...and like others have said...a soft cotton coat can mean lots of work...let the puppy pick you! __________________ Brenda

03-07-2012, 09:14 PM	#35
Jacksmom052709 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Ohio Posts: 3,044	Looking at the second set of pictures you posted - how can you look at that little boy and not fall in love with that face?!? He is saying, "Please take me and make your home my forever home...." I have had both female and male dogs. In my experience, the female, though she was a loving dog, was loving when she wanted to be. All of my males have been loving regardless. As far as marking, if you have him neutered before he starts marking, he won't or shouldn't mark - again, the belly bands are great! As far as the little boys coat, I would think that you would probably want to keep him in a shorter style so the matting shouldn't be too much of a problem. And it sounds like he has the sweeter personality and a better fit with your daughter. Good luck! I would hate to be in your shoes... __________________ ~Lori ~ Mom to fur babies Jack, Izzy & Jada & their kitty siblings, Mr. Poops, Milo, Pearl & barn kitty Nanny.

03-08-2012, 10:35 AM	#40
Carmeow I♥ my girls Luma+Rosie Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Aggieland, TX Posts: 3,359	Seems to me like you really don't want that boy to be bought...hmm. Maybe that should tell you something? __________________ Carmen, mama to Luma & my little angel in Heaven, Rosie.

03-08-2012, 02:29 PM	#45
Ringo1 Ringo (1) and Lucy too! Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: On the Edge of Glory Posts: 3,447	Going strictly on looks alone (cause I didn't meet them); I'm partial to the little girl. But then I have a female yorkie so maybe I am biased! Both are so adorable I don't think you can go wrong. __________________ Mommy to Lucy, Ringo, and Matthew

03-07-2012, 04:26 PM	#31
R_Z Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Memphis, TN USA Posts: 1,078	I would think it's who picks you. Sounds like the little boy has done just that. It's a tough decision for sure. We've only had boys so I can't speak for girls. Good luck.

03-07-2012, 04:31 PM	#32
Stacey8221 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Henderson Posts: 189	I do need to add that the girl also picked us. There were 5 puppies total and 3 of the puppies were scared of us and never came to see us one time out of the whole 40 minutes we were there and these 2 came to us everytime we walked up to the play yard. The boy did it the most because sometimes the little girl was busy running around or trying to play with the other 3 lol!

03-07-2012, 05:10 PM	#34
Sweet Girls YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Ontario Posts: 273	Ok, they are both super cute...but its not looks that will matter when it comes to being a good pet...its personality. When I went to pick my puppy, I let my breeder pick the right one for me. She knew their personalities better than I could judge, and she is a professional...I told her about my lifestyle, my experience, what I wanted/expected my lifestyle to be like and she picked the best puppy for me. For me, that's one of the reasons to search for a good breeder...she should be matching the puppy to you and your family. Can't really expect an 8 week old to make that kind of decision That's my 2 cents. Good luck with your decision.

03-08-2012, 09:38 AM	#37
POOKY Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: newark, DE Posts: 22	They are all cute, I would go for the boy who followed you around.. instinct. Plus my boy bonded with me, which is why I chose a boy instead of a girl. He loves my husband, but my hubby says he's considered chopped liver once I'm in the house. :-)

03-08-2012, 10:31 AM	#39
Stacey8221 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Henderson Posts: 189	Thank you all so much for all of your advice!! You have all given me a lot to think about! I am going to email the breeder today and set up another meeting with the puppies! Everyone cross your fingers that the boy will still be available when I get to go see them! I'm so afraid someone will buy him!

03-08-2012, 11:08 AM	#42
Stacey8221 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Henderson Posts: 189	What do you mean by "color reflected by the eyes"?